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Posted: 8 years ago
#21

Originally posted by: yyy

He should learn from his ex wife on how to hide the truth for years ...if Sona was responsible enough to make them meet this could be avoided but again whatever Dev does has to be wrong

How dare he question Sonakshi who hid the truth for years ..how dare he question her instead of begging her ..how dare he wants to meet his daughter



Given a situation... no matter what the past is .. as an adult and as the father of the child . He should have been sensitive ... i am amazed how easy it is to blame sona for everything that doesnt go the way dixits want..

Dev should have talked to sona first or atleast revealed when atleast one bose family member is around - that is basic common sense.. i am talking about the aituation here . Dont bring in the past of what sona could have done etc. soha clearly said she doesnt want to meet father .. dev just rubbed it in her face with out waiting for the right moment

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Posted: 8 years ago
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He gave his 6 yr old daughter no time to get ready be prepared to face and accept such an earth shattering truth.. even an adult would need time and mental preparedness to face such an life-altering truth and he just impulsively sprung it to her ..What did he expect ?? Soha will jump and hug him !! It's time for him to come to the earth.
Sona ko to pata hi nehi today her daughter was going to die because of Dev's rash and extremely insensitive act .
Poor Soha , she looked tormented , lifeless and naturally shattered since she learnt the truth.
Won't forgive Dev for putting his own daughter through this.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#23

Originally posted by: yyy



I remember that and I can very confidently say it was bandaid scene to protect Sonakshi's character .

From the initial episodes Sonakshi herself claimed Dev did not know about Soha's existence and she admitted she is scared of losing her daughter if Dev comes to know .So it's clear that Sona knew Dev doesn't know anything about the baby ..so it can't be him who shove her away from his house ...so she decided to go away because someone refused to allow her to meet Dev ..really ? She always claimed unlike Dev he knows how his mother never accepted her or their relationship or how his mami was behind all this ..,so she decided to keep away Soha because some other people asked her not to meet Dev ..is this a good reason ? So she gave importance to Ish more than Dev ..what's the difference between her and spineless man he claims Dev to be ...in today's world please don't tell me those Dixit stopped her from meeting Dev ..

Secondly , why did it take her 1.5 yrs to come out and admit they had a daughter...was this decision taken at spur of moment and later she realized it's best for her if the truth is hidden...




@yyy I also feel its totally a band aid scene to save sonkashi character , if she really wanted dev to know about the baby she would have... but my complaint was cant they show dev being concerned for Sona at least for a while how in this world with no roof she managed such hard time before blaming for hiding such big thing... for god sake she is lady u loved man...
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Posted: 8 years ago
#24

Originally posted by: shruti.

Through out the episode i thought it was dream sequence 😭 how can dev b insensitive ,m really upset wid dev's behaviour. He hasnt changed a bit


He is same old mamas son Dev only ...No maturity at all ...Good that soha is with sona ...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: dlavanya



Given a situation... no matter what the past is .. as an adult and as the father of the child . He should have been sensitive ... i am amazed how easy it is to blame sona for everything that doesnt go the way dixits want..

Dev should have talked to sona first or atleast revealed when atleast one bose family member is around - that is basic common sense.. i am talking about the aituation here . Dont bring in the past of what sona could have done etc. soha clearly said she doesnt want to meet father .. dev just rubbed it in her face with out waiting for the right moment



Soha a big girl who was given the decision to decide whether to meet her father or not became a small 6yrs girl who could not handle the truth . There are two ways of seeing this ..Dev could have manipulated Soha by being Golu's bigcha and could have lied to her till she gets comfortable or say the truth to her .I am glad he did say truth instead of manipulating the small girl .

