Wrong Number!!! EDITED!!! - Page 3

Originally posted by: GeekSquad

If not the episode, I definitely feel happy reading your analysis..Infact you have gotten me addicted to it..I keep searching every few hours to come back and read..Stay blessed dear.

Lying is the primary enemy of any relation..Wanted to share an example..

My son is in fifth grade now, had a PTM last August. The only complain his teacher had was - My son lies so confidently about having completed his homework, till getting caught..The class teacher was extremely upset with his behaviour..Not for having finished the homework but being dishonest..I came back home as well and was totally depressed after hearing. He is infact the brightest of child.

From my end, I have given the freedom to kids to speak their mind..Give the best of facilities..Live life the way they want...I have put them before anything..but why does he have to lie..

So we both (my husband and I) sat down and had this wonderful chat..Why does he lie??

1. He cant fail down in front of teachers or parents or friends

2. He is scared of the punishment for not completing work..

3. He doesn't want me to lose his trust on him.

Knowing these three, we worked through the past 6 months..He is really better now..But for me toughest part was...Eventhough I couldnt trust fully, I still had to make him see how it hurts when he tells lies and pretend that I trust him..so that he can be himself.

Parents have a big big responsibility..Ishwari, in my view totally failed at it.>no matter what..

Sorry about my ranting session..

Just touched me personally on where it could lead kids if not corrected on time..

Originally posted by: GeekSquad

Agree..This girl has to face so much man..All for what? Liking Mr. Di the Shit..Dixit.

Originally posted by: .Avengers.

Tch tch, Tia you must be understanding. He did it out of selfless love. Everything he did was good..What lie and hiding? Love re, don't you get it?

I once read a ranting from a fan about a show I used to watch that how the story writers only pick a particular character for all kind of pain and shit, how they never let her be happy and how they treated her miserably before killing off screen. This show reminded me of that post. Sonakshi was used to show mahan Dev ka pyar and how redeemable Ishwari is from day1. Even now when she's at her lowest it's not really about her, from a viewers point or story. Somehow a pregnancy which is first and foremost about the parents became all about the Grandma. Are you shitting with me?! Dev still trambeling like winter leaves fearing mommy with go Cray cray *girlfriend secret out sycide alert* Sona can't grieve this major betrayal she got from her husband whom she shouldn't have really trusted. Though he's her husband. Though she loves him and this guy gives these giant ass promises. She should have been smarter, yadda yadda. She had to get up and stay strong cause we have mommy to support. Like what in the world?! It feels like a miscarriage only there's no baby. Bit the pain is same and it makes no freaking sense why, Why exactly it has become Ishwari reaction issue? If it was about older generation why not show Asha Bijoy outrage along side Ishwari ranting? And if she's really all that 'oooh evil DIL' mode go yell at sona, don't bitch with GKB. What's the point? So all love about baby gone? If you think she had cheated you why not show proper reaction cause, news flash, we just came to know as a viewer that show was really about Ishwari. Dev Sona was just ainvayyi, like wall papers or color pallet. Go scream at her, rage, throw stuff. Obviously it's your matter, and why won't be. Your grown ass son is still a *pardon my language* a pussy who can marry and f**k but can't face you. You DIL never does anything to change it. They allowed you to become so much bigger than both of them. It's about reaction so at least give us a proper reaction. The sitting in a room and old age witchy recepie making with SIL mommy aunty and padoshi really not working.

If spoilers are true she will go missing. Great. Next is pren up and new wifey hunt. Wow, what an evolution of character. So this female couldn't share her son (to the married ladies here how scary it is to have a power play with MIL) suddenly goes to 'yayyy dadi time' to 'i still need grandkids f**k u bitch: mode. When did this happen? What happened to not letting her son doing it and then getting upset when they booked a freaking hotel to do it just to get away with her? What happened to Maa sab janti hai, getting jealous of how Sona getting into every part of their lives? So we just need to forget that all eh? Kid is more important. Don't people plan these days? Baby in next 2/3 years?

Omg I just needed to get these off my chest. it's offensive as hell but screw it. Happy new year Tia and rest. If you guys stick around hope it gives you something to do so

Originally posted by: gemini54

Couldnt resist posting

Easwari will force Dev and Sona to divorce because of this child issue

I wouldn't be surprised if one of her conditions was that Dev remarry if the treatment is not effective and Dev hiding yet another thing from Sona . The treatment will be failure how else can they bring in the Pre Nup without Divorce! and then the Pre Nup comes out and Dev sees Easwaris true colors then I am not sure where this story is headed

Certainly not the subtlety I wanted or expected on this show but Ah well this is their story and if they want to go about it this way let them..we always have the power to walk away!

P.S I just read that Sona needs to see Dev's selfless love ...😲 are we watching the same show?

Originally posted by: GeekSquad

If not the episode, I definitely feel happy reading your analysis..Infact you have gotten me addicted to it..I keep searching every few hours to come back and read..Stay blessed dear.

Lying is the primary enemy of any relation..Wanted to share an example..

