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Posted: 8 years ago
#51

Originally posted by: yyy

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Good analysis let me talk about the two most important characters of this show according to CVs ...I am not at all surprised seeing Ishwari's reaction .Thats a typical MIL reaction .When they showed Ish and Sona lovely dovely bond I found it fake and i had hard time accepting the change in their relationship .This Ishwari I can relate to and she is behaving just the way I thought she would ...If people expected her to be a mother figure to Sona or be understanding then they were expecting a miracle lol .She is a methi Churi and everyone in front of her looks like bacha .I am yet to find someone as manipulative as her in the show .

Now coming to other important character ..Ishwari's twin Bijoy .I am yet to understand if he is against the treatment because it was suggested by his enemy Ishwari .Consulting doctor is the right thing to do .let the doctor decide if it's too early for a couple considering they are married for 5 months or so .In future Devakshi should not regret that they did not try when they had a chance .

Now is the turn for side actors ..Dev and Sona ..I am glad they were not mourning .They were trying to be normal and I liked it .Infertility is not end of the world .Life doesn't come to an end if they can't have a baby .It was would have been good if Sona had expresssed her fear but again Sona is never the one to talk about her feelings openely until she is forced to do she was true to her character.

I love the precap ..new costumes and Devakshi look so fresh and happ
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@BOLD - me too. the whole environment was getting so monotonous.. especially the damn bedsheet that forever remains the same.. the PH should know that it is not a stage play but a TV show..
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Posted: 8 years ago
#52

Originally posted by: Pehchaan.Kaun

Welcome PKDas 😊. You will find solace if you are not emotionally invested in this show .

I hope the makers' intention is to show all these in badlight and not to glorify the mother-son ? I mean 90% of us viewers feel offended by Dev and Ishwari's action, who is the target audience of the CV ?



and have they not succeeded so well? all of the SNS world is agog with Ishwari-Dev bashing..
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: yyy



I think Bijoy needs to calm down .Sona always has a choice to back out if she feels she can't go through the treatment.Let her atleast try before giving up or without even trying they can't conclude it's not working for her .She hasn't signed any legal document that she will go through the treatment till the end if she fails she will be sued or jailed or asked to pay penalty.Ishwari will make it a big issue but if she backs out now she will make a scene too .Why give importance to what Ishwari would do ?

Regarding pain ,I am sure the pain of not having her own kid would hurt Sonakshi more than the treatment because she always dreamt of having kids .This is where Bijoy fails to understand his daughter's feelings and Asha does it effortlessly.No doubt Bijoy loves his daughter but he cannot understand the real Sonakshi .Just like how in breakup phase he underestimated the effect Dev had on her and the impact of their breakup .He thought marriage would solve the problem and he was convinced when Sona agreed to but it was only Asha who could see the truth .Here again I see Bijoy making the same mistake

There is growth in Dev's character but it's a subtle one instead of drastic change .A guy who broke up with his mom without thinking twice married the girl he loved even after knowing his mom would be disappointed with him when infertility truth will be out .A guy who never admitted his love for Sona was seen openly acknowledging that he did all this out of love for his wife .Guy who never opened his mouth when his mom accused Sona of trapping her Boss was openly supporting Sona and admitted his mistake even after knowing his mom won't be pleased with his confession .I would call this as growth. I would have a problem if they had shown a drastic change as it would not be convincing enough to see a guy make a 180 turn one fine day .



@BOLD - read and reread this part. I also saw some parts of some episodes that reference what you wrote, especially the mandir scenes. Yes, you are right. For the first time, i observed that Dev actually told his mom, that too quite boldly enough, that he loves Sona a lot. In the past, he never was able to say it loud but this time he did.


