How can Dev blame Sonakshi for failure their relationship! - Page 3

Originally posted by: JyotiBThakur

Both of them were broken.. Both of them get shattered.. Both lost their sole happiness in life... Both became incomplete yet again and all this because of the situations and the circumstances created around them. Their struggle started from the day their families came to know of their relationship, from the day they didn't spend a single peaceful day with each other... They tried hard to hold onto each other... To bind everyone together, but all were adamant. Nobody thought of them, but were concerned about themselves, they still tried. Tried harder before giving up. But it did not work out. And at the end, it was them who were left to suffer. They are the ones suffering... They have gone through the pain of separation for all the 7 years.. Is it really necessary to find the fault in one of them? Some find the faults in Dev and some in Sona? But will this make the pain they have gone through lesser. Will blaming Sona will make her pain, her suffering lesser or blaming Dev will make his pain lesser?

No.. Not at all... Both of them have gone through the same and are still going through. And while reading, i came across a quote which reminded me of DevAkshi, it best suited the scene where they separated, perfect for both of them:

I Let Go Not Because I Don't Love You, But Because You Blamed What Wasn't Right With Us On Me, When We Were Responsible For Each Other.

And now this refreshing change, their encounter after living alone for 7 years is going to bring them back together, even if it require a lot of time. It'll eventually happen, Because:

When You Go On A Journey Of Healing Together, Your Bond Grows Stronger Than It was Ever Before.

Originally posted by: JyotiBThakur

Both of them were broken.. Both of them get shattered.. Both lost their sole happiness in life... Both became incomplete yet again and all this because of the situations and the circumstances created around them. Their struggle started from the day their families came to know of their relationship, from the day they didn't spend a single peaceful day with each other... They tried hard to hold onto each other... To bind everyone together, but all were adamant. Nobody thought of them, but were concerned about themselves, they still tried. Tried harder before giving up. But it did not work out. And at the end, it was them who were left to suffer. They are the ones suffering... They have gone through the pain of separation for all the 7 years.. Is it really necessary to find the fault in one of them? Some find the faults in Dev and some in Sona? But will this make the pain they have gone through lesser. Will blaming Sona will make her pain, her suffering lesser or blaming Dev will make his pain lesser?

No.. Not at all... Both of them have gone through the same and are still going through. And while reading, i came across a quote which reminded me of DevAkshi, it best suited the scene where they separated, perfect for both of them:

I Let Go Not Because I Don't Love You, But Because You Blamed What Wasn't Right With Us On Me, When We Were Responsible For Each Other.

And now this refreshing change, their encounter after living alone for 7 years is going to bring them back together, even if it require a lot of time. It'll eventually happen, Because:

When You Go On A Journey Of Healing Together, Your Bond Grows Stronger Than It was Ever Before.

Originally posted by: ..natasha..

Jyothi

For me accepting ones mistake is the biggest redemption

When younknow you are wrong...you wont do it again...!!!

We have all seen how dev was responsible for their breakup both times...i know its because of Ishwari...but he was too for ignoring his mothers insecuritues..!!!!!!

Sona's mistake was she tried to mend the relationship for very long which was not needed..!!!!!!

Pain was equal for both..but when you realise your mistake you wont do it again..!!!

If dev doesnt realise it now also..then whats the point of devakshi comjg together...!!!

Originally posted by: JyotiBThakur

Why wouldn't he realise dear. He'll for sure. The way he realised what has his own family and mother did to him. Both of them will realise what went wrong and who was responsible. But it'll take sometime. And both of them need to be infront of eachother this time to realise. This time they'll only come together when they'll realise the cause of their separation.

This is what i feel.😊

Originally posted by: rahulvats12

I believe whatever happened on the last day of their meeting was not the outcome of the misunderstanding created by vicky or GKB . If the base of their relationship was strong a third person cannot ruin it .I firmly believe that Sonakshi believed Dev's angry words and signed the prenup because Dev never gave her a strong reason to trust him.It is human nature to consciously or unconsciously analyze the action of other people in a similar situation and Dev's previous actions were not favorable .

Originally posted by: NBT-BV

Rightly said - its all Devs fault. It will be in perfection of things that CVs create this enlightenment in Dev but based on Indian shows experience - CVs may not bring this in Dev being a ML.

Wish CVs do some justice to Dev

Originally posted by: anu023

I dont see y people still wprship dev..just because the actor is doing a brilliant job??

He and he alone is responsible for this mess.

U detest him and he is irredeemable.

Originally posted by: Kaustuv

He has lost trust in love and has become Casanova😡Christ this is the justification of regression in character. People of forum were understanding his intention being Sonakshi betterment when he hurled those abuses at Sonakshi turns out it inflicted those abuse in fit of rage to hurt her below belt.

Oh wow Dev Dixit u really know where to stab, infertility,gold digger he said it all and now he is the one who was wrong. Is it delusional?. Sonakshi was strong built herself up the amount of hurt inflicted at her many would have faltered, dome could have risked their life. Who in sane mind would tell about their baby to such jerk. I was waiting for his realization as he seems to have realized Ishwari and Dixit clan intent, but boy was I disappointed he still blames Sonakshi.

Now their daughter will be the reason for their first confrontation and as shown in Shimla night , after some fight, Dev will force her and she will succum. Their it was kiss here I think will be divorce paving way to their patch up. I wonder y CV even made Sona successful single mother if she had to go back to such a jerk.

Sometime I wonder whether these CV r from mars their thought process sure dosenot look from our society. Will any girl go back to such a person in real life.

Originally posted by: Bsangama

No one should be blamed here .
Dynamics of relationships are so different and difficult.
Sona tried to solve problems and try to always mend things with ishwari .
Dev tried to manage both the families for men it's equally difficult because they need to balance both mother and wife lives not upsetting both .
But gkb and Vicky created few hiccups in already broken family .
Ishwari as a mom was great but as mother in law she sucked badly she is so senseless had trust issues with sona and dev so messed up with prenuptial thing and sona 's parents were insulted and bejoy was hyper to he could not handle the anger .
Bejoy and ishwari were both immatured they created a mess in devakshi life .
Sona not able to conceive added to her grief basically no matter what sona tried till the end and dev couldn't handle it well because of his mom and drink added more fuel to his grief said those words without even thinking ( in anger u say things which u never meant because ur heart and brain go in different direction )
Here ishwari is only one to be blamed as a elder she was supposed to manage thing but here she acted like a kid .

Originally posted by: Sameera776

Coz Mamta being herself a women still finds him bechara,most of the fandom finds him bechara,he himself finds him bechara,aabla men who needs consolation after betrayed by his goddess nd family.The girl who lost her house,her father/her selfrespect she isn't need consolation instead people blame her why she leaves their bechara,spinless dev but wht if Sona stays that day if than he really finds his ma as faults no not at all he will again accused Sona she insults his ma nd she stayz bcoz she needs money not bcoz she lovez him... Wht is the girls faults if for the 3rd time she didn't give chance to Dev.Allready Sonakshi give 2 chances to dev which he miserably faild nd again throw her out of the house.