My son is in fifth grade now, had a PTM last August. The only complain his teacher had was - My son lies so confidently about having completed his homework, till getting caught..The class teacher was extremely upset with his behaviour..Not for having finished the homework but being dishonest..I came back home as well and was totally depressed after hearing. He is infact the brightest of child.

From my end, I have given the freedom to kids to speak their mind..Give the best of facilities..Live life the way they want...I have put them before anything..but why does he have to lie..

So we both (my husband and I) sat down and had this wonderful chat..Why does he lie??

1. He cant fail down in front of teachers or parents or friends

2. He is scared of the punishment for not completing work..

3. He doesn't want me to lose his trust on him.

Knowing these three, we worked through the past 6 months..He is really better now..But for me toughest part was...Eventhough I couldnt trust fully, I still had to make him see how it hurts when he tells lies and pretend that I trust him..so that he can be himself.

Parents have a big big responsibility..Ishwari, in my view totally failed at it.>no matter what..

Sorry about my ranting session..

Just touched me personally on where it could lead kids if not corrected on time..

Originally posted by: .Avengers.

Tch tch, Tia you must be understanding. He did it out of selfless love. Everything he did was good..What lie and hiding? Love re, don't you get it?

I once read a ranting from a fan about a show I used to watch that how the story writers only pick a particular character for all kind of pain and shit, how they never let her be happy and how they treated her miserably before killing off screen. This show reminded me of that post. Sonakshi was used to show mahan Dev ka pyar and how redeemable Ishwari is from day1. Even now when she's at her lowest it's not really about her, from a viewers point or story. Somehow a pregnancy which is first and foremost about the parents became all about the Grandma. Are you shitting with me?! Dev still trambeling like winter leaves fearing mommy with go Cray cray *girlfriend secret out sycide alert* Sona can't grieve this major betrayal she got from her husband whom she shouldn't have really trusted. Though he's her husband. Though she loves him and this guy gives these giant ass promises. She should have been smarter, yadda yadda. She had to get up and stay strong cause we have mommy to support. Like what in the world?! It feels like a miscarriage only there's no baby. Bit the pain is same and it makes no freaking sense why, Why exactly it has become Ishwari reaction issue? If it was about older generation why not show Asha Bijoy outrage along side Ishwari ranting? And if she's really all that 'oooh evil DIL' mode go yell at sona, don't bitch with GKB. What's the point? So all love about baby gone? If you think she had cheated you why not show proper reaction cause, news flash, we just came to know as a viewer that show was really about Ishwari. Dev Sona was just ainvayyi, like wall papers or color pallet. Go scream at her, rage, throw stuff. Obviously it's your matter, and why won't be. Your grown ass son is still a *pardon my language* a pussy who can marry and f**k but can't face you. You DIL never does anything to change it. They allowed you to become so much bigger than both of them. It's about reaction so at least give us a proper reaction. The sitting in a room and old age witchy recepie making with SIL mommy aunty and padoshi really not working.

If spoilers are true she will go missing. Great. Next is pren up and new wifey hunt. Wow, what an evolution of character. So this female couldn't share her son (to the married ladies here how scary it is to have a power play with MIL) suddenly goes to 'yayyy dadi time' to 'i still need grandkids f**k u bitch: mode. When did this happen? What happened to not letting her son doing it and then getting upset when they booked a freaking hotel to do it just to get away with her? What happened to Maa sab janti hai, getting jealous of how Sona getting into every part of their lives? So we just need to forget that all eh? Kid is more important. Don't people plan these days? Baby in next 2/3 years?

Omg I just needed to get these off my chest. it's offensive as hell but screw it. Happy new year Tia and rest. If you guys stick around hope it gives you something to do so

Originally posted by: twinkle-stars

I agree with you!

Originally posted by: gemini54

Couldnt resist posting

Easwari will force Dev and Sona to divorce because of this child issue

I wouldn't be surprised if one of her conditions was that Dev remarry if the treatment is not effective and Dev hiding yet another thing from Sona . The treatment will be failure how else can they bring in the Pre Nup without Divorce! and then the Pre Nup comes out and Dev sees Easwaris true colors then I am not sure where this story is headed

Certainly not the subtlety I wanted or expected on this show but Ah well this is their story and if they want to go about it this way let them..we always have the power to walk away!

P.S I just read that Sona needs to see Dev's selfless love ...😲 are we watching the same show?

Originally posted by: tia.o

That was hilarious and sad at the same time. What kind of society do we live in where anything in the name of love is valid? I have been married for 5 years this January to a wonderful man. I told him what I was watching and he said, "If he was a real man and really loved that girl, he won't have been able to tolerate her disrespect no matter who disrespected her. Because a man who really loves a woman can't see her hurt. And if he can tolerate her disrespect without getting angry, he is not in love with her. She is a convenience."

I thought I'd share this statement because just like a woman in love can't tolerate anyone disrespecting her man, a man in love can't tolerate anyone disrespecting his love.

Dev's action was not of the action of a man who really loves a woman but of a man who does not want to let go of a toy.

The toy for whom he can lie, cheat and deceive anyone including the toy herself. He never treated Sonakshi as a human being with her own hopes, dreams, desire etc.

I completely agree with everything you said. Tomorrow is my last daily post. I just can't read through even written update.