A sincere yearning for a DIVORCE track!

Hey y'all! I welcome your minds to this post, including the knives, rotten eggs and tomatoes you might have brought along whilst you entered this post. Hold it all for the end, please.

No rotten eggs coming your way .. all of us are entitled to our opinion and that was yours and we will appreciate it 😊

Originally posted by: Krpkab_superfan

No rotten eggs coming your way .. all of us are entitled to our opinion and that was yours and we will appreciate it 😊

I agree with part where Ishwari's true colors need to be shown to Dev. Dev still considers Ishwari his God; the problem is also that Sona never repeats exactly what Ishwari says to her and this has been happening ever since their pre break up days. It is essential that Sona recite every single mean word uttered to her to Dev. If not, how is a person to understand what his wife is going through.

Coming to GKB, we all know Dev almost considers her an insect that keeps making noises that needs to be ignored. This is all that she is and she is not given any importance. I also believe that more you try to explain to people like this, its just a waste of time!

Coming to Divorce, I think this time Sona should walk out of the house. Maternity should be a choice of the couple not the parents. And sadly, this is a reality. I know of a lot of couples who had kids due to family pressure and not because they thought they were ready. Its unfortunate but true. Also, infertility is too sensitive and issue and no matter how well they handle it, it can go wrong!

No tomatoes!! Why ??
U have said it right.
Infertility is a major issue.
Not anything to be mocked at.
Unfortunately, being a gynecologist I come across childless couples every day.
But the truth is I have not seen a understanding MIL.

Sad thing is husband torturing wife after listening to their mother.
I have heard wife saying that when we are alone, my husband is ok.
He is supportive. But when the mother brainwashes the husband, he will beat/ shout at the wife.

So far not heard MIL asking son to divorce wife & remarry for kids.

I guess still not come across anybody like iswari.
Probably I am dealing with patients who are middle class/ some in upper class.
Things like this will happen in lower socioeconomic status-
Where women are not educated.
Don't u think to an extent education will help in this?
Those who are a graduate atleast, will not treat her dil like this-
Means will have more polished behavior.

Originally posted by: Snehavinaya

No tomatoes!! Why ??
U have said it right.
Infertility is a major issue.
Not anything to be mocked at.
Unfortunately, being a gynecologist I come across childless couples every day.
But the truth is I have not seen a understanding MIL.

Sad thing is husband torturing wife after listening to their mother.
I have heard wife saying that when we are alone, my husband is ok.
He is supportive. But when the mother brainwashes the husband, he will beat/ shout at the wife.

So far not heard MIL asking son to divorce wife & remarry for kids.

I guess still not come across anybody like iswari.
Probably I am dealing with patients who are middle class/ some in upper class.
Things like this will happen in lower socioeconomic status-
Where women are not educated.
Don't u think to an extent education will help in this?
Those who are a graduate atleast, will not treat her dil like this-
Means will have more polished behavior.

just going for divorce without giving chance for treatment ...and Sona is not a feminist either she too wants to become mother ...the show and the viewers are living in reality land ..to see such imperfect flawed characters on screen..

According to the spoiler she has agreed to go through the procedures for Ishwari..

What a great story CV 👏 Killed a confident woman successfully to bring her down to a level of depressing, under-confident, without proper vision to see things.. where is that old Sonakshi ?


I have seen many many married women being crushed and exploited like this after marriage by husband and in-laws, so even if it's through television, it triggers the same anger inside me. An educated woman not knowing about where to stop tolerating, where to pull the trigger, not knowing about the basic rights as a human being !!

I don't know about a divorce but a separation is necessary at this point because all relationships relating devakshi are deteriorating day by day.

Few thoughts...

Divorce is not something that any married couple who are totally in love with each other would think of ...as a way to solve a problem as big as infertility . Now the question is - is it good for DevAkshi to walk away from each other?? I hate to say this , but I feel if they are not able to give happiness to each other then why stay together. Ever since their marriage I have not seen them living for each other. I have seen them living for Ishwari . This is not just Dev , even Sonakshi. I believe people marry for companionship , to have a life partner to share joy and sorrows. But here every thing is about Ishwari and for Ishwari.

1) Sona lost the job because Ishwari's son wanted Sona to be his mom's personal nutritionist.
2) Sona Started noticing Dev because he was taking care of his family and loved his mom, also worked hard to be a successful person
3) Dev started noticing Sona because she took care of his mom very well and loved his family as his own.
4) Dev decides to break up from Sona because Ishwari was not happy
5) Dev decides to get her back because his mom wanted to have Sona back into his life.
6) Sona tries to impress Ishwari because she feels Dev will accept her ONLY if his mom accepts her
7) Dev hides Sona's health issue because he feels that his mom and Sona might not approve of marriage once they find out the truth.
8) Sona wants to be a mom so that Ishwari can be a grandma.
9) Dev asks Sona not to tell the truth to his mom because he doesnt want his mom to be sad. Did he even think the state of mind that his wife is in??

