Not even going into the morality of it..

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Morality is defined differently for different people, while for some it is completely okay for two adults to move on from their relationship and get into physical relationships which are short term or temporary, while for some it is tota unacceptable.
Because the perspective matters a lot for this discussion, let us not go to that tangent.
Though I would add here that I belong to the later category, short term flings with only physical aspects and temporary pleasure are beyond my understanding.

So can I just say, I absolutely LOATHED seeing Dev with another woman like this. In a hotel room, at night, a girl whom who met 15 days back and you don't even want to commit, what is all this suggestive of?
I thought it was all a plan but the hotel staff's talk suggested he is a regular visitor
Even if it was to make her jealous, which isn't the case here, what is this way to let her assume that you have been sleeping with girls and you are happy to have moved on.

Whenever that girl was hugging Dev or speaking Sona's dialogues, I was cringing.
Yes, Dev did not acknowledge her words or actions for once, he was least affected. But the mere thought of Dev trying to be with someone other than Sonakshi like this, I mean for short term, no commitment makes me disturbed like hell.
He saw flashbacks of Sonakshi telling him he can't win trust ever blah blah, shouldn't he do the exact opposite by winning trust and get into a serious relationship. .?
I would have been really happy had Dev actually given a try with a nice deserving girl like natasha or someone, then all this would be oky.
But Dev is like spending time with girls like these to get over Sonakshi. Plus it has been 15 days, what before it?

And what next, he was remembering Sona before the epi ended, was he going to kiss the girl or something to prove himselfšŸ˜•
Eee!

I am sorry for this rant, I am not talking about what is right or what is not, but certainly it upsets me a lot seeing Dev like this.
P.S We all understand the psychology of emptiness, how he is trying hard to move on but is not able to, how he doesn't want to commit, how he does not have that level of emotional attachment for anyone except Sonakshi and that makes him switch relationships quickly, trying to fill in that void.
Sonakshi is not doing that because she has Soha to fill in that emotional vacuum. This is the reason why as soon as she entered the room, thought about Soha, got busy to not enough think about Dev's acts until housekeeping reminded her again.

I am a hardcore DevAkshi shipper and I am worried how these two will come together again, so many complications.
Obviously for Sona, Dev is characterless now, she will assume Dev has happily moved ahead in his life. She would not be able to have any feelings for him until she sees his vulnerable side. Until the facade drops off. Which seems difficult now.

Edit: And the smile which he had in the car was so genuine. As in, it was not even a smirk. This guy was genuinely happy that Sonakshi has achieved something on her own and he also enjoyed how she was back to being her 'akdu' and 'batameez'
Then he sent a trophy back with the note, to annoy her further and also silently ensure that she got what she deserved in the end. Without showing how he cared for it minimally.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Honestly i wanna wait and see what they show. Dev is absolutely free to date anyone as he has no obligation to anyone. But seeing it a fiction where i want a happy end, its difficult to watch it like this.

Today makers gave us two hints, first he is regular to that hotel and might have been involved in flings. This girl wanted to be serious and Dev immediately remembered his past, but if any girl is not upto serious relationship then? Is that fine with Dev?

Second, he is bounded with Sonakshi. Love, hurt, pain, whatever it is, he is not able to forget her. That girl's words didn't soothed him at all. So is this the case that he never went ahead with any kind of relationship (casual or serious) because of his past. I dunno how makers want to proceed and i will not even judge or RIP Dev on the basis of morality.


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Okay, I need to calm down and have that faith in Dev retained. I still think Dev would not do this and the makers are super wicked to keep us confused till they reveal this.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: saumiee

Okay, I need to calm down and have that faith in Dev retained. I still think Dev would not do this and the makers are super wicked to keep us confused till they reveal this.



Can he ??

5 crore ka sawaal hai ye ..KBC ka HAHA
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Main soch rahi hoon..

He is free to do ..but can HE..Jo banda touch par bhi irritate ho raha tha..woh kar sakta hai aisa ??


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Originally posted by: cscs

Honestly i wanna wait and see what they show. Dev is absolutely free to date anyone as he has no obligation to anyone. But seeing it a fiction where i want a happy end, its difficult to watch it like this.