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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: yyy

There is growth in Dev's character but it's a subtle one instead of drastic change .A guy who broke up with his mom without thinking twice married the girl he loved even after knowing his mom would be disappointed with him when infertility truth will be out .A guy who never admitted his love for Sona was seen openly acknowledging that he did all this out of love for his wife .Guy who never opened his mouth when his mom accused Sona of trapping her Boss was openly supporting Sona and admitted his mistake even after knowing his mom won't be pleased with his confession .I would call this as growth. I would have a problem if they had shown a drastic change as it would not be convincing enough to see a guy make a 180 turn one fine day .


Couldn't agree more.

I was annoyed after Tuesday's episode how Dev didn't even wait for Sona's answer. How according to me he came shamelessly jumping to Sona and said jaldi haan bolo.

But even in the anger I didn't fail to notice how Dev openly told Ishwari he loved Sona a lot and she means a lot to him. I also didn't fail to notice Ishwari's face cringe at the open confession.

Another notable point being dev also mentioned to Ishwari mujhe bharosa tha tu Sona Ko apnayegi. Tune mera bharosa Tod diya.

There has undoubtedly been a growth in Dev's character a step at a time post marriage. We have seen multiple instances and in your earlier posts you have listed them too.

I personally always thought Sober Dev would neverr be able to confront Ishwari. But now I think otherwise. If Dev is made to stand on cross roads and made to choose where Ishwari will ask him to, either when the treatments fail or Dev himself will refuse to risk Sona's life, we might see a broken Dev but not one who can let go of Sonakshi.

Dev will stand up or confront Ishwari only when the God tag is dropped.

Yes the lighter moments are required else we wont be able to handle the drama. I think after all the drama, by the time the two retired to their room, they realized that treatment is not such a bad option. The thought of the treatment did make them hopeful. Also Dev may say multiple times children don't matter to me. But we know from all the pre- wedding talks he has always been vocal of having kids. It was not the end of the world situation eitherways. Makes me think left to themselves Devakshi can handle anything , they can even see the silver lining in the darkest cloud.

They may not talk or communicate as per the forums standards but I don't know. I have not really witnessed a " What to you feel type of conversation" in the 13 years I have been married. Sometimes all you need is a reason to smile and a hug to assure that things will be better. I think Devakshi had that yesterday.

I am going to ignore the spoiler as it seemed like a looming sword each time Dev uttered the words tumhari family meri hai...

Edited by fanktlk - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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The last two episodes have shown disco-ordination amongst actors and disconnect in the scenes played out. Ishwari so keen to accompany the couple to the Doctor was hilarious 😃 and the tickets to Shimla showed her desperation too. Why, is the question???? 😃 In which case she should have chosen Khajuraho Temples! At least the images there would have kindled the desired amount of attraction amongst Dev-Sonakshi!!! Lovemaking under duress...Dev on a holiday with his spouse with a one-point agenda to impregnate her. ROFL. Poor Dev! No discussion with Sonakshi. no time given for them to get comfortable etc - JUST DO IT!!!! 😃

Vicky's revenge on Sonakshi is well placed. So while the families clash, Sonakshi's integrity may get questioned. On their return Dev is again silent and Sonakshi may walk out and then find that she is pregnant. 😛 The evilness of GKB would be out in the open if she demands a share in Dev's property for Vicky. Then Elena should walk out leading to Vicky realising his mistake. Enter Mamaji...👏

Ishwari learns her lesson. I would like Neha to don a role of making Dev realise what a fool he has been. The pre-nup track should be played here and all is out in the open. Well, that's my story...😃

I sincerely hope that Ishwari doesn't don a detective cap and follows the couple to Shimla to figure out if "they are actually following her orders'!!!! 😃 😃 Anything for a 'Wansh".