Soha is in shock because she wasn't prepared to meet her father and also the little girl is in dilemma that how would her mother feel if she openly interacts with her father ...I would definitely hold Sonakshi responsible for this state as a single mother it was her duty to prepare the kid when she meets his father ...she just gave the option to the kid to look good in others eyes but never prepared the kid to face her father .On other hand she let her family manipulate her daughter,scare her whenever she wanted to meet her father ..I can see Ishwari's traits ...is Dev the one who filled the poison into Soha's mind that meeting her father means making his mom unhappy ?
Edited by yyyy - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
#26

Originally posted by: Itsveena



What good?? He thinks about him and not about his daughter either




He knows that Soha misses her father as she recited in her story.
He knows that she feels emptiness but doesn't show it to anyone...just the way Sona hid her feelings
That's why he repeatedly asked Soha...do u miss ur father...do u wanna meet him?!!
Before telling her that he is her father!
He didn't want her for himself but he too wants that Soha should want him!😳
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Insensitivity from Dev? I really hoped that he would become friend with soha and then confront Sona but the way he talked to sona in the precap and family behaved i felt , is he a hero or villian???

For those who try to bring Sona for each question asked against Dev please answer on what he done or not done try to even justify that. But the way you respond shows you are playing tit for tat . What do you think she is a child not an object.
Has the child prepared to know the truth or see him? Moreover he and his family was thinking of taking the girl with out even informing the mother ...just leave the hero DEV/Shaheer ...in a normal real life situation if that happened to a child , is it right?

what do they want ? just take a control over the child and make her leave the mother or the people with whom she is living ? can it be a "just like" decision?
I was shocked totally. Iam also afraid , is there a possibility for Devakshi????

Edited by nocry - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I think he had no other option.Not defending Dev.
But if we r watching a realistic show then reality mein aisa hi hota.
His way was really simple and straight.He didn't manipulate the child or didn't say Rosie baatein about himself or usne apni mistake ko justify karne ki koshish bhi nahi ki ,jab Soha said ki jab Dev Dixit Meri mama ko khush nahi rakh Paye toh mujhe kaise rakhenge.
Dev ne apne ko force bhi nahi kiya .
Aur koi serial hota toh definitely iss ko 1week tak drag kar Deta.
Bus main ishwari ki Khushi tolerate nahi kar paa rahi hun.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#29

Originally posted by: yyy

He should learn from his ex wife on how to hide the truth for years ...if Sona was responsible enough to make them meet this could be avoided but again whatever Dev does has to be wrong

How dare he question Sonakshi who hid the truth for years ..how dare he question her instead of begging her ..how dare he wants to meet his daughter


Yes Ofcourse. There should be some reason to make Dev look selfish,impulsive and I forgot insensitive. So he is made to do things his way. But I liked his move. Why should he be blamed? All these years he stayed away from his daughter. After knowing the truth he just could not stop himself from meeting her as a father. Good going Dev,I wish you all the happiness in the world .
Nitu let us celebrate the father daughter Milan.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#30

Originally posted by: yyy



Soha a big girl who was given the decision to decide whether to meet her father or not became a small 6yrs girl who could not handle the truth . There are two ways of seeing this ..Dev could have manipulated Soha by being Golu's bigcha and could have lied to her till she gets comfortable or say the truth to her .I am glad he did say truth instead of manipulating the small girl .

Soha is in shock because she wasn't prepared to meet her father and also the little girl is in dilemma that how would her mother feel if she openly interacts with her father ...I would definitely hold Sonakshi responsible for this state as a single mother it was her duty to prepare the kid when she meets his father ...she just gave the option to the kid to look good in others eyes but never prepared the kid to face her father .On other hand she let her family manipulate her daughter,scare her whenever she wanted to meet her father ..I can see Ishwari's traits ...is Dev the one who filled the poison into Soha's mind that meeting her father means making his mom unhappy ?



No comments.. as clearly all u want to talk about is sonakshi when i am talking about just this scene of dev and soha.. and what my expectations are from an adult.
Dev doesnt know anything about what soha is thinking and he clearly didnt have to go all in given that soha already told him that her mom told her dad is good man. He should have just talked to sonakshi and threatened her that he would go and reveal it to soha if she doesnt arrange it -- i would have accepted it .. but shocking a 6 yr old and saying that i am ur dad is just insensitive.

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