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Posted: 8 years ago
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Coz Mamta being herself a women still finds him bechara,most of the fandom finds him bechara,he himself finds him bechara,aabla men who needs consolation after betrayed by his goddess nd family.The girl who lost her house,her father/her selfrespect she isn't need consolation instead people blame her why she leaves their bechara,spinless dev but wht if Sona stays that day if than he really finds his ma as faults no not at all he will again accused Sona she insults his ma nd she stayz bcoz she needs money not bcoz she lovez him... Wht is the girls faults if for the 3rd time she didn't give chance to Dev.Allready Sonakshi give 2 chances to dev which he miserably faild nd again throw her out of the house.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Yes, its sad to see him blaming Sona even for his distrust in love. [From Friday's episode]
I am not able to understand what Sona did to make distrust in love?? What he was expecting from Sona more than this?? Did he want her to be with him always even after his continuous insults to her and to her family members?? i.e., just like a toy, without any emotions??😕

1. First of all, he is one who got into drinking, which paved the way for further mess. If drinking is the solution to problems, that at that moment Sona should have completed more bottles than him. How an easy way out for Dev to drink and blaming others??

2. Even, in last episode of their breakup, when he was in guest house before Dev and Ishwari conversation, he was blaming Sona for the current situation that why she done this to his mom etc..

Really, CVs please do make him realize his mistakes than ignoring it off as usual.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sameera776

Coz Mamta being herself a women still finds him bechara,most of the fandom finds him bechara,he himself finds him bechara,aabla men who needs consolation after betrayed by his goddess nd family.The girl who lost her house,her father/her selfrespect she isn't need consolation instead people blame her why she leaves their bechara,spinless dev but wht if Sona stays that day if than he really finds his ma as faults no not at all he will again accused Sona she insults his ma nd she stayz bcoz she needs money not bcoz she lovez him... Wht is the girls faults if for the 3rd time she didn't give chance to Dev.Allready Sonakshi give 2 chances to dev which he miserably faild nd again throw her out of the house.


Dev Ko ISHWARI Ki Class to lene Do ,,
Uska Mazza Live Tv Par To Lene Do Hame 😆

Bad me DEV Ki Bashing Kar lena
Edited by amolak26 - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Both of them were broken.. Both of them get shattered.. Both lost their sole happiness in life... Both became incomplete yet again and all this because of the situations and the circumstances created around them. Their struggle started from the day their families came to know of their relationship, from the day they didn't spend a single peaceful day with each other... They tried hard to hold onto each other... To bind everyone together, but all were adamant. Nobody thought of them, but were concerned about themselves, they still tried. Tried harder before giving up. But it did not work out. And at the end, it was them who were left to suffer. They are the ones suffering... They have gone through the pain of separation for all the 7 years.. Is it really necessary to find the fault in one of them? Some find the faults in Dev and some in Sona? But will this make the pain they have gone through lesser. Will blaming Sona will make her pain, her suffering lesser or blaming Dev will make his pain lesser?

No.. Not at all... Both of them have gone through the same and are still going through. And while reading, i came across a quote which reminded me of DevAkshi, it best suited the scene where they separated, perfect for both of them:

I Let Go Not Because I Don't Love You, But Because You Blamed What Wasn't Right With Us On Me, When We Were Responsible For Each Other.

And now this refreshing change, their encounter after living alone for 7 years is going to bring them back together, even if it require a lot of time. It'll eventually happen, Because:

When You Go On A Journey Of Healing Together, Your Bond Grows Stronger Than It was Ever Before.



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Posted: 8 years ago
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I think u r wrong to bring old mistake here.

Let me say that,
all things got messy on last day of thier meeting, when he was in drunken state, when sonakshi. Came to her, then she only blamed him for mistake he didn't. She signed the prenup where he asked her to not sign...he wanted to be with her but sonakshi still.blame him...then he understood that sonakshi never love her...and then he said in Friday episode that if this is love, then he don't believe in love anymore... He thought that sonakshi never love her that's why she is saying like him to him...but i f u really think wisely... Then u will understand that sonakshi didn't end their relationship because of his old mistake but because of current misktake, dev thrown them out of house then also he makes a prenuptial paper and also signed it...but dev didn't do anything like that we all know.
She blamed him he is not good human being that he can do such low things but in reality, he didn't do anything.

It's all because of Vicky... He created misunderstanding between them...their relationship ended because of misunderstanding created by Vicky on that day ...also if dev is blaming sonakshi then it's only due to Vicky plan and fight happened between them on that last day not because of their past mistakes.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Dev is a typical man who thinks that wife should patiently tolerate the taunts and should wait for the husband no matter how rude he behaved. Unfortunately few of us supports Dev because our perspective is somewhat similar to Dev's perspective.


The problem with Dev is he always overlooks his mistake. There are many possessive mothers, but after marriage, it is up to the Son to handle the relationship properly by prioritizing it according to the situation. I am not saying that Ishwari was tolerable, but Dev is equally responsible for his failed marriage. And he is still blaming Sonakshi for leaving him and for not trusting him?

We trust a person based on our previous experience. How can Sonakshi trust the person who broke up all of a sudden when his mother gobbled few sleeping pills in delirium , how can Sonakshi trust Dev when he made Ranveer jobless when he messed up with his family, how can Sonakshi trust Dev who danced according to the tunes of his tape record Maa even in personal matters like pregnancy, honeymoon, and the pregnancy-related treatment . And the final nail was the prenup , if I was in her place I would have slapped him for even making the document and would have walked out.