Today makers gave us two hints, first he is regular to that hotel and might have been involved in flings. This girl wanted to be serious and Dev immediately remembered his past, but if any girl is not upto serious relationship then? Is that fine with Dev?
Exactly! Was his problem commitment? That means he was fine as long as the term 'love' doesn't creep in..?

Second, he is bounded with Sonakshi. Love, hurt, pain, whatever it is, he is not able to forget her. That girl's words didn't soothed him at all. So is this the case that he never went ahead with any kind of relationship (casual or serious) because of his past. I dunno how makers want to proceed and i will not even judge or RIP Dev on the basis of morality.
Or because he is very hurt with Sonakshi's words and her leaving his life, he is indulged more and more with all his relationships to get over the feeling and ends up running from it because her memories don't let him move on.


Waiting is the only option left. Not judging him either but it s getting difficult with each passing day
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I felt he is hanging out with girls.
I wont go into morality now...even I'm confused what exactly Dev has been doing for the past 7 yrs...was he getting drunk in the hotel room and doing nothing...cant comment now. I'm not convinced he is into physical relationships.

@Saumiee: His smile was genuine. He is proud of her. It wasnt a smirk.

Seriously I find everything weird now...this new shade of love
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Cv are very smart they are purposely maintining the susponse of devs actula character. I am still not able to understand the actuly what is the meaning of today's episode . the point which I observe that dev actualy was not cofertable with that girls phycial touch to him. For the time being if we consider that he has become a casinova or playboy means, he is able to have a initimate relation to any other girl without having a emotional attachment . in that case he must be confertable with that girl. But what I observed is different. I am not able to decode dev. Infrount of sona he allows that girl to touch her but in room first thing he dose is removing that girls, hand. Even sona also asume, that dev is, now moved on. Is, having association with that girl. The dialogs, make us confused. I think we have to wait for some time to know the actual thing. And one more point why they have a dialog is prabhu ram gaye, apni sita ke, pas. And if dev is actually a play boy then vikki must know.this, is realy confusing.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: saumiee

Waiting is the only option left. Not judging him either but it s getting difficult with each passing day



Dont stress..why its getting difficult ?? why are you disturbed
5 episode huye hain..and everythng cant happen so quickly ..

Tumne mujhe kaha tha toh give it a chance and its started off with in such a fun way..so move with the flow dear


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Posted: 8 years ago
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What is Casual Relationship -- Casual dating or a casual relationship is a physical and emotional relationship between two people who may have casual sex or a near-sexual relationship without necessarily demanding or expecting the extra commitments of a more formal romantic relationship. Casual relationships, being a mix between a friendship and a non-romantic sexual relationship, result in the partners facing many challenges in maintaining a working relationship. Any partner that is not fully dependent upon the other typically controls the casual relationship. The dependent partner is more submissive to their dominant partner as they do not want the relationship to end.[13] This allows the less dependent partner to be able to fix and maintain the relationship the way he/she wants it to be.

This definition is from wikipedia. I did not enter the complete text as in wikipedia, but this is the excerpt of it. My guess is Dev does have casual flings and he does come to this hotel often with girls. But his relationship ends before he does anything serious. Anytime a girl asks for serious relationship, he ends that and moves on.

I am not being pro Dev or justifying him in any way. But want to give him a benefit of doubt.

When he was friends with Natashsa, she too would hold his hand. But nothing further as she was also his business partner and Dev was also different. He at that time did not have the kind of anger he has now. Now he is looking at girls like a GF. Any girl who comes in his life, he tries to find Sonakshi in them. She is the standard for him. He tries to measure the new girl to what Sonakshi said in the last breakup. As long as she maintains that standard, he stays with her. But the moment she asks for a serious relationship or tries to cross that line, he moves away from her.

He might hug that girl or let that girl hug him. But it does not necessarily mean that it has to go beyond that. It is like the coffee dates he had with Sonakshi before the initial breakup. He did hold her and meet her at restaurants. Here he meets them in hotels.We can take it as we like it.

I would like to look at Dev's relationships this way...😊

This is just my POV... 😃

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