Hopeless!!! - Page 8

Originally posted by: .IamShonali.

Awesome discussions yet again guys! And Tia, amazing post yet again. I completely agree with you.

The best part of the leap yet again I will say is Soha and Sona's bond and their relationship. Seriously, that parenting is goals. If any child has the upbringing that Soha is having or that Sona had thanks to her parents, nothing can stop you in this world to be on your two feet and take your own responsibility and your family. Even if you are not a multimillionaire, your life will be decent to afford a normal life and still be happy with it. I love how Sona takes care of Soha and also makes sure she keeps learning. Again, one of the best style of parenting. My sister always said to me. Being book smart maybe would do some good to you. But if you are street smart, it will do wonders for you even if you are not as intelligent as Steve jobs. She does chores for Soha, works and also makes sure Soha can do her share of her own chores without any laziness or complaints. The multi-tasking example raised by someone in this thread is actually right. When a child sees a parents handling both work and kids responsibility together, it adds a sense of responsibility in them too. And it will also make sure to keep the child in them intact because after all they dont need to grow into adult before its needed (like Dev did). I am repeating again and forgive me for that. The bond of Soha-Sona and the upbringing of Soha is goals and best example for us too on how parenting should actually be.

- Exactly. A good parent teaches by example. Sonakshi is multitasking but not at the cost of neglecting her child or by passing her off to a nanny. She is both a mother and a business woman. And Soha is matching her mother's pace like a pro, doing fantastic team work. She understands that her mother has to work and she is also helping her out.

When you are raised by a single parent, the child needs to work with the parent not against him/her which Dev also did. But the parent also needs to foster Independence in the child so that they also can live their life on their terms which Ishwari never did.

Coming to the episode, I still dont understand why Elena was suddenly worried about Golu's marks when she didnt even care to attend his PTM. And what did she really mean by losing another family if Dev will keep pampering Golu? What does she mean?

- God knows. She is still a teenager despite being mother of a son.

When Dev and Ish scene came and when he said "you always showed me the right direction" and there I rolled my eyes. I was like what? Is he still the same blind devotee who forgot about his own breakdown in front of her? "The Selective Amnesia Syndrome" worked again? And I was like oh god. But when I read your guys analysis, I got the actual point of their bond. He is not the same blind devotee anymore. He still respects her and loves her because she is his mom. And thats would any kid would do even knowing about your parents weaknesses. That normal kid would try to analyze what the parent is saying and then decide. Not blindly follow what everything a parent says. Parents are humans after all. Just because they gave birth to us, doesnt mean they will be right always. They will make their share of mistake too. Its our duty first to realize and second to make them understand too. And thats what I do atleast or I would say I try to do with my mom. She is extremely possessive of me. Not that she will not get me married to someone else coz of that but if my friends even in fun tries to mock me, she cannot handle that. So I have to talk to her and tell her this is how mocking happens amongst friends so she needs to relax and not get hyper just because her daughter is getting mocked at. And I have my way of telling her and explaining her. Coz I know just telling her "essa hota rehta hai" will definitely be of no use. So I use a different technique to make her understand. I dont know if my example made any sense or not or if I went out of topic (which I usually do)😆

- Precisely. No one is perfect. Parents are human too. They will make their own share of mistakes. But that does not reduce a son or daughter's love for them. Dev turned Ishwari into a Goddess who can do no wrong and that destroyed his relationship. Sonakshi was right. It's the son who bridges the gap between his mother and wife by not letting any one of them insult the other or try to take each other's space. Dev failed there big time by letting his mother squeeze out his wife from her space.

Yes. I am definitely disliking the fact that what Ish did to dev is what dev is doing to golu and its not right. And thats for sure is a conclusion that he still doesnt accept his mistake. The first ever trait of being a Dixit. "Never accept your mistake"

With precap, even I believe that Dev would have made some comment. Sona doesnt react to anything unless she is provoked. But lets see.

- I agree. That's what I think as well.

One question though, do you think Dev is planning on messing with Sona's company? Not mess in a bad way but in the sense that she can end up buying the company from the money he will get after selling his part of the company? Just to prove her that he is still more powerful than her? Coz Dev can do that when he wants to. When he really wanted Sona as Ish's doctor, he closed all her other doors to make sure she only works for him. So just to make her work under him, he can also do that right?

- I don't think so. There are three reasons why.

1. Dev wants to appear indifferent in front of Sonakshi. You don't waste your time taking revenge if you don't care about them. So no.

2. Dev does not want any more responsibility. If he buys Sonakshi's company, he will be again locked with a hostile takeover and responsibilities of her employees.

3. Sona's company's only asset is service. It's an internet based business. Their marketing is Sonakshi's reputation as a leading Nutritionist. Now she might have hired other nutritionist due to increasing demand, but she provides a reputation to the service Dev can't provide. Sonakshi can take over Dev's company and run it without Dev since he is in telecom industry. But Dev can't take over Sonakshi's company and run it because Sonakshi can always open another company as his competition and steal his customers.