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desigirl987 thumbnail
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Posted: 8 years ago
I don't understand Dev now , as much as I enjoyed Dev being direct and honest about his feelings with Ishwari , I think he is taking it too far . I mean why he is directing all his anger towards Ishawari ? At some point he has to accept his mistakes, what if Ishwari questioned him back " Neither did I ask Sona to leave from this house , nor did I tell you to throw one's family from their own house" . He should be angry at the fact that he had put his mom on the pedestal which lead to some bad decisions from his part.

Like wise I don't get Bose family as well . When they would acknowledge Soha's growing need to meet her father ? If no one else, Sona being her mother should pay attention to it . From the moment , Soha learned about her father her mind is in splits , even though she tries to hide it well . I can't imagine Sona dismissing a call from her teacher about her behavior when there was a talk in school about fathers and mothers . And what's the deal with Saurabh ? The man - Dev Dixit tried to help him out , and because of him his sisters life got ruined, and ended up losing their house , still no regret, but he is busy making a mockery of Dev? . The same Sona who knew about the hardships Dev faced , and congratulated him for trying to save the worker's job instead of concentrating on profit , was being sarcastic reading his interview . I mean personal grudges apart, she should respect his hard work .

Today RR bowled me over , never thought this day would come !!!! 😲

PS: Did anyone else notice Trump was still in the news 7 years later . God save America😭 .

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Posted: 8 years ago
With regards to soha there are a few decisions her single mother needs/needed to make. Now my post is based on sonakshi's character and her circumstances. Not something I would necessarily do myself. Atleast the first point. Hell, I wouldn't even date someone like Dev. I have very little patience for a family like that
1. When sona found she is pregnant with Dev's child, should she had told him? I presume she knew the conditions of prenup by then. Bijoy had had it vetted by a lawyer. Having recently been called a gold digger, she would never go back to Dev and tell him about the child. She would assume he didn't want the child after all. Especially because he kept saying he doesn't need the baby and that sona only needed to try for ma. She didn't know Dev didn't know the conditions of the prenup
2. When should sona have told soha about her dad. When your ex is forbes 500, you tell his child his name only when the child is mature enough to hide this information and not blurt it. It can get very public and very nasty very quickly. What Sona could have done (and here my post has milawat of my own brain), is told soha a diluted but true version. Your daddy lives in another town. We had a fight. When you are older I will speak to him and ask him to meet you if you decide to. Let's park this till your 8th/10th birthday.
3. I won't ever bad mouth her father in front of her and won't allow anyone to play stupid truth and dare games involving her dad.
4. I would have followed up on that fight she had in school.
5. Single parent/step parent families are common and successful these days. Soha needs to be emotionally supported. I would make sure whenever she asks about her dad, all the family members and her teachers give her a consistent and kind picture of her dad
6. I would have a discussion with the school and also them to keep me informed on any assignments and projects that include dad. Example it's surprising that no one checked her homework and were not prepared with a better solution. She could have drawn Bijoy- and labelled it grandfather.
7. Most importantly, when my child's dad is as powerful as Dev Dixit I would pick my battles and not move to the same city till my child knows the truth and emotionally supported and stable to deal with the complex family structure. My child's mental wellbeing would be most important
8. When the time comes, I would have my lawyers draw up a letter addressed to Mr Dev Dixit and I would first inform him and then set up a meeting with our child

Lecture over.

