Apne Toh apne hote hai - Page 2

Created

Last reply

Replies

26

Views

3.5k

Users

11

Likes

136

Frequent Posters

Jade0001 thumbnail
12th Anniversary Thumbnail Sparkler Thumbnail + 2
Posted: 8 years ago
#11
Fantastic post

Today I really felt bad that Elena had to cut ties with her family the love in her eyes as she remembers her past while Dev is so impatient he needs to know about the little girl Suhana
Bijoy no surprises there trying to hide Soha from Elena so Dev never finds out about his daughter is just ugly
I can understand that the Bose family has welcomed Elena but they don't trust her as she is Dixit DIL
Bijoy is a father too yet he is intentionally stealing Soha's rights from her

Its true Bijoy too played a part in destroying DevAkshi's marriage
he was subtle he never overdid like Ishwari but he too was pulling his daughter from one end while Ishwari was pulling her son from the other end

survika1111 thumbnail
9th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail + 3
Posted: 8 years ago
#12

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

This is exactly what I thought seeing the way they welcomed Elina. They had never accepted Dev in the first place. Especially after the first break up...and Bijoy is slightly prejudiced too...he prefers Bengali damadh...lol...No matter what Elina knew how much her MIL and Husband hates Sona...so how could she fall in love with this guy...and Elope...

I have never understood Elina...I feel she is very selfish...how can you fall in love with a man who hates your sister and has tried causing harm to your sister...if She had fallen in love with Vicky with out knowing that Vicky hates Sona then its fine...but she knew everything about him!!

Nice she ended up with him ...see the way she is being treated in the family even by Dev...she is basically been made use when ever they want...she has no value in that house...She deserves it !!




Exactly..elena First of all is the most selfish 1..she Only go there where she finds her happiness.and the Dumbest as well..i was actulally suprised By Her Thoghts,..That she was calling everyone selfish..what she done she has forgotten That..

Bijoy is hopeless U know.He only can Talk about relations ..but at the end he is also somewhere like ishwari..when it is matter to his fa,mily nothing is wrong..But when the same thing is done by other for their family That Is Kind of sin..I am now happy that ele got vikky..she deserves that.cause neuther she listen to sona Nor dev..If dev was Not there She wouldd have been used as a product By Gkb and vikky i can bet on that
.kashishbano. thumbnail
9th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail Commentator Level 1 Thumbnail
Posted: 8 years ago
#13
Wonderful, Brilliant, Fantastic,Bang on and To The Point Post.👏

Hats off and Round applause for You dear for this post.

You have covered all the points where boses was partial towards Dixits.

And from the bottom of my heart I cent percent agree on each of it.

I really got pissed off with the way Bose family behaved today.

From the beginning itself I found Ishwari and Bijoy as Mirror image.

Sona call Dev a Mamma's boy...what she is.She is Daddy's girl.
when there is no wrong in her respect and concern towards father then why Dev is wrong.

As far as i remember whenever ishwari or Gkb accuses sona infront of Dev he took the stand but when Bijoy accuses accuses sona didn't even utter a word.

If Dev does not stand he is spineless, if sona does not stand for Dev then what she is.

There are so many incidence where boses are at fault but they are able to see other mistakes only.
If ishwari soes not accept Sona as DIL...same case with the Bijoy too.
He never left a chance to show that Dev is wrong even if he is helping his son.

If dev helps he is showing power of money and hurting their self respect and If Jatin helps he is a family member.
wow Mr.Bijoy Bose ...

And fully agree that Boses are equally responsible for Devakshi separation.

And i didn't like bijoy today even for a millisecond...They welcomed elena who is what you gave a perfect explanation heartily welcomed her but how he wants to hide soha from her father😡..Hate it.

If Bijoy ordered Maid that soha should not come infront of anyone, he is not wrong as he is cares his daughter and if Dev ask elena to find out then he is selfish...WHAT A JUSTICE😡

And i too will not find Dev wrong if he goes to any extreme to get Soha.But does not want him like these two great souls Bijwari...He will surely think for soha and handle the situation with maturity as he gone through the same situation.

And again your P.S...👏 ⭐️ 👏



Edited by .kashishbano. - 8 years ago
.kashishbano. thumbnail
9th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail Commentator Level 1 Thumbnail
Posted: 8 years ago
#14
If Boses Do something for each other..They are family and if Dixits done something they are selfish and Insane.