I have seen many comments empathizing with Dev whenever Bijoy scolds or taunts him, but from Sonakshi's family only Bijoy insulted him, but in Dev's family except his younger sisters and Mama all were insulting Sonakshi from the very beginning, but I have hardly seen Dev warns them, if he supported her, it would have meant a lot to Sonakshi and would have helped her to trust him. No one will trust a man or woman just because they are in a relationship, trusting a person is a gradual process.
Edited by Kamala05 - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Rithu0203

Yes, its sad to see him blaming Sona even for his distrust in love. [From Friday's episode]

I am not able to understand what Sona did to make distrust in love?? What he was expecting from Sona more than this?? Did he want her to be with him always even after his continuous insults to her and to her family members?? i.e., just like a toy, without any emotions??😕

1. First of all, he is one who got into drinking, which paved the way for further mess. If drinking is the solution to problems, that at that moment Sona should have completed more bottles than him. How an easy way out for Dev to drink and blaming others??

2. Even, in last episode of their breakup, when he was in guest house before Dev and Ishwari conversation, he was blaming Sona for the current situation that why she done this to his mom etc..

Really, CVs please do make him realize his mistakes than ignoring it off as usual.

Why sad...their relationship ended because of thier last fight not because of his past mistakes.
and it's all because of Vicky, they r blaming each other...Can't anyone see that.
It's misunderstanding between them that's why there r blaming each other not because of dev's Past Mistake

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Posted: 8 years ago
#18

Originally posted by: Kaustuv

He has lost trust in love and has become Casanova 😡 Christ this is the justification of regression in character. People of forum were understanding his intention being Sonakshi betterment when he hurled those abuses at Sonakshi turns out it inflicted those abuse in fit of rage to hurt her below belt.

Oh wow Dev Dixit u really know where to stab, infertility,gold digger he said it all and now he is the one who was wrong. Is it delusional?. Sonakshi was strong built herself up the amount of hurt inflicted at her many would have faltered, dome could have risked their life. Who in sane mind would tell about their baby to such jerk. I was waiting for his realization as he seems to have realized Ishwari and Dixit clan intent, but boy was I disappointed he still blames Sonakshi.

Now their daughter will be the reason for their first confrontation and as shown in Shimla night , after some fight, Dev will force her and she will succum. Their it was kiss here I think will be divorce paving way to their patch up. I wonder y CV even made Sona successful single mother if she had to go back to such a jerk.

Sometime I wonder whether these CV r from mars their thought process sure dosenot look from our society. Will any girl go back to such a person in real life.


Yes in real life some girls do go back. I have a friend after 5 years of divorce she married same guy as they both realized their fights were because of their parents ego. First kid was born before divorce and second kid after re-marrying. They are very happily married now.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I also thought this why he blame sonakshi... Well let see
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Kamala05

Dev is a typical man who thinks that wife should patiently tolerate the taunts and should wait for the husband no matter how rude he behaved. Unfortunately few of us supports Dev because our perspective is somewhat similar to Dev's perspective.


The problem with Dev is he always overlooks his mistake. There are many possessive mothers, but after marriage, it is up to the Son to handle the relationship properly by prioritizing it according to the situation. I am not saying that Ishwari was tolerable, but Dev is equally responsible for his failed marriage. And he is still blaming Sonakshi for leaving him and for not trusting him?

We trust a person based on our previous experience. How can Sonakshi trust the person who broke up all of a sudden when his mother gobbled few sleeping pills in delirium , how can Sonakshi trust Dev when he made Ranveer jobless when he messed up with his family, how can Sonakshi trust Dev who danced according to the tunes of his tape record Maa even in personal matters like pregnancy, honeymoon, and the pregnancy-related treatment . And the final nail was the prenup , if I was in her place I would have slapped him for even making the document and would have walked out.

I have seen many comments empathizing with Dev whenever Bijoy scolds or taunts him, but from Sonakshi's family only Bijoy insulted him, but in Dev's family except his younger sisters and Mama all were insulting Sonakshi from the very beginning, but I have hardly seen Dev warns them, if he supported her, it would have meant a lot to Sonakshi and would have helped her to trust him. No one will trust a man or woman just because they are in a relationship, trusting a person is a gradual process.


I think u r wrong to bring old mistake here.

Let me say that,
all things got messy on last day of thier meeting, when he was in drunken state, when sonakshi. Came to her, then she only blamed him for mistake he didn't. She signed the prenup where he asked her to not sign...he wanted to be with her but sonakshi still.blame him...then he understood that sonakshi never love her...and then he said in Friday episode that if this is love, then he don't believe in love anymore... He thought that sonakshi never love her that's why she is saying like him to him...but i f u really think wisely... Then u will understand that sonakshi didn't end their relationship because of his old mistake but because of current misktake, dev thrown them out of house then also he makes a prenuptial paper and also signed it...but dev didn't do anything like that we all know.
She blamed him he is not good human being that he can do such low things but in reality, he didn't do anything.

It's all because of Vicky... He created misunderstanding between them...their relationship ended because of misunderstanding created by Vicky on that day ...also if dev is blaming sonakshi then it's only due to Vicky plan and fight happened between them on that last day not because of their past mistakes.

I think there is habbit of people to find dev's old mistake and make big issue on that but when he supported sonakshi and take stand for her, then no one care about...this shows the biased reaction

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