Soha's truth : Reality Vs. Idealism.. - Page 2

I hope sona gives dixits the valid reasons of not sharing the news rather then stupid reason like i was scared..!!!!!

Originally posted by: randomramblings

hi Pk,

i agree with you . sona using soha's reluctance to call her dad cannot be an excuse or a valid reason for her to hide soha from dev.

dev dixit may be powerful and a maa bhakt, but a pre nup is a very powerful legal document. let's not make a mockery of it . sona being educated and having a fair share of friends, there is no way she would have been jobless for long and would have scummed to hunger or forced to return back the child to him due to financial status. she has ample means to provide for basic necessities of her kid.

her fearing dev dixit itself is meaningless. if she feared he could go to any extent, then in the first place she would have stuck with him under all circumstances. once she stepped out and a divorce happened, there will be no bond between the spouses unless they "LEGALLY REMARRY". unfortunately everyone is getting carried away like Ishwari and not looking into how the law works.

well knowingly or unknowingly, Ishwari has with her own hands ruined her son's life . dev knowing about soha but unable to do anything about it , rotting because of the revelation would have been an ideal death blow to the Ishwari.

Originally posted by: chucklebuddy

True. Ideal world vs. Reality. :)

Every father deserves to know about his kid. If the parents are facing a separation, it should not affect the kid in any way. Somehow, the infertility track contributed a majority to the separation track.

For me, one solid reason is Dev telling "Ek aur duty tumne poori nahi ki.. tum maa nahi ban sakti.. achi baat hai.. varna tum kabhi achi maa nahi ban sakti" This can be the sole reason for not keeping Dev updated about his daughter. Stranded on the roads with no emotional or financial assistance is dreadful. If at all Dev gets to know of the identity of Soha, he should empathize with Sona for rising up from the ashes and bringing their daughter up with the right morals and principles. :)

Originally posted by: Push-pull

"When I truly believe Sona's stated reason in yesterday's episode was an amazingly bullshit reason, since a 6-yr old child cannot decide anything for herself, I also believe Sona has at least 10-20 VALID reasons to NOT share the news with Dev till now. "

Sona quoting fear as her reason - Though I would like to see her really reasoning her fears and be prepared for it, I'm ok as she at least will think through it to start with. Slowly she can give deep thoughts and come up with options for her own to handle the situation if it arises. She blindfolding herself and postponing the inevitable is proving her to be low in confidence level thus needing someone to support her all the time... She need not be right and perfect all the time but can't she be daring enough to be strong in her own POV? I know the CVs are still playing safe with her thought process and do not want to juggle much with her characterization for want of not losing the sympathy on her by the TRP audience 😆

I would have loved Sona to have raged when Jatin asked about sharing the news with Dev... If only she could have just asked "Why should I share the news with him? Does he really bother about me having a baby or me getting lost from the world... Does he really care?"😉

I too was disappointed with Sona quoting that she did ask Soha and she said no... This was something a weak script and lazy dialogue that this CV normally do for Sonakshi... I'm ok she being a mother who wants to make her daughter an important part of her own decisions.. But she also should understand that her daughter is still growing up where her decisions are not steadfast and they are bound to be volatile... The CVs are also not showing much bonding between the mom-daughter because that means the girl can open up her at any time thus the CVs will lose on the drama quotient of keeping the thrilling moment on for long... 😆 They will make us bored to death with the suspense of whether Dev gets to know now, now, now... Then bomb blast.. Only that by then it will be all water balloon😆

Originally posted by: IFfreak

PK, I would have liked Sona to voice out the more glaringly obvious reasons like say- "I did come with the thought to introduce Soha to Dev at sometime. However after seeing him as an alcoholic, mean-spirited, ill-behaved, I decided to postpone this meeting. "

Originally posted by: ..natasha..

I hope sona gives dixits the valid reasons of not sharing the news rather then stupid reason like i was scared..!!!!!

She has 100 reasons to hide compared to one reason for dev to know..only reason dev should know it is he is ger father

100 reasons why sona should not share is not hidden from anyone...dixit clan se har kisi ko bachaye bhagwaan...