Yeh kahan ka insaaf hai.
sajinifaby thumbnail
16th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail + 5
Posted: 8 years ago
#15
Nadia, thanks for this post...
yes i agree almost wholly with you... just a small bit.. I might have a slight confusion/disagreement...

Seriously.. i find it too shocking that after 7 years...Bose Family is not affected with Elena's sudden presence in their home... just unbelievable...

She was living in Bose Khandan only, when she eloped with Vikki the useless..
toh tab uska brain kaam kyun nahi kiya...

I would not want to compare the 2 families... but there is no such family in the world which is like perfect 10/10 also...

what I want to convey that... drawing contrasts in every situation as black and white.. and no grey.. its kinda weird to me...

I felt Asha really on the spot...n Dadi too..
Rest all.. a bit too much to digest at one go...

I expected the Boses to be polite but reserved/cold with Elena. I didn't think they will give her enthusiastic heroine return welcome with group hug in front of guests, who is unfamiliar to the whole family..

What's even worse.. no FB as justification for Elena, as to why she never tried to keep in touch with her family, knowing they were thrown out from their home...

Cvs, you disappoint me.. I just want you to show a real family.. not a perfect family...that's all...😊

And like Nadia said, if Elena's mistakes are easily forgiven why not for Soha's sake you do that for Dev? How can you expect Soha to be truthful n mature enough at 6 years old?

What's Dev's greatest mistake? That he slapped Bijoy? Allowed insult of Bijoy? Asked Sona to leave home? Throwing out of their home? Prenup?

Is it really unfamiliar to them... to listen to his part too?


Now where I slightly disagree with you..
I find for today Bijoy hiding Soha fine... As he can sense Elena is a traitor.. and she totally does not deserve to know about Soha... and for that I'm feeling good.. That allowed a growth in Dev.. as to be man enough to go to the deep to know about his daughter Suhana...

Ishwari on the other end, biggest hypocrite I've ever known... Knows when to speak, when to keep mute, when to faint, when to cry, when to manipulate... such a pity!!!! I wish she was dead...and Dev just don't have a tear drop also for her..!!!

i do not want Dev to go to extremes like either of these 2...
but want to give that space to Soha and allow her to choose what her heart says...and pls no custody... no more separation pls...

yes a confrontation scene... where all of their past and FBs rightly justify... and the trio join hands to sort out all issues the way they are...

mayu1982 thumbnail
15th Anniversary Thumbnail Sparkler Thumbnail + 5
Posted: 8 years ago
#16
Very well written post Survi 😃

Apne toh apne hote hai..

The day Elena got married to Vicky and her & his kand was accepted in two minutes - actually showed true colors of Bose family.

Bose family was equally bad as DIXIT - they struggled to accept Son-in - law Dev Dixit but was ready to accept Vicky as son in law .

Forget about Elena - am dead sure they will welcome and accept Vicky the kamina in two minutes.

Bujoy Bose is equally culprit and third grade person as Ishwari - in fact more than ishwari.

Ishwari is not educated - doesn't know right and wrong , doesn't get bookish knowledge but BUJOY is most literate gawar in the whole universe.

As far as Suhana part is concerned - I have raise same question in different post - If suhana was raised by Dev and Dixit instead of Bose ..
And Ishwari or Dev hide Suhana thinking Sonakshi will snatch her from them ?

Raise your hand how many of you will think Ishwari's actions as protection of grand-daughter?

If sonkashi has right to know about Suhana so is then Dev Dixit.
If Ishwari act would you consider as selfish and pathetic then Bujoy action should also consider as pathetic and selfish.

I am against of gender discrimination. Rules should be equal for both.
Same situation - people are following different rules- still am childish 😉🤔😎

P.S. Nice post. Pls don't quote my post other than @TM and am not liable to give justification for my thinking .High use of colors and fonts on your post😆
Edited by mayu1982 - 8 years ago
survika1111 thumbnail
9th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail + 3
Posted: 8 years ago
#17

Originally posted by: M.soni

By the way can some one answer me who gave bijoy right to hidden soha...who the hell he is to think k soha ka relation kis se hona chaye ya kis ko uske bare me pata hona chaye etc..sona zinda hai ab bhi.soha se related faisla lene ka haq bose house me uska hai..bijoy ya asha ka nahi.. and in dexit only dev has this right...


