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Posted: 8 years ago

#101

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Junee2017

@Junee2017

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Posted: 8 years ago

#102

I have a different take though! Many have been putting forward an argument that it was sex that quietened Sona but I would like to view it from a different perspective. I think Dev's passionate love for his wife and his unrelenting attitude for once to switch an adverse situation into a positive one was noteworthy!Well the reasons provided by him that how difficult it is , to fall in love with a stranger and live every moment for her was not convincing at all! Becoz as Tia mentioned it is true for Sona as well. But I fail to understand how could Dev make a blunder like this even accidentally hit his FIL? This clearly shows when one rises from rags to riches one's background or grooming probably doesn't get enriched as well. Being cultured comes with generations through literacy. Here we find two illeterate beings like Ishwari and GKB in that house who have little exposure to a cultured society and hence their crude behaviour. Ishwari fails to rebuke her son about the misbehaviour probably she would even justify his actions.It confuses me to see Dev a successful businessman, but fails to have any kind of restraint when it comes to his mother and is even fine with her bedroom interference. Thats melodramatic and unreal. However despite all this it would be interesting to watch whether his unrelenting approach to win over his wife would still be there? Which means going against his mother to some extent! The threshold of tolerance should now get tipped and Dev should now show his colours to protect and retain his love Sonakshi. For divorces are not the solution and I believe every relationship goes through a roler coaster ride and should not be dumped because of Ishwari's or GKB's or even the Bijoy's! That would be a real take!!!

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Danseuse

@Danseuse

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Posted: 8 years ago

#103

All Television and Film fraternity does is entertain audiences worldwide and try their level best to send out the right social message. But, there is no written rule that every soap or program telecast should leave a lesson to be taught and learnt. I completely disagree. Take the good from it and leave the rest. Television fraternity and writers are not morally inclined to give audience a lesson on 'how to make your relationships work'. Period. If serial watchers are turning to telly medium to learn lessons, well, I have to call them 'educated fools.' 😃

Am sure everyone knows that Cigarette packs come with a warning and so does Alcohol and there are scores of advertisements on the damages due to its usage. Does that stop people from adopting these vices? If people are supposed to be influenced by telly serials, then why is child marriage still prevalent in India? And child trafficking? Though it's a known crime and a highly punishable offence! I conclude that Television is a medium of entertainment and nothing else. There are some influences from real life and some fictional characters too. How the characters manage to tell a story defines the influence on me and helps me decide whether I need to continue to watch the soap or not.

I have stated in my earlier posts that the Creatives have a story to tell. Audience would always retain the right to criticise it or love it, depends on how they perceive it.

It's not what one says, but how you say it that makes all the difference. Dev is not God, so let's not expect him to behave like one. His arrogance and aggressiveness has been seen in many episodes. He is extremely devoted to his mother, to a fault, I would say. And I would like to see him rise above this flaw and address his personality issues. Otherwise he is a good boss and is loved by his employees. He has created a billion dollar turnover company on his own which is admirable. His mother is his weakness which am sure the Creatives will help him resolve.

Why a SIL slapped a FIL? Would it influence all SILs around the globe to do it, is a laugh-worthy question. 🤣 Then Balika Vadhu and Udaan etc, though path-breaking have not stopped the practice of child marriage/labour completely, have they? I would call the slap as a backlash. Dev did not realise till he threw his hand around. It's definitely a lesson for Bijoy to stop interfering in his daughters life. He was calm and then got provoked. Why wasn't he calm like Asha. Why did he keep yelling at Ishwari despite knowing that his SIL has a raw nerve when it comes to his mother? Because the script demanded it. When the Creatives show Dev's remorse and Bijoy's realisation, the scene would be complete. Every action has an equal and opposite reaction, right? 😃 Why are people concerned about Dev ignoring GKB? If Mamaji couldn't tame her, why should Dev?

If audiences starts defining characters and what they should do and not do, then Darcy would have been single and Rebecca would not be one of the inspired characters till date. Let the writers go berserk and tell their story. Let's wait for the next chapter...

-Rekha

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Junee2017

@Junee2017

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Posted: 8 years ago

#104

I completely agree with you Rekha ! We should perceive what we want to and leave it there!
However, I feel different views could actually help in improving the quality of a serial while they continue with whatever story they have in hand! At the end of the day its unwinding, so its important to stick to some logic as well and the expectations of the viewers while narrating a story.

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mily_mathew

@mily_mathew

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Posted: 8 years ago

#105

Originally posted by: Danseuse

All Television and Film fraternity does is entertain audiences worldwide and try their level best to send out the right social message. But, there is no written rule that every soap or program telecast should leave a lesson to be taught and learnt. I completely disagree. Take the good from it and leave the rest. Television fraternity and writers are not morally inclined to give audience a lesson on 'how to make your relationships work'. Period. If serial watchers are turning to telly medium to learn lessons, well, I have to call them 'educated fools.' 😃

Am sure everyone knows that Cigarette packs come with a warning and so does Alcohol and there are scores of advertisements on the damages due to its usage. Does that stop people from adopting these vices? If people are supposed to be influenced by telly serials, then why is child marriage still prevalent in India? And child trafficking? Though it's a known crime and a highly punishable offence! I conclude that Television is a medium of entertainment and nothing else. There are some influences from real life and some fictional characters too. How the characters manage to tell a story defines the influence on me and helps me decide whether I need to continue to watch the soap or not.