Did anyone notice how yummy soha's dad looked in those hospital scrubs.
Edited by thedramaqueen - 8 years ago
preethik thumbnail
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: desigirl987

<font face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif" size="2" color="#000099">I don't understand Dev now , as much as I enjoyed Dev being
direct and honest about his feelings with Ishwari , I think he is taking it too
far . I mean why he is directing all his anger towards Ishawari ? At some point
he has to accept his mistakes, what if Ishwari questioned him back " Neither did I ask Sona to leave from this house , nor
did I tell you to throw one's family from their own house" . He should be angry
at the fact that he had put his mom on the pedestal which lead to some bad decisions
from his part.</font>

<font face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif" size="2" color="#000099">
Like wise I don't get Bose family as well . When they would
acknowledge Soha's growing need to meet her father ? If no one else, Sona being her mother should pay attention to
it . From the moment , Soha learned about her father her mind is in splits ,
even though she tries to hide it well . I can't imagine Sona dismissing a call
from her teacher about her behavior when there was a talk in school about fathers and mothers . And what's the
deal with Saurabh ? The man - Dev Dixit tried to help him out , and because of him his sisters life got ruined,
and ended up losing their house , still no regret, but he is busy making a mockery of Dev? . The same Sona
who knew about the hardships Dev faced , and congratulated him for trying to save the worker's job instead
of concentrating on profit , was being
sarcastic reading his interview . I mean personal grudges apart, she should
respect his hard work .

Today RR bowled me over , never thought this day would come
!!!!😲

</font>

<font face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif" size="2" color="#000099">PS: Did anyone else notice Trump was still in the news 7
years later . God save America😭 .</font>





The problem with dev is the same as with ish. Blame somebody else for their mistakes or rather not taking any responsibility for their own actions.

Dev is showing the mirror to ish (which she still refuses acknowledge). I wonder who will show the mirror to him or is he like dev1.0 where he recognizes everything including his part but refusing to acknowledge it as usual.

Soha needs to meet her father! She seems too mature for a six yr old & she's really wanting to meet her father. The kiss to the picture says it all. I hope sona does not brush it away!

Some small words here & there in an interview from a man she says she does not care for is bothering her.

Rr was back to her old avatar. Not evil but just mean spirited & envious! I preferred that old self.

Just like xgkb the show is also getting back on track without too much negativity. Hopefully it continues in the same vein!
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Posted: 8 years ago
@DQ ...soha's father has started looking extra yummylicious these days ...no wonder he was looking yummy wid dose bandages also
sjain thumbnail
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Posted: 8 years ago
OMG I have this fresh feeling
Dev might will see Sona and Soha tomorrow

oh freakss..This is odd..Why am I feeling so uhh
Edited by sjain - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
Take a bow writers here.. U all bring out the best in the bestest way possible...
Thank you Sam n DQ for this thread once again...
My apologies as I cud not b a part of this wonderful heaven till this layer...

@ Saj Di... Love U for Ur post...

@ deepsel agree to make shaving official encyclopedia for KRPKAB...

@ Anjali welcome to this heaven of understanding, loving, trusting, expressing n what not...The list of the qualities of the members here is not ending...

@ Anu brilliant POV... I can feel Dev-Soha pain n emptiness, and nothing can justify Sona hiding Soha anyhow...

Now coming to my POV...

Let me talk abt short first... Mamaji... This is his behaviour coz he was not in picture of this whole play... He was disappeared only to appear to witness Sona leaving n say tera ghar bikhar jayega.. he has only heard Ishwari's part of the story...
Dev n Sona's side of the part is unknown to him... N yet to reveal..
May b this tym this will happen when the truth comes out n he will b there to put some sense in this Kachori.. highly unexpected though...

Now abt Dev n Sona all has said it all..

So our official road side lovers r back on loving on road...
Now this reminded me of their road confession, road love meetings, road dance, road fight n road patch up...
Bijoy did right leaving them on road that night...

Again after 7 yrs they were left again on the road ... This tym Thank you Vicky...
Their facade was cracked a big here...

I m too not in favour of this third angle... But let's see what is waiting for us... Pagal hai dono.. they can't see eachother getting pain or hurt, but can enjoy n live hurting n giving pain to each other..