The problem is not about reality v. idealism. The biggest issue with this show is the lack of conversations and lack of clarity in terms of everyone's thought process except probably Dev. Which is also partly why he gets the most sympathy 😆 We know Dev wants a child real bad, we know he is a nice guy who just cannot handle things in life and resorts to manipulations or short term solutions, we know he loses sight of right and wrong when it comes to his family, we know he is alone, we know he is depressed and scarred, we know he already loves Soha and the kid brightens up in his presence. What about the other characters? What about Sona? What did she feel when she first got pregnant? Did she immediately decide to inform Dev but backtracked fearing the repercussions? Did she still want to inform him after coming to Delhi but his current aggressive scared her? Do we know anything about her thought process here apart from that stupid conversation she had with Jatin? None at all. Hell, I don even understand what Ishwari thinks and wants and why she is so delusional. That IMO, is the biggest issue of this show. We have no clarity in terms of who is thinking what and why a character reacts in a certain way. It is left to the viewers to interpret it the way we want depending on what we want to see. Oh Sona has moved on, she is happy with Jatin, there is no love, she is not sharing Soha cos she knows what Dev and his mom are capable of..Oh Sona hasn't moved on, she just has a strong facade, she is jealous, she is insecure like Ishwari so she wont share Soha. So what is the truth? No one knows and am convinced the writers themselves don't know 😆

The Dixie household is a cesspool of idiocy and not wanting to expose Soha to that level of dysfunction is the reason she should give when asked! Ishwari is a stalker Mom and Dev needs to get a restraining order against her. Even Sona should get one to keep Soha from getting exposed to all that negativity. The fact that Ishwari blames all of her family's problems on Sona is a good enough reason to keep her daughter out of their clutches! Ishwari is delusional!!! Dev has a right to know about his daughter, but his ugly words would forever haunt me if I were Sona. When he said that it's good God didn't give her a child b/c she would be a horrible mother ( or she didn't deserve to be a mother)...he said something to that extent. Anyhow, that wouldn't endear me to share my daughter in the least. Soha was raised in a loving and emotionally balanced environment and the Dixit's household is the exact opposite! Even Golu sees and hears horrible things, gets ignored and isn't the Dixit's #1 priority. They say that it takes a community to raise a child and I believe that. Sona brilliantly kept Soha away from becoming a circus animal and being smothered by Ishwari. Hoping Sona is honest when the time comes and points out that Soha would never have a good upbringing in that household. I'm hoping that Soha puts Ishwari in her place and stands up for her mother unlike her father who let Sona get steamrolled by her. #hateishwari

Originally posted by: astrix90

The problem is not about reality v. idealism. The biggest issue with this show is the lack of conversations and lack of clarity in terms of everyone's thought process except probably Dev. Which is also partly why he gets the most sympathy 😆 We know Dev wants a child real bad, we know he is a nice guy who just cannot handle things in life and resorts to manipulations or short term solutions, we know he loses sight of right and wrong when it comes to his family, we know he is alone, we know he is depressed and scarred, we know he already loves Soha and the kid brightens up in his presence. What about the other characters? What about Sona? What did she feel when she first got pregnant? Did she immediately decide to inform Dev but backtracked fearing the repercussions? Did she still want to inform him after coming to Delhi but his current aggressive scared her? Do we know anything about her thought process here apart from that stupid conversation she had with Jatin? None at all. Hell, I don even understand what Ishwari thinks and wants and why she is so delusional. That IMO, is the biggest issue of this show. We have no clarity in terms of who is thinking what and why a character reacts in a certain way. It is left to the viewers to interpret it the way we want depending on what we want to see. Oh Sona has moved on, she is happy with Jatin, there is no love, she is not sharing Soha cos she knows what Dev and his mom are capable of..Oh Sona hasn't moved on, she just has a strong facade, she is jealous, she is insecure like Ishwari so she wont share Soha. So what is the truth? No one knows and am convinced the writers themselves don't know 😆

P.S. There is another reason why so many are rooting for Dev-Soha. Shaheer is wonderful with kids and the girl literally brightens up in his presence. I din see that in any other scene till date. And it looks like they have an instant connect and Dev will make for a wonderful dad. IMO, its more Shaheer the actor than Dev the dad 😆 The kid probably brightens up because of Shaheer and that goes a long way in establishing that instant connect between the characters. I say it again. No one would bother with this show if not for the actors. Dev-Sona, Dev-Soha, Dev-Golu- its not the characters but the actors who compensate for the nonsense the writers spew 😆