-Rekha
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Danseuse


The last two episodes have shown disco-ordination amongst actors and disconnect in the scenes played out. Ishwari so keen to accompany the couple to the Doctor was hilarious 😃 and the tickets to Shimla showed her desperation too. Why, is the question???? 😃 In which case she should have chosen Khajuraho Temples! At least the images there would have kindled the desired amount of attraction amongst Dev-Sonakshi!!! Lovemaking under duress...Dev on a holiday with his spouse with a one-point agenda to impregnate her. ROFL. Poor Dev! No discussion with Sonakshi. no time given for them to get comfortable etc - JUST DO IT!!!! 😃

Vicky's revenge on Sonakshi is well placed. So while the families clash, Sonakshi's integrity may get questioned. On their return Dev is again silent and Sonakshi may walk out and then find that she is pregnant. 😛 The evilness of GKB would be out in the open if she demands a share in Dev's property for Vicky. Then Elena should walk out leading to Vicky realising his mistake. Enter Mamaji...👏

Ishwari learns her lesson. I would like Neha to don a role of making Dev realise what a fool he has been. The pre-nup track should be played here and all is out in the open. Well, that's my story...😃

I sincerely hope that Ishwari doesn't don a detective cap and follows the couple to Shimla to figure out if "they are actually following her orders'!!!! 😃 😃 Anything for a 'Wansh".


-Rekha



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@BOLD - well said.. ROFL!!😊

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Posted: 8 years ago
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What crap in the name of reality!
Let me share my story.. 4 yrs into marriage and after trying for a baby for a year..we decided to take medical help! I was diagnosed with pcos, and was on treatment to increase the chances of conceiving naturally.. We were lucky that it clicked within months and I dint have to undergo any infertility treatments..still those months brought with them so many thoughts, so much to ponder on...all that mattered what the bond me n my husband shared..we talked..researched about the treatments to get a better understanding.. N more importantly were there for each other..without involving any sides of the family..

Having a baby is about the parents.. They decide wat's comfortable.. It can't be someone else's dream..it's creepy the way ishwari is in a hurry..and no matter what chemistry sharica show on screen it is not going to help..u can't just hug n say it's OK..it's not OK...the scene instead shud have been dev reassuring sona that he's there for her..saying sorry for his brushing her away while he only focused on his maa..

I am so done with this crap..it's now just a waste of time!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Asalve

What crap in the name of reality!

Let me share my story.. 4 yrs into marriage and after trying for a baby for a year..we decided to take medical help! I was diagnosed with pcos, and was on treatment to increase the chances of conceiving naturally.. We were lucky that it clicked within months and I dint have to undergo any infertility treatments..still those months brought with them so many thoughts, so much to ponder on...all that mattered what the bond me n my husband shared..we talked..researched about the treatments to get a better understanding.. N more importantly were there for each other..without involving any sides of the family..

Having a baby is about the parents.. They decide wat's comfortable.. It can't be someone else's dream..it's creepy the way ishwari is in a hurry..and no matter what chemistry sharica show on screen it is not going to help..u can't just hug n say it's OK..it's not OK...the scene instead shud have been dev reassuring sona that he's there for her..saying sorry for his brushing her away while he only focused on his maa..

I am so done with this crap..it's now just a waste of time!



I agree and that's where I couldn't connect. Ultimately a child helps in more bonding and love between parents. Grandparents are extended family. Even in a joint family I suppose babies are not born by arm-twisting! Though Ishwari is always possessive and makes all decisions, this was taken too far. A billionaire businessmen shown as a youth icon can't be so indecisive. 😲 I hope Creatives don't drag this track since Ishwari avoided Sonakshi's question about acceptance in case of a failed pregnancy.


-Rekha
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Posted: 8 years ago
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True the story is becoming meaningless and waste of time actually now a days..we won't get devakshi scenes hereafter after the shimla segment ..that wil b the end I guess..I might stop watching the show..just read updates .
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: pkbdas61



i thought you meant 0.4! Where was the patch up today?

the old saying is so true.. you cannot put a new patch on an old wineskin ... . this is what they did today.. and therefore, the connect was lost.

No I meant a 4. Today these people all talked. Sonakshi, Asha, Bijoy and saurabh spoke. Sonakshi and Elena spoke. Sonakshi and Dev spoke. Dev spoke in front of his family. Sonakshi spoke in front of his family. Ishwari spoke in front of her family. Unlike before where they would spend a night outside, discuss room decor and get lovey-dovey

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