I have to see last 3 episode once again as I have not seen them properly... Will try to get back once I get to see them..
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: desigirl987

I don't understand Dev now , as much as I enjoyed Dev being direct and honest about his feelings with Ishwari , I think he is taking it too far . I mean why he is directing all his anger towards Ishawari ? At some point he has to accept his mistakes, what if Ishwari questioned him back " Neither did I ask Sona to leave from this house , nor did I tell you to throw one's family from their own house" . He should be angry at the fact that he had put his mom on the pedestal which lead to some bad decisions from his part.



Well I beg to differ here a bit ..He is directing his anger to Ishwari because apart from Sonakshi he expected maximum from this lady.. He was 100% dependent on her..He had blind faith on her..He always felt she will be supporting him through all the ups and downs..she was his support system..he relied on her all his life..and wjen the time came she brutally backed off..when he wanted a silent strong support some one to fall back on she bloody stepped back letting him fall..he wanted her to be his pillar of strength but she snatched it from him..He damn gave his whole life is making money to get her out of thoes slums and let her have a good respectable life with all needs fulfilled and what she did she selected money wealth house instead of his happiness..by using thoes damnn divorce papers..

Every parent is like god to kid ..our indian cuture says that..if you respect your parents it means you are respecting god..it is as good as that ..it might sound stupid but thats how it is ..ts very true..I hear it and to an extent believe it too because I have alot of gratitude for my parents..Needless to say parents have everything unconditional for their kids and yes its duty of a child to give it back in best possible way..In Dev's case..Ishwari too did everything she could and Dev returned it back too but this process then became one sided..he kept on giving and giving..Where Ishwari failed here is that ..she never realized this give and take system has to be equal...it can never be one sided..this doesnt work like that..she forgot, he has a set of needs requirements wishes..and Dev not ever verbal with his emotions kept on assuming, Ishwari understands him..she will always be by his side and will see where his happiness lies..But by the time he realized how her mind set is..it was too late , damage was done..He paid price of it ..but was it his fault ??..I would say no..why ..wat was his fault if he trusted his OWN MOTHR what was his fault when he expected everything from his OWN MOTHR what was so wrong when he wanted his OWN MOTHR to solve problems with him for him fight for him not with him..Instead of helping him come out of the pit she herself pushed him in to it..Sighh..According to me thats the reason of his anger is directed all towards Ishwari and its quite fair too

Regretting about keeping her above all ..uhh..he did it out of his love repect but it was Ishwari's duty to guide him and not let him make any wrong decision..its her duty to help thim see between right and wrong oh the worst part is Ishwari herself didn't know the difference between right and wrong so how she could have helped him..

Oh yes this absolutely doesnt mean that their is no fault of his in this disaster..he has his own set of mistakes..which he realises but doesnt acknowledge them fully..akhir hai toh Ishwari ka beta lol..well and I dint expect him to go and say to Sona yes this the list of my fault please punish me but yes this acknowledgment will come in when the much awaited showdown will happen with Sonakshi..He is Sonakshi's culprit ..he failed Sonakshi not Ishwari..same with Sonakshi she is blaming Dev completely ..where as she too has her set of mistakes which she doesnt wanna see and she too will confront them under same circumstances..

I kinda deviated from the topic I think...in the heat of the moment I wriote it so yeah sorry no offence at all lol i just wrote what I had in my head..



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Posted: 8 years ago
I felt really sad for Dev yesterday.
He really doesn't have anybody in his life now.
He doesn't have anything to really look forward to in his life.
I know he has committed mistakes.
Not knowing about soha- that is the worst punishment anyone can get for their mistake.
I really wish the third angle would be for Dev-
Don't bash me- I am team devakshi only.
I wish there is another girl who could come into dev's life & restore his faith in love.

Now that this Dev is smart ; he won't allow iswari to interfere.

I was upset with sona yesterday.
The sarcasm was not needed.
She has only lost Dev.
She had her supporting family,most important- soha.
She is more lucky.

Dev on the other hand, lost everything.
No wonder he became like this.
If only sona had let him known about soha earlier...

Even when there was a chance that he was dying/ seriously injured
She didn't reveal about soha.
That was not expected of selfless sona whom we knew.
She had also become an insecure mother.

