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@Push-pull

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Posted: 8 years ago

#91

Dev and Ishwari need to join the school along with Soha and Golu to learn some real good lessons😆.. At least Sonakshi learnt hers though late.. 😉😃

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Tia.0

@Tia.0

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Posted: 8 years ago

#92

Sonakshi made mistakes too. But her mistake is no where near as much as Dev's. Her mistake was over eagerness to marry Dev without making sure if he will ever stand by her if his mother cracks the whip, her mistake was to reduce her self-worth to try to fit in, her mistake was constantly trying to "understand" Dev's issues but never talking about her feelings, her mistake was not to stand her ground on some basic respect and rights of a wife, her mistake is to believe in Dev's second lies after first lies were caught. All of that I mentioned in my post earlier.

But Dev's mistake was to take his wife for granted, his mistake was to watch his so-called love being humiliated and insulted day after day silently without raising his voice, his mistake was to show by his behaviour that he doesn't care about anyone but his family regardless of what lies he said in private, his mistake was to constantly break his promises and lying and thus losing his credibility and his biggest and most unforgivable mistake was not to stand by his wife when she needed him most and even then putting pressure on her to agree to his mother's conditions and on top of that when she needed him to understand her and support her for a change, he turned his back, blamed her and attacked her identity as a woman, her self-respect, her love and made all her sacrifices and understanding worthless.

So I agree with you when people say that Sonakshi and Dev were equal in blame, I can't wrap my head around it. Dev betrayed Sonakshi by never keeping his promises including the ones he made when he got married to him. Sonakshi never betrayed Dev. When a woman marries a man and moves in with his family, the man has certain responsibility towards the woman like making sure she is comfortable there, that she is treated like a family member, that her dignity is being respect and she is feeling safe and secured. Dev did none of that. So he failed as a husband, as a lover and as a basic human being who should not let a woman be disrespected under his roof (like his lofty claim to Ranveer) regardless who does it, be it Ranveer or his mother or even God.

Originally posted by: gaushiv13
I don't understand people saying sonakshi was wrong
Sonakshi was never ever wrong it's all time Dev
And even bijoy was not wrong standing for your daughter is not wrong and after knowing everything about ishwari and Dev
I would also like to have a father like bijoy who would stand by me in all circumstances and for my self respect and support me every time ignoring society
And everyone is saying sona was wrong in not telling about daughter
The Dev which we know would blackmail sona to come on the name of baby or even snatch her and Dev family would have again taunted sona that on the name of baby she has came for money as she has nothing now and as soha is girl child then ishwari would have again demanded boy child and I don't think Dev would have changed from ma bhakti as he would have again got sona his bedtime parttimer
Everyone has to pay prce for their karma it was sona soha good karma they were away from mental hospital and a mental father
It was Dev karma and his negligence toward his duty toward wife that he lost his child which he can never get because past can't be revived and if he will not accept and understand his mistake then even today the daughter who has love and respect for her father will also leave him and he will be alone whole life
Honestly the upcoming story will tell that by not telling about soha sona did right or wrong
Because if Dev try to snatch now then its would prove 100 percent that sona had took best decision to not tell that mental Dev anything
After yesterday I have not a ounce of respect left for Dev when I watched post marriage episode on youtube I was regular viewer till devakshi or vilena marriage but after that I stopped watching so when I saw leap and came to forum again then that time I was having some respect for Dev but what he did with his wife was unforgivable he took sona for granted or some cheap thing who always come to him without any effort

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Tia.0

@Tia.0

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Posted: 8 years ago

#93

It is in context. When a child is instigated against someone, he/she doesn't always use his/her judgement at their discretion. So more than the child, the adult is to be blamed for instigating.

But when an adult is instigated against someone, they should use their own judgement and use the advice based on their experience. While we blame the person instigating, we can't hold the person being instigated blameless either.

That's why I mentioned Radha's advice to Vicky for Elena, vs. Dev's advice to Golu for Soha. Dev is responsible for what Golu did today since it's his advice Golu implemented as he equated teaching a bossy girl her lessons with manhood. But if Vicky had married Elena for revenge, it would have been both Radha and Vicky's fault.

Originally posted by: thelostgirl
I remember i had asked a baby from my mumma when i was young...and when he was born.. I dint used to like him..would always get irritated with him..and would constantly that rant ki mummy papa usse zyada pyaar karte hai mujhse nhi
I remember when i used to see my frnds all cudly and cute cute with their little bros i used to think why was i such a jerk

All these years i was thinking it was my immature behaviour as i was only 5 years at that...last month i got to know the actual reason behind my this behaviour

When my little bro was born my daadi and baba(grandpa) instigated me against him saying that mummy papa Tinu ( my young bro) se zyaada pyaar karenge kyuki woh ladka hai

PS: I dont know whther it was in context with the thread or not...just thought of sharing😊

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Tia.0

@Tia.0

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Posted: 8 years ago

#94

Excellent point. Precisely. What Sona said to Soha was to be reactive. Also she knows her daughter enough to know that violence won't be the first step of action for her. She will push when she is pushed back.

But as Dev is not Golu's primary caregiver, him telling Golu to teach the bossy girl a lesson or manhood will be dishonoured gave him a false idea of machismo and he, instigated by his friends, decided to implement the idea to make both his revered uncle, friends and manhood proud by one deed.

