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Posted: 8 years ago
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For Ishwari, it's all about control. Dev knows this too. That's why he tells his wife to just play along.

Bijoy... did you see his face today. As rude as he can be, he was helpless today. Because his daughter hasn't been given time to think. That's his problem here. And time is exactly what Ishwari doesn't want to give Dev. Se never has. When she wants Dev to do something she wants it done now

No devakshi don't need to mourn. But they need to sit down and express their feelings. They did that today. And have done in bits and pieces last few days

Fertility Treatment is eventually what they would have gone for. Because they both want kids. And I think they were both wanting it now.

Originally posted by: yyy

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Good analysis let me talk about the two most important characters of this show according to CVs ...I am not at all surprised seeing Ishwari's reaction .Thats a typical MIL reaction .When they showed Ish and Sona lovely dovely bond I found it fake and i had hard time accepting the change in their relationship .This Ishwari I can relate to and she is behaving just the way I thought she would ...If people expected her to be a mother figure to Sona or be understanding then they were expecting a miracle lol .She is a methi Churi and everyone in front of her looks like bacha .I am yet to find someone as manipulative as her in the show .

Now coming to other important character ..Ishwari's twin Bijoy .I am yet to understand if he is against the treatment because it was suggested by his enemy Ishwari .Consulting doctor is the right thing to do .let the doctor decide if it's too early for a couple considering they are married for 5 months or so .In future Devakshi should not regret that they did not try when they had a chance .

Now is the turn for side actors ..Dev and Sona ..I am glad they were not mourning .They were trying to be normal and I liked it .Infertility is not end of the world .Life doesn't come to an end if they can't have a baby .It was would have been good if Sona had expresssed her fear but again Sona is never the one to talk about her feelings openely until she is forced to do she was true to her character.

I love the precap ..new costumes and Devakshi look so fresh and happy

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Posted: 8 years ago
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And yes, that saas bahu jodi number 1 wasn't doing much for me either. This is the true Ishwari, true sonakshi and actually a mildly improved Dev.

Mamiji is confusing me. Why does she suddenly what sonakshi out of this house. She now has a bangalan of her own to deal with. I thought she had made peace with sonakshi's presence

Originally posted by: yyy

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Good analysis let me talk about the two most important characters of this show according to CVs ...I am not at all surprised seeing Ishwari's reaction .Thats a typical MIL reaction .When they showed Ish and Sona lovely dovely bond I found it fake and i had hard time accepting the change in their relationship .This Ishwari I can relate to and she is behaving just the way I thought she would ...If people expected her to be a mother figure to Sona or be understanding then they were expecting a miracle lol .She is a methi Churi and everyone in front of her looks like bacha .I am yet to find someone as manipulative as her in the show .

Now coming to other important character ..Ishwari's twin Bijoy .I am yet to understand if he is against the treatment because it was suggested by his enemy Ishwari .Consulting doctor is the right thing to do .let the doctor decide if it's too early for a couple considering they are married for 5 months or so .In future Devakshi should not regret that they did not try when they had a chance .

Now is the turn for side actors ..Dev and Sona ..I am glad they were not mourning .They were trying to be normal and I liked it .Infertility is not end of the world .Life doesn't come to an end if they can't have a baby .It was would have been good if Sona had expresssed her fear but again Sona is never the one to talk about her feelings openely until she is forced to do she was true to her character.

I love the precap ..new costumes and Devakshi look so fresh and happy

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: thedramaqueen

<font color="#ff00ff">And yes, that saas bahu jodi number 1 wasn't doing much for me either. This is the true Ishwari, true sonakshi and actually a mildly improved Dev. </font>

<font color="#ff00ff">Mamiji is confusing me. Why does she suddenly what sonakshi out of this house. She now has a bangalan of her own to deal with. I thought she had made peace with sonakshi's presence</font>



GKB always wanted Sonakshi out of the house because she can influence Dev anytime .They need Dev's money and luxuries provided by him .Remember the vicky job track where she wanted her out as she was a big hurdle for them .She never made peace with her ,she was always looking for right opportunity to strike back .

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Welcome PKDas 😊. You will find solace if you are not emotionally invested in this show .

I hope the makers' intention is to show all these in badlight and not to glorify the mother-son ? I mean 90% of us viewers feel offended by Dev and Ishwari's action, who is the target audience of the CV ?
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: thedramaqueen

<font color="#ff00ff">For Ishwari, it's all about control. Dev knows this too. That's why he tells his wife to just play along. </font>

<font color="#ff00ff">Bijoy... did you see his face today. As rude as he can be, he was helpless today. Because his daughter hasn't been given time to think. That's his problem here. And time is exactly what Ishwari doesn't want to give Dev. Se never has. When she wants Dev to do something she wants it done now</font>

<font color="#ff00ff">No devakshi don't need to mourn. But they need to sit down and express their feelings. They did that today. And have done in bits and pieces last few days</font>

<font color="#ff00ff">Fertility Treatment is eventually what they would have gone for. Because they both want kids. And I think they were both wanting it now. </font>



I think Bijoy needs to calm down .Sona always has a choice to back out if she feels she can't go through the treatment.Let her atleast try before giving up or without even trying they can't conclude it's not working for her .She hasn't signed any legal document that she will go through the treatment till the end if she fails she will be sued or jailed or asked to pay penalty.Ishwari will make it a big issue but if she backs out now she will make a scene too .Why give importance to what Ishwari would do ?

