Options in reality in current scenario

krpfan

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Posted: 8 years ago

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In reality for a person like dev whose is madly in love with his wife/lady love and who is sole bread earner for his family and who has full resposibility of his family and has a mother who is an emotional blackmailer and go to an extent of taking her life. what do you guys think are the options for a person like him in the current scenario in a real situation? any suggestions?

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Pehchaan.Kaun

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Posted: 8 years ago

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Growing up some balls outside the bedroom.
Give all the money to family.
Leave the house with Sonakshi.
Start another business afresh.

Edited by Pehchaan.Kaun - 8 years ago

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lavanya

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Posted: 8 years ago

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Dev really doesnt need to take ish or sonas side.. he just need to stop lying and sit down and have heart to heart talks with both women. Ask them what is bothering them and then see what he can do to take their problems away..

First thing he needs to com out if his bubble that his mom loves sona ...

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OrangeShip

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Posted: 8 years ago

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He should try to understand the reality and not live in his own world that everything is perfect. He should atleast try to address his mom's insecurities more openly. The false promises he keeps giving Sonakshi, it is better he keeps telling them to his mom for assurance. Atleast once in morning and once in evening! Then maybe Ishwari will be able to breathe.

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Reena K Dhaka

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Posted: 8 years ago

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He should go on Himalaya...And transfer all money to Family sorry sorry to Mata ji n her three so called loved daughters only.

And throw GKB n family from his house before going to Sanyaas ...he should do this nobal task.

No choice for that type men in real world.

And Sona will stay with her family...where all love n respect her unconditionally and if she wants to settle down again and find a good person with spine who will love her but but but but give her respect in front of all.

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peace

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Posted: 8 years ago

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There is no hope really for someone like Dev in real life.

Even if he gets the courage to stand up to his mother, when the mother has taken a PHD in emotional blackmail, what is the guy going to do. First she consumed sleeping pills, then she runs away from home (this is not for solace, remember she said I will show Sona etc. , so its all pre-planned). The best is to let the girl go from him life or to put his mother in counselling. The counselling part is still alien in our country, the person has to be willing to go and with Ish like mothers, there is a high chance she will say.. Tumhari biwi ne tumhe mujhse alag karne ke liye, yeh bhi bata diya ki mujhe kuch problem hai

I dont see a chance of this type of guy living in peace 😭

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sia.krpkab

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Posted: 8 years ago

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Slap himself hard!

Such type of men are not just unfit for marriage but also an emotional leech. I don't think he is capable of any deserving options.

Sona is the one who needs to count her options and save herself from this madness.

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reachanupama

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Posted: 8 years ago

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Honestly he has no options at all. Well as long as he has a mother as Ishwari, there is no future for him and his relationship with Sonakshi. It would be better for both of them to separate and lead individual lives because Dev cannot stand up for his wife (Vicky does a much better job protecting Elena) and cannot go against his mother and Sonakshi really deserves someone better. She was unwanted to begin with in the Dixit household and with her current medical condition, she will be loathed.

All of us thought that the infertility track would be the redemption of Dev but sadly thats not where it is heading.

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moni160282

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Posted: 8 years ago

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First of all Dev should understand that sona and ishwari cannot have a mother and daughter relation as that's the way this relations are. The only thing is they should be able to live with each other respecting each other's individuality. Second he should be clear to her mom that they will definitely give a try but if they don't succeed then adoption is always an option as she wants a grandchild. Third he should stop lying and try to be a little diplomatic but without playing with emotions. Most importantly sona and dev should live in reality. Divorce or leaving the family is definitely not a valid option.

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amaypranay

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Posted: 8 years ago

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I still have faith that Dev will learn how to handle both his precious women! This infertility track is just about to begin.. it's a bigger lesson for the husbands to see what their wife go through during this period! It's a big eye-opener for them.. it's a true test to see how much they support their wife!

And slowly he has to communicate to them.. balance between them!

He needs to accept his Mother is very insecure about him, he needs to understand this... soon!

And stop lying to them thinking its benefiting them!

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