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sameera

@Sameera776

Voyager

Posted: 8 years ago

#41

Originally posted by: ---Andromeda---
High Five!!! Poora ka poora dibba of Mentos usko khila dena chahiye.

Uski dimag ki halat jo hai Mentos bhi har man jayegi 🤣

Edited by Sameera776 - 8 years ago

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Tia.0

@Tia.0

Sparkler

+ 6

Posted: 8 years ago

#42

Sure. I will tell you. Dev's biggest fault is not setting up expectations and relationship boundaries. When a man expects that his wife will leave her life and family for him and live with his family and make his life, there are certain responsibilities that he needs to take in return.

1. Make sure his wife is comfortable settling in with a new family. The family is his comfort blanket, but for her it might not be.

2. Make sure her respect, honour and dignity are not being challenged by any member of his family and she is confident of her place in his life by standing by her side.

3. Make sure that both his family and his wife know what is their relationship boundary. For example: Their bedroom at all times should only be entered after knocking and waiting for permission to enter and no one should jump in when he is having any discussion with his wife. It's a matter between husband and wife.

4. Spending time with his wife so that they can build the intimacy and comfort level with each other. Married life is different from dating life. The comfort level needs to be there.

Without going into the much discussed details from before, let's take current scenario. Dev has convinced Golu that there is no one more important to him that Golu. Now he finds out about Suhana. What will he do then? Will he tell Suhana that she should show "understanding" because Golu and he has spent 7 years together and he comes first always? Then expecting the same thing from a wife that a mother is an older relationship and should come first is unfair as well. Because a mother might have had a longer relationship due to past. But the wife will be a longer relationship in the future because mothers, as much as we want to, don't live forever. Will then a mother's importance go down because of less long duration than wife?

That was Dev's fault. The situation he is in today, was because he did not balance his relationships. He would have been forgiven had he acknowledged and regretted his part in this. But the fact that he is placing all blames on others and thinking exactly what you said, "What's my fault?" is why he is at fault.

Originally posted by: sowiee
Di, a small request..
I know I m not that experienced in life like you.. I just wanted to know out of curiosity that is it only fault of Dev that their relationship is in this state ??

Is that just a man who has spine is enough to handle a situation ??

I m always a silent reader of ur posts... I think u have seen me rarely posting comments on ur posts .

I m really asking u wanted to know that's it ... Not that I m opposing u ...

I just wanted to know where is Dev at fault ???

What exactly a women should expect from a men ?? Being a father , husband n son...

I hope I dint sound rude ..

P.s. pls note that I m asking this to know out of ur experience so that I learn something not that I m opposing u..Hope u understand

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Tia.0

@Tia.0

Sparkler

+ 6

Posted: 8 years ago

#43

Dev ka dimaag bhi na meri direction sense ki tarha hain... Jab bhi nikalta hain, hamesha raasta bhatak jaata hain.

Originally posted by: dreamy.tiara
My reaction on watching Dev's conclusion about Suhana's paternity:

How does he do... oops, i mean "ace" in business with such logic skills?😲😆😆

I have a simpler solution. Ask Soha who her father is. Saves time and energy. 😉 (and resulting confusion😆).

By the way, awesome post, as usual 👍🏼

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sowiee

@sowiee

Dazzler

Posted: 8 years ago

#44

Originally posted by: tia.o
Sure. I will tell you. Dev's biggest fault is not setting up expectations and relationship boundaries. When a man expects that his wife will leave her life and family for him and live with his family and make his life, there are certain responsibilities that he needs to take in return.

1. Make sure his wife is comfortable settling in with a new family. The family is his comfort blanket, but for her it might not be.

2. Make sure her respect, honour and dignity are not being challenged by any member of his family and she is confident of her place in his life by standing by her side.

3. Make sure that both his family and his wife know what is their relationship boundary. For example: Their bedroom at all times should only be entered after knocking and waiting for permission to enter and no one should jump in when he is having any discussion with his wife. It's a matter between husband and wife.

4. Spending time with his wife so that they can build the intimacy and comfort level with each other. Married life is different from dating life. The comfort level needs to be there.

Without going into the much discussed details from before, let's take current scenario. Dev has convinced Golu that there is no one more important to him that Golu. Now he finds out about Suhana. What will he do then? Will he tell Suhana that she should show "understanding" because Golu and he has spent 7 years together and he comes first always? Then expecting the same thing from a wife that a mother is an older relationship and should come first is unfair as well. Because a mother might have had a longer relationship due to past. But the wife will be a longer relationship in the future because mothers, as much as we want to, don't live forever. Will then a mother's importance go down because of less long duration than wife?