Lol..Ye Bhi Koi Batane ki baat hai..bijoy Ki habit hai Na Har kisiki Esp.sona Ke life me apni Taang adhane Ka..He Himself Call a father But try to hide soha From her father..What a man of principles yaar..principles suicide kr lenge isko dekh ke😆
survika1111 thumbnail
9th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail + 3
Posted: 8 years ago
#18

Originally posted by: cscs

Elena k 100 khoon bhi maaf afterall khoon khoon hota hai. 😆

I always thought they never had any expectations from Elena n now when she is back toh Boses are like chalo thik hai. But they dnt trust her for sure.


ye accha tha waise😆😆
survika1111 thumbnail
9th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail + 3
Posted: 8 years ago
#19

Originally posted by: Jade0001

Fantastic post

Today I really felt bad that Elena had to cut ties with her family the love in her eyes as she remembers her past while Dev is so impatient he needs to know about the little girl Suhana
Bijoy no surprises there trying to hide Soha from Elena so Dev never finds out about his daughter is just ugly
I can understand that the Bose family has welcomed Elena but they don't trust her as she is Dixit DIL
Bijoy is a father too yet he is intentionally stealing Soha's rights from her

Its true Bijoy too played a part in destroying DevAkshi's marriage
he was subtle he never overdid like Ishwari but he too was pulling his daughter from one end while Ishwari was pulling her son from the other end




Thanks ..

Ya Bijoy Is Playing The same as ishwari does with her son

but i really don't feel bad for elena.this pain of her is all chosen by her.once she hurt the boses by marrying vikky on top of that despite of trying to correct the mistake she again did sth stupid.so it's her own fate.no one else is blamed for that.
survika1111 thumbnail
9th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail + 3
Posted: 8 years ago
#20

Originally posted by: .kashishbano.

Wonderful, Brilliant, Fantastic,Bang on and To The Point Post.👏


Hats off and Round applause for You dear for this post.

You have covered all the points where boses was partial towards Dixits.

And from the bottom of my heart I cent percent agree on each of it.

I really got pissed off with the way Bose family behaved today.

From the beginning itself I found Ishwari and Bijoy as Mirror image.

Sona call Dev a Mamma's boy...what she is.She is Daddy's girl.
when there is no wrong in her respect and concern towards father then why Dev is wrong.

As far as i remember whenever ishwari or Gkb accuses sona infront of Dev he took the stand but when Bijoy accuses accuses sona didn't even utter a word.

If Dev does not stand he is spineless, if sona does not stand for Dev then what she is.

There are so many incidence where boses are at fault but they are able to see other mistakes only.
If ishwari soes not accept Sona as DIL...same case with the Bijoy too.
He never left a chance to show that Dev is wrong even if he is helping his son.

If dev helps he is showing power of money and hurting their self respect and If Jatin helps he is a family member.
wow Mr.Bijoy Bose ...

And fully agree that Boses are equally responsible for Devakshi separation.

And i didn't like bijoy today even for a millisecond...They welcomed elena who is what you gave a perfect explanation heartily welcomed her but how he wants to hide soha from her father😡..Hate it.

If Bijoy ordered Maid that soha should not come infront of anyone, he is not wrong as he is cares his daughter and if Dev ask elena to find out then he is selfish...WHAT A JUSTICE😡

And i too will not find Dev wrong if he goes to any extreme to get Soha.But does not want him like these two great souls Bijwari...He will surely think for soha and handle the situation with maturity as he gone through the same situation.

And again your P.S...👏 ⭐️ 👏





Thasnk You sooo Much adiii...I copy Ur lines

If dev is mumma Boy theen sona Is definitely a Daddy's girl

If sona feel bad When Her family is Hurt Then what is wrong If Dev Reacts when he found his family in pain

Sona wants dev Not listen all The Time to His Mom..what the hell then she Did..She didn't even Take a single step without His father's consent.Lol,..funny

If a girl support an take Her Family side That is called her brought Up is perfect..But if a son do so That is called Spineless behaviour

Sick Mentality That is...Being a father bijoy can Hide Soha For his Daughter's happiness But who gave him right To Snatch soha's happiness to meet his father..and dev's right to meet his daughter

this dad-dauhter duo is sometimes more pathetic than the mother son

Related Topics

Top

Stay Connected with IndiaForums!

Be the first to know about the latest news, updates, and exclusive content.

Add to Home Screen!

Install this web app on your iPhone for the best experience. It's easy, just tap and then "Add to Home Screen".