This is a costly mistake.
Sorry for my rant
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Posted: 8 years ago
@ Shaavi. You are looking at it from the point of view from a sane and normal human being.
But is Ishwari sane? I know there is law of karma , but even when God's lathi breaks people's hands, legs, back and everything else they still conveniently manage to blame someone else. Logic can go and reside in the gutter as far as they are concerned. Simple because it is much much easier to blame someone else then accept I was wrong. We humans are after all experts at choosing the easier way out.
Let me explain this situation with another real life example. It will sound very absurd but believe me it really happened and I have seen it happening. It is slightly long so please bear with me.

One of my friends mother in law loved her elder son much more than her younger one. He was richer, more successful etc etc and could keep her in the lap of luxury. So she obviously had to favour him whatever he might do and ill treat this son's wife and children considering them low standard. Her elder son didn't keep her and she was forced to stay with the younger son but the behaviour continued. There were always excuses for his behaviour. Now this lady's husband died. The barsi of the Father was held at the younger brothers place which the elder brother didn't take the trouble of attending. The mother understood that he must be busy.

So when the elder brothers wife's barsi happened after three months and the younger brother didn't attend this same mother raised hell and said that the father was their both equally so it was the elders son's choice and right to attend or not but the bhabhi was only younger brothers so it was his duty to attend. He has humiliated and hurt their entire family by not attending his bhabhi's barsi

Shaavi logic commits suicide when it comes to people like Ishwari and God decides that it is better to make them a worm in their next birth rather than hoping their soul to learn it's lesson and grow.
Edited by _Payalj_ - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago

A very nice episode which only showed relationships in its many colours.

1) Mother-son : Ishwari-Dev relationship has changed over the years. Dev is aware of Ishwari's possessiveness and holds her responsible for his separation with Sonakshi. His subtle hints at her selfishness made bold strokes about his respect and trust in Sonakshi. I liked that. Ishwari is still looking at ways to distance Sonakshi from Dev. It's quite appalling that her character is consistent and still tries to manipulate her son's thoughts. XGKB -Vicky has maintained the same relationship, but the difference in thoughts was out in the open, when XGKB questioned Vicky on his methods adopted to achieve his goals. I liked XGKB. There is no pretence here. She always blurts out her thoughts. 👏

2) Mother-daughter : Sonakshi - Suhana relationship is based on honesty. When a 6 year old draws a picture of her father, whom she has never met, Sonakshi appreciates it. She understood that Suhana misses her father. Would she make efforts to introduce Suhana to Dev? Or would Ishwari use this as s trump card to ensure they separate forever?

3) Uncle-nephew : Dev-Golu relationship is also based on honesty. Golu prepares a thank you card and hopes that all wishes of the Saviour Aunty comes true. Dev uses this retort to taunt Ishwari. 😃

4) Brother-sister : Saurabh is back, confident and smart. He understands his sister and the family's animosity towards Dev hence shows the newspaper on the sly. Sonakshi doesn't mince words while expressing her views on the article. Will Saurabh get involved in clearing the misunderstanding between Sonakshi-Dev or would he advise his sister to move on with Jatin?

5) Friends : Jatin is Sonakshi's childhood friend and helped her during the crisis 7 years ago. It's possible that he has invested in the business. Suhana knows him too. Will Dev see Jatin-Sonakshi-Suhana and conclude that Sonakshi has moved on? Will Jatin expect more than friends relationship from Sonakshi? Would Bijoy-Asha ask Sonakshi to review her single status?

Overall, a nice episode. I want Dev to befriend Suhana. Let him know his daughter on a different platform as a little girl who is also Golu's classmate. Let Dev introduce Sonakshi as the Saviour Aunty to Golu. Let Golu give the thank you card to Sonakshi and Suhana becomes impressed!! 😃 That would be cute, isn't it?


-Rekha
Edited by Danseuse - 8 years ago

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