I have stated in my earlier posts that the Creatives have a story to tell. Audience would always retain the right to criticise it or love it, depends on how they perceive it.

It's not what one says, but how you say it that makes all the difference. Dev is not God, so let's not expect him to behave like one. His arrogance and aggressiveness has been seen in many episodes. He is extremely devoted to his mother, to a fault, I would say. And I would like to see him rise above this flaw and address his personality issues. Otherwise he is a good boss and is loved by his employees. He has created a billion dollar turnover company on his own which is admirable. His mother is his weakness which am sure the Creatives will help him resolve.

Why a SIL slapped a FIL? Would it influence all SILs around the globe to do it, is a laugh-worthy question. 🤣 Then Balika Vadhu and Udaan etc, though path-breaking have not stopped the practice of child marriage/labour completely, have they? I would call the slap as a backlash. Dev did not realise till he threw his hand around. It's definitely a lesson for Bijoy to stop interfering in his daughters life. He was calm and then got provoked. Why wasn't he calm like Asha. Why did he keep yelling at Ishwari despite knowing that his SIL has a raw nerve when it comes to his mother? Because the script demanded it. When the Creatives show Dev's remorse and Bijoy's realisation, the scene would be complete. Every action has an equal and opposite reaction, right? 😃 Why are people concerned about Dev ignoring GKB? If Mamaji couldn't tame her, why should Dev?

If audiences starts defining characters and what they should do and not do, then Darcy would have been single and Rebecca would not be one of the inspired characters till date. Let the writers go berserk and tell their story. Let's wait for the next chapter...

-Rekha

Hi Rekha

We are all for great story with flawed characters.We know Dev is not perfect from the beginning.

We have no issues with that.

But the issue is where one character is flawed and true to his character,the CVs try to paint the FL as unrealistically good or in plain words dumb(ehich is what Sona is coming across as).

I was ok when she was all understanding during the bday fiasco,coz that is what a matured and dignified woman would do.

But knowing that her MIL treats her like a baby machine(Sona vocally expressed that) immediately waking up after a passionate night(Sona was back to Ishwari jaap) which is not at all realistic.Gone was the insight that she had abruptly got in Shimla.

Im ok with Ishwari's obsessive love,but not ok with the way CVs glorify her.

Also At the end of the day,Its a show which is watched by lot of young girls who empathize with Sona would not be happy if she gets the losing part of the deal always.

Ishwaris obsession needs to be resolved with great care and understand not pampered unnecessarily(which is how it has been in the show till now).

Sometimes it seems like only Ishwari has emotions and all others are made of stone.

And funniest part was Sona's dialogue that she missed Ish(when she was omnipresent through her deeds for the entire trip)

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EkNoKiNashedi

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Posted: 8 years ago

#106

I watched it after months. The whole epi was W*F.

The fight, you know it was going somewhere. Sona asking the right questions and Dev just grring like a disgruntled dog saying not my fault I am no wrong. Obviously I failed to see the hot sex spoilers in forum so just when I thought they will actually have a conversation away from mad family which will progress things. Nope. What irked me more was that constant pushing from.Sona. that's how married couples fight? I thought one person always try to stay quiet while other screams, or both sit together and talk it out. Maybe it's different for all but what's with the hitting? Dev was no less throwing suitcase like that. Seriously which girl won't feel scared that his wrath may transfer from inanimate objects to her?

And then that slap. I wished after it Dev should hit GKB like it, the foul woman might shut up. Bijoys reaction was rigutz maybe loud but how do you react when your another family accuse you like it? That too when you have no knowledge of the incident. Ishwari oh my god. The way she became catatonic I swear an outsider will think someone died or something. Dafuq? Dev now needs to consult with her before doing an investment?! And her words Dev choosing Sona over them, sister to ainvayyi she put but main thing was over her. The mommy goddess . Poor soul, first him falling in love, then drunk act, then not able to have a baby, now this. How dare he chose something else? And that bitch? God ghor paap. She's over them 24/7and yet that insecure bitch. The previous epi where She calls and talk about food specifically for Sonas "condition" it was so disgusting. It's like she will gladly initiate sex if that would solve the issue.

Some were hoping Ishwari will be ashamed of Devs behavior. Hell no. She's too busy in shock that puppet son committed such big sin! Sona I have no hope from her. Other girls would slap back her husband, say mother daughter gaalis and drag her parents out, she saying words like filhaal. Wow! Kudos to daughter of the year Mrs Dixit. You deserve that hell hole. Mark my words goddess Mommy will initiate divorce and second marriage and Dev will pull another drunky act. Ritvik should be back and laugh at sona, gosh I am so so pissed. This is the new stuff they are giving supriyaji? It's so creepy as f**k! I want Ishwari to go to an assylum,it's like Humsafar repeat but we are not aware that Mommy is real evil, not the do called insecurity or parent kids bond.