If Sonakshi knew that the person bullying her daughter was Elena's son, she would probably still say that push if you are pushed back. However, she might go talk to Elena about making sure her son doesn't bully her daughter.

However, how many of us think that Dev will give the same advice to Golu about teaching a bossy girl a lesson to save man's pride if he knew that Soha is his daughter? Then how can his advice be generic if that doesn't apply to everyone?

Originally posted by: Cinderella100
one important thing remains & has been ignored by most members in this forum. Both Dev &mSona gave the kids advise. Taking this advice how did the kids react?

Golu stole Soha's lunch then got angry when he was called a thief.
when he got caught out he is now looking for revenge.

Soha didnt touch Golu. She complained to her teacher, then to principal.
Soha's interpretation of her mom's advice has absolutely no violence in it.

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Tia.0

@Tia.0

Sparkler

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Posted: 8 years ago

#95

Hope Sonakshi remembers the lesson she learned and like Ranveer stay away from Dixit madness forever. But this is TV show so it's not likely to happen.

Originally posted by: Push-pull
Dev and Ishwari need to join the school along with Soha and Golu to learn some real good lessons😆.. At least Sonakshi learnt hers though late.. 😉😃

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EkNoKiNashedi

@Phir_Mohabbat

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+ 13

Posted: 8 years ago

#96

Arre why I don't see you in the other post. Would love to see one bahubali vs rest🤪

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Tia.0

@Tia.0

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Posted: 8 years ago

#97

Ha ha... Because I don't think I should hijack other people's post with my opinion. But my post is free game. You entire at your own discretion. 😉

Originally posted by: .Avengers.
Arre why I don't see you in the other post. Would love to see one bahubali vs rest🤪

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Pehchaan.Kaun

@Pehchaan.Kaun

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Posted: 8 years ago

#98

@ Anna - Oh wow it's you and you're a doc !! 😳 Proud of ya 👍🏼 . And I know what you mean - here's one more catch in the name of ignoring his mistakes .. When a grownass man like Dev wrongs others, it's Ishwari's teaching, poor Dev is innocent.. But when the same type of bad upbringing is being passed on to another kid, we spare Dev from this mistake too, it's Golu who got angry at the spur of the moment and did that 😆
Blame the mother, blame the child - never blame Dev. He is the misunderstood hero with a heart of gold or rock or whatever 😆

@ Avengers, why wasting time in that topic 😆 Sujal, RK and Angad kis khet ki mooli hai, he is compared to the M&B heroes 🤣 In my sane mind, all I can compare him with Anurag Basu as a spineless lover and husband, YET, Anurag was gem of a person who wont compromise with honesty, integrity of any woman/child and never an MCP ! 🤔

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Mahadevi

@Morana

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+ 7

Posted: 8 years ago

#99

Originally posted by: Pehchaan.Kaun
@ Anna - Oh wow it's you and you're a doc !! 😳 Proud of ya 👍🏼 . And I know what you mean - here's one more catch in the name of ignoring his mistakes .. When a grownass man like Dev wrongs others, it's Ishwari's teaching, poor Dev is innocent.. But when the same type of bad upbringing is being passed on to another kid, we spare Dev from this mistake too, it's Golu who got angry at the spur of the moment and did that 😆
Blame the mother, blame the child - never blame Dev. He is the misunderstood hero with a heart of gold or rock or whatever 😆

I think the credit goes to Ishwari , like Tia has analyzed so many times she's a genius and maestro in passing blame , Dev her proud disciple has mastered this art perfectly . So why should their supporters not learn the same ! 😉
Aww thank you. 😳

@ Avengers, why wasting time in that topic 😆 Sujal, RK and Angad kis khet ki mooli hai, he is compared to the M&B heroes 🤣 In my sane mind, all I can compare him with Anurag Basu as a spineless lover and husband, YET, Anurag was gem of a person who wont compromise with honesty, integrity of any woman/child and never an MCP ! 🤔

Edited by Lady_Macbeth - 8 years ago

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EkNoKiNashedi

@Phir_Mohabbat

Trailblazer

+ 13

Posted: 8 years ago

#100

Originally posted by: Pehchaan.Kaun
@ Anna - Oh wow it's you and you're a doc !! 😳 Proud of ya 👍🏼 . And I know what you mean - here's one more catch in the name of ignoring his mistakes .. When a grownass man like Dev wrongs others, it's Ishwari's teaching, poor Dev is innocent.. But when the same type of bad upbringing is being passed on to another kid, we spare Dev from this mistake too, it's Golu who got angry at the spur of the moment and did that 😆
Blame the mother, blame the child - never blame Dev. He is the misunderstood hero with a heart of gold or rock or whatever 😆

@ Avengers, why wasting time in that topic 😆 Sujal, RK and Angad kis khet ki mooli hai, he is compared to the M&B heroes 🤣 In my sane mind, all I can compare him with Anurag Basu as a spineless lover and husband, YET, Anurag was gem of a person who wont compromise with honesty, integrity of any woman/child and never an MCP ! 🤔

I saw another regular if here, pkdas1 I think there. Arguing with people who are intentionally daft is futile but the comments went on for 10 pages when pretty sure if you guys had hijacked the nonsense would have shut down ages ago.😛 also I like clash of Titans. And wanted to post behodl our queen gif.

Lol anrag>>>>dev any day. He at least repented. Sujal RK angad all had a story. They didn't hide behind sad misunderstood hero shit. And omg I hate this "flawed" word so much, how long he will be flawed?????🥱

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