The above are ONLY few points , there are many more...but I have felt from begining , that these two might be in love with each other...but the reason is always Ishwari. When in love you dont see anyone else you only see the person you love. These two seem to see each other thru Ishwari!!

So are they in love?? If they are... then, they will ONLY see each other...here they are able to see everyone's needs , except for each others personal needs. I dont think these two know, how to be happy. If they did ...then wont tolerate being around people who make them feel anything less!!

Dev - I never thought he loved Sona. I always felt he was obsessed with her as she was someone who loved him and some one whom he could call his. She is more like a material that he owns!!

Sona - Madly in love with Dev , but her reason to impress Ishwari is selfish ...its ONLY to see to that Dev doesnt leave her. This fear is going to back fire. In all this she has lost her character and something called as self respect !! What she doesnt understand is that Dev had started noticing her for her strong character .

( I know ppl will say , these two are selfless and not selfish. They think about others first etc etc...if that is the case they should have ONLY thought abt their families ...why get married and bring in misery to self and family??)

I think they need to stay away to see what they have done to their life. They are not happy, they are not making their families happy..then what is the point of living as a couple?? They are going on giving pain to each other .. I think they need to think if its worth going ahead with this relationship. If the answer is yes then they need to live for each other and not for Ishwari or Bijoy.

What ever said and done...one needs to understand , marriage as an institution has ONLY place for 2 all the others come outside this unit. You marry not for the family or to give birth , you marry for companionship...to have a partner to share your life ...Might sound selfish but that is the truth. No place for a 3rd person in marriage...in case of DevAkshi...there is a third person ISHWARI !!

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

Few thoughts...

Divorce is not something that any married couple who are totally in love with each other would think of ...as a way to solve a problem as big as infertility . Now the question is - is it good for DevAkshi to walk away from each other?? I hate to say this , but I feel if they are not able to give happiness to each other then why stay together. Ever since their marriage I have not seen them living for each other. I have seen them living for Ishwari . This is not just Dev , even Sonakshi. I believe people marry for companionship , to have a life partner to share joy and sorrows. But here every thing is about Ishwari and for Ishwari.

1) Sona lost the job because Ishwari's son wanted Sona to be his mom's personal nutritionist.
2) Sona Started noticing Dev because he was taking care of his family and loved his mom, also worked hard to be a successful person
3) Dev started noticing Sona because she took care of his mom very well and loved his family as his own.
4) Dev decides to break up from Sona because Ishwari was not happy
5) Dev decides to get her back because his mom wanted to have Sona back into his life.
6) Sona tries to impress Ishwari because she feels Dev will accept her ONLY if his mom accepts her
7) Dev hides Sona's health issue because he feels that his mom and Sona might not approve of marriage once they find out the truth.
8) Sona wants to be a mom so that Ishwari can be a grandma.
9) Dev asks Sona not to tell the truth to his mom because he doesnt want his mom to be sad. Did he even think the state of mind that his wife is in??

The above are ONLY few points , there are many more...but I have felt from begining , that these two might be in love with each other...but the reason is always Ishwari. When in love you dont see anyone else you only see the person you love. These two seem to see each other thru Ishwari!!

So are they in love?? If they are... then, they will ONLY see each other...here they are able to see everyone's needs , except for each others personal needs. I dont think these two know, how to be happy. If they did ...then wont tolerate being around people who make them feel anything less!!

Dev - I never thought he loved Sona. I always felt he was obsessed with her as she was someone who loved him and some one whom he could call his. She is more like a material that he owns!!

Sona - Madly in love with Dev , but her reason to impress Ishwari is selfish ...its ONLY to see to that Dev doesnt leave her. This fear is going to back fire. In all this she has lost her character and something called as self respect !! What she doesnt understand is that Dev had started noticing her for her strong character .

( I know ppl will say , these two are selfless and not selfish. They think about others first etc etc...if that is the case they should have ONLY thought abt their families ...why get married and bring in misery to self and family??)

I think they need to stay away to see what they have done to their life. They are not happy, they are not making their families happy..then what is the point of living as a couple?? They are going on giving pain to each other .. I think they need to think if its worth going ahead with this relationship. If the answer is yes then they need to live for each other and not for Ishwari or Bijoy.

What ever said and done...one needs to understand , marriage as an institution has ONLY place for 2 all the others come outside this unit. You marry not for the family or to give birth , you marry for companionship...to have a partner to share your life ...Might sound selfish but that is the truth. No place for a 3rd person in marriage...in case of DevAkshi...there is a third person ISHWARI !!

exactly this is where they both are going wrong .This is not LOVE.