That was Dev's fault. The situation he is in today, was because he did not balance his relationships. He would have been forgiven had he acknowledged and regretted his part in this. But the fact that he is placing all blames on others and thinking exactly what you said, "What's my fault?" is why he is at fault.

Thanks a lot... Can u brief me even the fault of Sona..

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randommusings

@randommusings

Sparkler

Posted: 8 years ago

#45

Confusion, Confusion, Confusion

Dev believed Golu when he said Jatin is Soha's dad but didn't believe him when Golu said Sona is Soha's mother.

Dev was about to tell Golu Sona cannot be a mother but later he thinks if Sona n him were together they wud hav had a girl just like Soha 😲 I mean how ...

Dev Soha scenes are really good but again CVs are going extra mile with it. Why wud Dev ignore Golu who has been the sole reason for his happiness for last 7yrs for a this new friend who happens to be his arch rival Jatin's daughter. N Soha saying dialogues like 'apna kaam khud karna chahiye' out of nowhere. N till now everyday Sona used to drop Soha to school.

Ish saw how Dev reacted just by seeing Jatin n Sona having lunch. Why wud shd lie abt their wedding...can't she think it can have devastating impact on Dev...wat if he harms himself.

P.S. Loved how Sona reacted to Bijoy's match making. Bijoy can't even see this wud hurt Jatin eventually.

Edited by randommusings - 8 years ago

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Tia.0

@Tia.0

Sparkler

+ 6

Posted: 8 years ago

#46

Andro, did you see Kung Fu Panda 3?

Po sees Panda 2 (they look identical, behave identical and even has identical brain)

Panda 2: I lost my son.

Po: I lost my father.

Panda 2: I am looking for my son.

Po: Oh wow... Well, all the best for your search...

Janta: #FACEPALM

Here's the link. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VpZmXQ_QKXo

Originally posted by: ---Andromeda---
Tia darling!!! Aaj ke episode ke baad mera dimaagi santulan thoda sa hil gaya hai.
Dev se zyada akal toh gadhe aur ullo main hoti hai.🤪Now I am wondering ki iss bande ne itna bada empire set kiya toh kiya kaise???😕

Yeh toh koi ullo bhi guess kar deta that Soha Sona ki beti hai.Phir aapki akal ko kya hogaya Dev Babu????

Arrey konse planet par Suhana BOSE Jatin ROY ki beti hogi??? Woh Bachi baar baar Miss Bose Miss Bose kiye jaa rahi thi.Aur aap Bhaisaab apni kismat ko kose jaa rahe thay.

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486792

Hibernated

Posted: 8 years ago

#47

Originally posted by: Push-pull

🤣

Now Dev wouldn't even believe a DNA report.. Sona can be rest assured that Dev will not claim rights on Soha.. 😉😆

Yup!! Even if Sona goes and tells him the truth on his face he won't believe it.She has got nothing to be scared off.😆😆

Dev jaise tubelight ne itna bada empire set kiya toh kiya kaise??

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Tia.0

@Tia.0

Sparkler

+ 6

Posted: 8 years ago

#48

CVs ka favourite food hain Palak ki Khichdi. Hamare dimaag ka bhi raita ghot le, to khichdi ke saath achcha rahega.

Originally posted by: Tinkerfairy
Ye kuch nahi Hain aage chal Ke kichdi banane ka mamla Hain. 100 percent they are going for High voltage drama of insecurity 🤢 custody drama.

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shailu

@rs-shailu29

Stunner

+ 3

Posted: 8 years ago

#49

loll tia 7 pepsi🤣hillarious raees analysis ...

dev is like "ma ne kaha sona ko chodo sona ne kaha ma ko chodo ma ne na dimaag use karna hi chod di"

halwa ka ka ke dimmag chuleme jalgaya ...ishwari ki asar dev par chadgaya raja beta ma ka ladla bigad gaya...

cant trust cvs today they showed devakshi saying no to marriage but precap kuch aur kichdi pak rahi hai ...i gift u guys

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486792

Hibernated

Posted: 8 years ago

#50

Originally posted by: tia.o
Andro, did you see Kung Fu Panda 3?

Po sees Panda 2 (they look identical, behave identical and even has identical brain)

Panda 2: I lost my son.

Po: I lost my father.

Panda 2: I am looking for my son.

Po: Oh wow... Well, all the best for your search...

Janta: #FACEPALM

Here's the link. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VpZmXQ_QKXo