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sia.krpkab

@sia.krpkab

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Posted: 8 years ago

#107

Originally posted by: Danseuse

All Television and Film fraternity does is entertain audiences worldwide and try their level best to send out the right social message. But, there is no written rule that every soap or program telecast should leave a lesson to be taught and learnt. I completely disagree. Take the good from it and leave the rest. Television fraternity and writers are not morally inclined to give audience a lesson on 'how to make your relationships work'. Period. If serial watchers are turning to telly medium to learn lessons, well, I have to call them 'educated fools.' 😃

Am sure everyone knows that Cigarette packs come with a warning and so does Alcohol and there are scores of advertisements on the damages due to its usage. Does that stop people from adopting these vices? If people are supposed to be influenced by telly serials, then why is child marriage still prevalent in India? And child trafficking? Though it's a known crime and a highly punishable offence! I conclude that Television is a medium of entertainment and nothing else. There are some influences from real life and some fictional characters too. How the characters manage to tell a story defines the influence on me and helps me decide whether I need to continue to watch the soap or not.

I have stated in my earlier posts that the Creatives have a story to tell. Audience would always retain the right to criticise it or love it, depends on how they perceive it.

It's not what one says, but how you say it that makes all the difference. Dev is not God, so let's not expect him to behave like one. His arrogance and aggressiveness has been seen in many episodes. He is extremely devoted to his mother, to a fault, I would say. And I would like to see him rise above this flaw and address his personality issues. Otherwise he is a good boss and is loved by his employees. He has created a billion dollar turnover company on his own which is admirable. His mother is his weakness which am sure the Creatives will help him resolve.

Why a SIL slapped a FIL? Would it influence all SILs around the globe to do it, is a laugh-worthy question. 🤣 Then Balika Vadhu and Udaan etc, though path-breaking have not stopped the practice of child marriage/labour completely, have they? I would call the slap as a backlash. Dev did not realise till he threw his hand around. It's definitely a lesson for Bijoy to stop interfering in his daughters life. He was calm and then got provoked. Why wasn't he calm like Asha. Why did he keep yelling at Ishwari despite knowing that his SIL has a raw nerve when it comes to his mother? Because the script demanded it. When the Creatives show Dev's remorse and Bijoy's realisation, the scene would be complete. Every action has an equal and opposite reaction, right? 😃 Why are people concerned about Dev ignoring GKB? If Mamaji couldn't tame her, why should Dev?

If audiences starts defining characters and what they should do and not do, then Darcy would have been single and Rebecca would not be one of the inspired characters till date. Let the writers go berserk and tell their story. Let's wait for the next chapter...

-Rekha

@Bold - This in BOLD is like worse than the slap. Can't argue with you on this, except to say that I would love to have a father like Bijoy who would 'interfere' in my life.
Bijoy stood up for himself there, because he was being called a thief, cheat and a liar. He was being screamed at, insulted and disrespected to no end. He was subject to the torture and his anger was justified. He was provoked and not Dev, Dev is the one who caused all this mess.

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asha2012

@asha2012

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Posted: 8 years ago

#108

Originally posted by: sia.krpkab

@Bold - This in BOLD is like worse than the slap. Can't argue with you on this, except to say that I would love to have a father like Bijoy who would 'interfere' in my life.
Bijoy stood up for himself there, because he was being called a thief, cheat and a liar. He was being screamed at, insulted and disrespected to no end. He was subject to the torture and his anger was justified. He was provoked and not Dev, Dev is the one who caused all this mess.

Sorry to butt in but couldnt help it - if Bijoy cared so much for his daughter wouldnt he have stopped Sona from marrying Dev in the first place. I have said earlier and am saying again, the first step against Dev would have to be taken by Sona and not Bijoy. Only then would she be able to leave the humiliation and tears back at Dixit Mansion and move ahead in life.

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Danseuse

@Danseuse

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Posted: 8 years ago

#109

Originally posted by: sia.krpkab

Wrong again. Bijoy's anger was misdirected. He was provoked by GKB. He should have silenced GKB but, strangely no one knows how to do that. 😃 Bijoy should have listened to the wise words of Asha when she calmly said that this issue can be discussed later amongst the elders in the family. Instead, he barged ahead at Ishwari. 😕 If he had excused himself and walked off, then Ishwari and Dev would have gone to their residence and apologised. Here, he lost his face, though he was only trying to defend his family! Reason - he lost his cool and misdirected his anger at Ishwari, with Dev around. What you reap is what you sow. He sowed anger and contempt and got a backlash in return. Look at Asha. Though she was with Bijoy, she walked away with a lot more dignity, esp. after advising Bijoy to stay quiet.

-Rekha
Edited by Danseuse - 8 years ago