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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: nocry

<font size="2" color="#cc0000">Insensitivity from Dev? I really hoped that he would become friend with soha and then confront Sona but the way he talked to sona in the precap and family behaved i felt , is he a hero or villian???</font>

<font size="2" color="#cc0000">For those who try to bring Sona for each question asked against Dev please answer on what he done or not done try to even justify that. But the way you respond shows you are playing tit for tat . What do you think she is a child not an object.</font>
<font size="2" color="#cc0000">Has the child prepared to know the truth or see him? Moreover he and his family was thinking of taking the girl with out even informing the mother ...just leave the hero DEV/Shaheer ...in a normal real life situation if that happened to a child , is it right?</font>

<font size="2" color="#cc0000">what do they want ? just take a control over the child and make her leave the mother or the people with whom she is living ? can it be a "just like" decision?</font>
<font size="2" color="#cc0000">I was shocked totally. Iam also afraid , is there a possibility for Devakshi????</font>




Precisely... all dev sympathizers dont care about the emotions of a 6 yr old as long as they get to blame sona for everything and also thier dear dev is happy ... they are happy.
For last two days i was scared that he would induce schizophrenia in soha with his stalking activities..
Edited by dlavanya - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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8 saal ke bache ko aise blame nahi karte...

These are baby talks between 8year old boy and 6 year old girl...!!!!

Kuch nahi samajte aap log 😉

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: dlavanya



No comments.. as clearly all u want to talk about is sonakshi when i am talking about just this scene of dev and soha.. and what my expectations are from an adult.
Dev doesnt know anything about what soha is thinking and he clearly didnt have to go all in given that soha already told him that her mom told her dad is good man. He should have just talked to sonakshi and threatened her that he would go and reveal it to soha if she doesnt arrange it -- i would have accepted it .. but shocking a 6 yr old and saying that i am ur dad is just insensitive.



The discussion is incomplete without talking about Sonakshi...the 6yrs girl was shocked ..the question that comes to my mind is why was she scared and when I think of answers everything connects back to Sonakshi.One cannot say let's only talk about Soha's behavior without discussing the environment she was brought up ...

Even if Dev had revealed after years Soha would be in the same position ...shocked ..the ideal way would be if the mother she is close to would have spend sometime on introducing the duo ...anyway like you said there is much to discuss here as we have stated our opinion and we are unable to convince each other why we feel so ...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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All that I saw today was a child being in trauma because of the insensitivity of the parents.

What was Dev Dixit thinking? That Soha would run into his arms and call him 'Papa' the very next moment? If learning the truth about Soha' existence brought him sheer happiness, he thought Soha would feel the same meeting her dad for the first time since her birth. But that's not how it was for the poor kid. I couldn't have expected anything better from Dev because he is that insensitive and immature when it comes to relationships.

And what was Sonakshi thinking? That Dev would never figure out the presence of a little girl in his life and wouldn't make an attempt to know the relation that Sonakshi shares with her? Knowing the stalking habits of Dev, couldn't Sonakshi figure out what he was capable of?

It was utter insensitivity of both the parents to not sort their issues mutually in a dignified and respectful manner which led to the child being in trauma for no mistake of hers.
Edited by aadk - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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There was a relevance for showing Dev's immature dealing of Suhana. Now he knows that the route to Suhana lies through Sonakshi and if he doesn't want to emotionally injure Suhana irrevocably he has to take it slow and with Sona's blessings. CV'S are smart people, they are not boka.


They correctly showed that Dev is a first time father and doesn't understand children)(playing with a child and parenting are different). Common sense should have been imparted to him by Ishwari but then she doesn't have any sense forget common sense. What was she planning to do, keep the child minus her mother?
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: ltelidevara



Yes Ofcourse. There should be some reason to make Dev look selfish,impulsive and I forgot insensitive. So he is made to do things his way. But I liked his move. Why should he be blamed? All these years he stayed away from his daughter. After knowing the truth he just could not stop himself from meeting her as a father. Good going Dev,I wish you all the happiness in the world .
Nitu let us celebrate the father daughter Milan.



Lakshmi, well said .It time to celebrate that truth is out and father and daughter get to know each other .

They just need a reason to blame Dev ..I find it so funny that suddenly a 6yrs old girl emotions was important ..where was this concern when the child missed its father and was forced to act she doesn't want to meet so that her mom is happy ...where was this concern when Bijoy Bose was yelling on top of his voice when Soha wanted to meet her father ...

I liked that Dev did not manipulate the little girl ..he came out clean .
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Posted: 8 years ago
#37

Originally posted by: yyy



Soha a big girl who was given the decision to decide whether to meet her father or not became a small 6yrs girl who could not handle the truth . There are two ways of seeing this ..Dev could have manipulated Soha by being Golu's bigcha and could have lied to her till she gets comfortable or say the truth to her .I am glad he did say truth instead of manipulating the small girl .

Soha is in shock because she wasn't prepared to meet her father and also the little girl is in dilemma that how would her mother feel if she openly interacts with her father ...I would definitely hold Sonakshi responsible for this state as a single mother it was her duty to prepare the kid when she meets his father ...she just gave the option to the kid to look good in others eyes but never prepared the kid to face her father .On other hand she let her family manipulate her daughter,scare her whenever she wanted to meet her father ..I can see Ishwari's traits ...is Dev the one who filled the poison into Soha's mind that meeting her father means making his mom unhappy ?


Well said Nitu. When Sonakshi informed Soha about her father she is praised for her honesty. Then Soha 's age is not taken into account. But if Dev reveals himself he is selfish and insensitive. Like you said Soha was never prepared well for the inevitable.I feel Soha is more worried about her mother's reaction and that curbed her pleasure of meeting her father.



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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: ltelidevara


Well said Nitu. When Sonakshi informed Soha about her father she is praised for her honesty. Then Soha 's age is not taken into account. But if Dev reveals himself he is selfish and insensitive. Like you said Soha was never prepared well for the inevitable.I feel Soha is more worried about her mother's reaction and that curbed her pleasure of meeting her father.





Precisely.. when family gives the young choice that is a previlage and definitely a stranger walks in and reveals that he is her dad that is insensitive and spooky.. there is nothing understandable in that act ... purely selfish
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: ltelidevara


Well said Nitu. When Sonakshi informed Soha about her father she is praised for her honesty. Then Soha 's age is not taken into account. But if Dev reveals himself he is selfish and insensitive. Like you said Soha was never prepared well for the inevitable.I feel Soha is more worried about her mother's reaction and that curbed her pleasure of meeting her father.






There is a universal rule in this forum ..everything Sonakshi does is praise worthy and whatever Dev does has to be wrong .

Imagine if Dev had his about Soha from Sonakshi then wvwry other post would talk about redemption,mother's rights but since it's other way around it's mother's right to do what she pleases with her kid ...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: yyy



There is a universal rule in this forum ..everything Sonakshi does is praise worthy and whatever Dev does has to be wrong .

Imagine if Dev had his about Soha from Sonakshi then wvwry other post would talk about redemption,mother's rights but since it's other way around it's mother's right to do what she pleases with her kid ...

Yes exactly. In any situation at any cost Dev should be criticised,bashed and ridiculed. Forum functions by that rule.

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