Mothers or Wives - Whom are the CVs insulting?? - Page 3

Originally posted by: yyy

Was Dev really not concerned about Sonakshi ?I don't think so . Seeing the episode again I have a different view .His focus was on bringing Ishwari home as being a son he was tensed about his mom's Natak .That lady can hurt herself if needed and can go to any extent .I won't blame him for getting all worked up .

If Ishwari had suggested something unreasonable like remarriage or divorce it would be the real test for Dev .Here it was about getting medical help and if you see without having any predetermined hate for any character it doesn't seem wrong .In real life will parents suggest their kids to go through infertility treatment once to see if they can have their own kid .No one will suggest it's painful forget it .Atleast older generation won't think in that way .

Regarding the scene at home .Yes Dev was little insensitive and impatient as his focus was to being Ish home .Isn't it how men react ?They wish to solve the problem at first .Dev being Dev did not think far about success or failure of treatment as in his mind it's clear that he won't leave Sona no matter what .If he really wanted to leave her he would not have married her in first place .If you see the old episodes where he knows about infertility he imagines Sona's and his mom's reaction .Even in his imagination he knows he mom won't approve of his decision and won't be happy with him yet he chooses Sona over his mom .

When he said he doesn't want kids .He meant it and if there is a slight chance it's not wrong to explore that option .Irrespective of the outcome of the treatment Dev will stand up his decision and will support his wife .I have faith in him .

Maybe I am in minority like always .

Originally posted by: yyy

Was Dev really not concerned about Sonakshi ?I don't think so . Seeing the episode again I have a different view .His focus was on bringing Ishwari home as being a son he was tensed about his mom's Natak .That lady can hurt herself if needed and can go to any extent .I won't blame him for getting all worked up .

Natak - that's what Ishwari is doing. She may not be sat on the top of a 20 storey building, but did you see how wonderfully her makeup was done. There were huge dark circles and her face looked drawn. She suffers from Low Blood Pressure and her blood sugar fluctuates. We need to just imagine our mother in this state. And I have a rubbish relationship with my MIL. Even then I cant imagine her in that state. Forget whether Ishwari is Dev's Ishwar or not. She needed to eat and drink and I presume she hadnt. Its not Dev's fault at all the way he reacted. Ishwari's words were like a dagger to his heart. You could see it on his face. Did us viewers not see his reaction when she placed her condition to him. My God, if I cant be moved by that, I cant say Shaheer can act.

If Ishwari had suggested something unreasonable like remarriage or divorce it would be the real test for Dev .

Now look here I have a slightly differing opinion. Ishwari actually didnt say how Dev needs to solve the problem. All she said (at first) was that covert that 7% into 100%. Again, I do feel end of the day its the couple's decision to make. However, to give Ishwari credit, she was the one who reminded Dev to go and check with his wife.

Here it was about getting medical help and if you see without having any predetermined hate for any character it doesn't seem wrong .In real life will parents suggest their kids to go through infertility treatment once to see if they can have their own kid .No one will suggest it's painful forget it .Atleast older generation won't think in that way .

They do. the only unfair bit is she hasnt given Sonakshi any time to process and has started her natak and building undue pressure. However, this is how this has always been. She didnt let her son play cricet for 5 minutes and broke a vase at her employer's house. How would she let him sit in peace for a day and work this all out with his wife. This aspect of her personality and her attitude towards her DIL is where I struggle to see the fairness. When Neha asked for time she was given all the time in the world. the problem is Sonakshi & DEv are both confused and not communicating

Regarding the scene at home .Yes Dev was little insensitive and impatient as his focus was to being Ish home .Isn't it how men react ?They wish to solve the problem at first .Dev being Dev did not think far about success or failure of treatment as in his mind it's clear that he won't leave Sona no matter what .If he really wanted to leave her he would not have married her in first place .If you see the old episodes where he knows about infertility he imagines Sona's and his mom's reaction .Even in his imagination he knows he mom won't approve of his decision and won't be happy with him yet he chooses Sona over his mom .

He was VERY insensitive. He was VERY Dev Dixit. Sonakshi knows this and she can deal with that. Least bothered about that. I have always held the opinion that your relationship with your ILs should be your own not via your husband. Sokanshi has a problem with Ishwari, she will deal with it.

When he said he doesn't want kids .He meant it and if there is a slight chance it's not wrong to explore that option .Irrespective of the outcome of the treatment Dev will stand up his decision and will support his wife .I have faith in him .

Yes, what he was telling her is, the HE i.e. her husband doesnt care if she has babies or not. He has had to give in (and done the token act of asking Sonakshi) because of his mother.

If you ask me, this is no different to the break-up track where he didnt want to let her go. He couldnt let her go. She couldnt let go of him either. They both wanted to be together but knew that Dev did the right thing. His ways were wrong. Ditto now - the way he spoke was hurtful. I know he will make up for it in their private time - and no I dont mean he will make up for it by havin awesome sex with her

Maybe I am in minority like always .

Originally posted by: randomramblings

Suvika great to see u back. Happy new year

Sadly I have come across people like ishwari may not be obsessive abt the son but venomous to their dil.

No matter whatever be the circumstances they never leave a stone unturned to spew venom on the dil and u know what is more worse, if ever the son tries back to even open his mouth the amt of venom gets doubled or tripled even extending to her siblings and parents.

I know many of u would say that the girl has to walk out of this marriage, but u know what the reply she gives me is that it is not the mistake of her husband that he is born in such a family. Let me add on she is a post grad with distinction!!, and a working female with no less than 80k per month as salary.

She is my best friend and my heart goes out to her, but when I see her with her husband sans his family they r one of the most loveliest and liviest couples I ever met.

Her father too is like bijoy and tried his very best to protect her. All she said was, dad if someone dislikes me then there is no way u can force them to like me. I might be the apple of ur eyes but not everyone has ur eyes.

I have learnt a lot of life lessons observing her and her martial life. She has been married for 10 yrs now blessed with 2 wonderful sons .

Yes KRPKAB is bringing out the bitterness in our society to screen no matter however minor the % may be. There is no denying that this exists for real.

Originally posted by: fanktlk

I tried to read the post again and comment some more on Dev... I don't really have anything to say.

Now dev slapped Bijoy, the segment is very very clear, It was an interntional slap... Even if it wasn't it still would not be justified.

Dev Dixit... lost cause!! what else.