Regarding pain ,I am sure the pain of not having her own kid would hurt Sonakshi more than the treatment because she always dreamt of having kids .This is where Bijoy fails to understand his daughter's feelings and Asha does it effortlessly.No doubt Bijoy loves his daughter but he cannot understand the real Sonakshi .Just like how in breakup phase he underestimated the effect Dev had on her and the impact of their breakup .He thought marriage would solve the problem and he was convinced when Sona agreed to but it was only Asha who could see the truth .Here again I see Bijoy making the same mistake

There is growth in Dev's character but it's a subtle one instead of drastic change .A guy who broke up with his mom without thinking twice married the girl he loved even after knowing his mom would be disappointed with him when infertility truth will be out .A guy who never admitted his love for Sona was seen openly acknowledging that he did all this out of love for his wife .Guy who never opened his mouth when his mom accused Sona of trapping her Boss was openly supporting Sona and admitted his mistake even after knowing his mom won't be pleased with his confession .I would call this as growth. I would have a problem if they had shown a drastic change as it would not be convincing enough to see a guy make a 180 turn one fine day .
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I think the episode of Friday and yesterday was directed by 1 director and the ones on Monday and Tuesday by another. Hence we found a disconnect between Friday and Monday. And there was a disconnect between Tuesday and Wednesday.
Look at the sequence Dev Sona held on to each other and found peace and strength to deal with their situation. Try to forget about the slap. The continuity seems okay.


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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: thedramaqueen

Some more thoughts. I'll start with sonakshi. Today she got an important data download and a crucial lesson in the Dixit orientation course. Dev and Ishwari gave her the same answer. A strategy they adopted all these years. Ishwari dreams of her son's success and stays positive. Her son gives it his best shot. Puts his arse into it and 9 times out of 10 he succeeds. That's what they told her today. Albeit to a Bose this is a straight as a jalebi.

Sonakshi read between the lines. Ishwari actually said something quite sensible. When couples are counselled for infertility they are told the same. They got to focus on the positive and go with the flow. Whether Dev and/or sonakshi want to do that or not wasn't addressed at all. That's what Ishwari's answer to sokanshi's question was. Had Ishwari and Dev focused on the ifs and buts all these years, they won't be where they are today

Sonakshi has so much patience. I don't know many people in real life who have that sort of patience. She impressed me by asking the direct question even though Dev was dissuading her and Ishwari's body language was that of avoidance.

I don't know what lies ahead for this young lady. She is apprehensive and will do anything for her family.

I'll come to the 5 crore topic in a bit.



well said.. i wish there are more Sona's in real life.. it would be so much better at homes where there are MIL-DIL issues.. 😊😊
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: thedramaqueen

Durjoy dutta's dev Dixit... so you are handling this your way haan. Give it your best shot. Don't tell mum I said so. Tell mum I'll do what it takes to fulfil your dreams and we shall deal with the later. It's getting dark Dev. I am worried for your marriage. Big time.

5 crore. You did the absolute right thing. There was a business model that works. You invested. Don't need to explain your business decisions to your mum and your wife. Umm... I presume you still have a business strategy team and they know about this? Reading between the lines (because that's what we got to do now), you have this in hand.

It's dada who messed this. Dev was investing money in your business. Your business partner deserves to know.

Dev, just one more thing. Sweets... you will see the world's best doctors and all. But did you get your own reproductive health checked? Why am I not surprised our makers missed this tiny technical glitch.

I wish you would go and speak to baba and just say a sorry. Who bade hain



what we call technical glitches are actually things that we need to assume. At least that is what i think shri Dutta wants us to. Dev will eventually go to Bijoy for forgivenes, but not after there has been a fair share of drama, histrionics at the bose home and between Sona and Dev. After all, Dev is complicated, isn't it? can he do anything the straight and right way the first time?
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: thedramaqueen

Shiv bhakt Ishwari ji. 16 somwars fasting. Accompanying son and dil to the doctors. Very real. Mils do that

MILs also do one more thing. Something I had hoped Dadi bua will remind you. When lalla grows up and gets a biwi, as possessive as mils are, they acknowledge that their lalla doesn't wear nekars anymore. She leaves him alone with his wife and let's them make out. You know why. Because pota sab ko chahiye. Atleast now you know your son and his wife are stressed. If you were kind to them, they would have probably given you the good news or knocked the doors of a gynaecologist without you having to do your tandav.

You and asha aunty spoke sense today. But Ishwari, too little too late. I am struggling to like you



again this is something that we are asked to believe that Sona and Dev had enough time together to procreate the natural way.. maybe the procreation is not in a good environment, what with AC's not working and so.. Ishwari strikes up the grandest of ideas that she can think of.. cool shimla.. after all, and simply put, eggs are hatched in the right temperature!!!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: thedramaqueen

Last one. I promise. The show. I don't think they are trying to show how things should be. They are showing how things are. Sadly, some of this is reality of our homes.



if this happens in real life, i feel sorry for the DIL, really sorry..

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