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So what is the alternative, ofcourse a woman should bring a child to this world , what you think about those women suffering from domestic violence , I salute to those women who keep their child away from such non deserving father's, a woman doesn't need a men to take care of child, ofcourse a child should have both the mother and father, but if any one of them is non deserving then better to have single parent

I agree with u that suhana didn't get father love up til now...

Originally posted by: Suvika.

<font face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif" color="#0000ff" size="3">So?? I am not even able to follow your thinking.</font>

Let us make this a lil more easy ...for a new born baby/toddler ...how different is a father 's love from mothers love or from a siblings love...??

I would say ...no difference... the difference betwn these is understood when the person who takes care of the child decides to educate the child about relationships and the equation among these relationships...it has more to do with a social norm...now Soha will have problems in the school as she is brought by a single mother...not a very common thing in India...but abroad its fine...for that reason Sonakshi and her teacher will have to work hand in hand so that there is a balance achieved betwn her and the other kids...

And in todays world single parents are accepted ...check the CBSE environment studies text book for 2nd or 3rd grade ...there are now 3 types of families...joint family , nuclear family and single parent family...time has changed...and we are on the right path...

Every child should have a loving environment at home ...its not the number ppl or relatives that he or she has that matters...what matters is whoever is there for them is taking care of them properly and the child should never feel neglected

Originally posted by: mygaby

a writer saying doesn't suit at all.. will love to read what u think...

Originally posted by: mygaby

after divorce , bringing a child in this world who will never get father's love ...was this decision of hers fair??????y to bring a life in this world when u know he or she is gonna never have a dad n lead an empty life

Originally posted by: NBT-BV

You have raised a very interesting issue. If I add another dimension (no offence intended to mothers), Is it fair to bring in another life in this world??

I know every living being on this planet has been programmed to have the survival instinct and continuation of life by extending our life through the offspring.

Most of the mothers would say that a female can't feel complete without child(ren)- its very true and is genetic programming.

BUt the big question is - if we are suffering- don't we have the right to ask ourselves (not blaming parents) why were we brought in this world without our choice. If we question this - any time in our life (before getting a child for ourselves) then we have no right to bring a new life in this world.

If we are OK in this world - should we not think at least once - what right we have to bring someone without his permission in this world - just for our satisfaction and happiness and feeling complete.

IMO - adopt a child and reduce the burden on this planet😃

Originally posted by: NBT-BV

You have raised a very interesting issue. If I add another dimension (no offence intended to mothers), Is it fair to bring in another life in this world??

I know every living being on this planet has been programmed to have the survival instinct and continuation of life by extending our life through the offspring.

Most of the mothers would say that a female can't feel complete without child(ren)- its very true and is genetic programming.

BUt the big question is - if we are suffering- don't we have the right to ask ourselves (not blaming parents) why were we brought in this world without our choice. If we question this - any time in our life (before getting a child for ourselves) then we have no right to bring a new life in this world.

If we are OK in this world - should we not think at least once - what right we have to bring someone without his permission in this world - just for our satisfaction and happiness and feeling complete.

IMO - adopt a child and reduce the burden on this planet😃

Wow ..good one...this is why I like this forum...people come up with different thoughts on the same topic... 👏

Originally posted by: NBT-BV

You have raised a very interesting issue. If I add another dimension (no offence intended to mothers), Is it fair to bring in another life in this world??

I know every living being on this planet has been programmed to have the survival instinct and continuation of life by extending our life through the offspring.

Most of the mothers would say that a female can't feel complete without child(ren)- its very true and is genetic programming.

BUt the big question is - if we are suffering- don't we have the right to ask ourselves (not blaming parents) why were we brought in this world without our choice. If we question this - any time in our life (before getting a child for ourselves) then we have no right to bring a new life in this world.

If we are OK in this world - should we not think at least once - what right we have to bring someone without his permission in this world - just for our satisfaction and happiness and feeling complete.

IMO - adopt a child and reduce the burden on this planet😃

Originally posted by: gaushiv13

Brilliant answer for these type of question

Clap clap

The way she is asking uration then no poor has right to bring child to this world as they have not enough to provide

I don't think soha is deficient of anything

If her father has died then what she would have done

And seriously living in this 21st century we the only women are asking that we can't raise the child alone

I am also pampered child of my both parent but I have lived with my mother as my father is in army but I never felt void of anything even in my neighbour many father r engineer and is working in some other part but all are happy

Everyone doesn't get everything something is always left

You have got everything so it will be difficult to understand but come in open you will see vast sfenerio

Even I till 12th was like this and consider everyone how they are able to survive but once I visited outside world without my parent I got to see real meaning of happiness

HAPINESS IS NEEDED NUMBER DOESNT

IF YOU R HAPPY WITH WHAT YOU HAVE AND NEVER INVOLVE YOURSELF IN COMPETITION LIKE THEY GOT MORE THEN TRUST ME YOU WILL BE HAPPISPEST PERSON IN THE WORLD

Originally posted by: mygaby

after divorce , bringing a child in this world who will never get father's love ...was this decision of hers fair??????y to bring a life in this world when u know he or she is gonna never have a dad n lead an empty life