Originally posted by: LiveLife321
@gemini: Such an opt title. 👏👏
A marriage is a bond of Trust Love and Respect where the two people involved are in together for better or for worse.
I completely agree with it esp When your partner breaks your Trust, you can forgive them for their deeds but its impossible to forget what they did to you. Some times it takes life time to heal those scars and we wish to have memory eraser to erase that painful past.
@Shaavi : 🤗 to you fighter & 👏 for your courage. Glad to know that your family is complete and you won your battle. Hope your experience gives more power & courage to many people who are fighting their own battles.😊
After seeing such an amazing discussion & experiences shared by many of you, i too felt like sharing my own life experience.
My Mom & Dad were self-made individuals who achieved everything in life solely with their hardwork. They taught me & my brother 2 most important things in life for which we will be indebted to them since thats what gave us courage & strength to fight our own battles with our head held high.
1. The importance of individuality.
2. Most important one is standing on your own feet.
When i got married(Its an arranged marriage), i was just like any other normal girl with full of dreams about future. It didn't took much time for me to see the reality and to understand the kind of mess i have entered on the name of marriage. We loose hope on future when we see the foundation of most important relation in our life is based on a bag full of lies. I dont know whether to call it as love for my partner or commitment towards my relationship, what ever it is that time i was exactly standing on the same place where Dev is standing today, only situations are different. I know what he did to me but i cant share this truth with my parents mainly because i cant see them disrespecting him & most importantly i cant see them blaming themselves for my condition. I know that i cant hide those happenings for long time and when they face the truth, they will be broken but what i wanted in that state was some TIME to work on the situation & a MIRACLE to see the end result. Thats what exactly happened when my parents got to know about the mess i was in and it killed me to see my dad in guilt mode but later they understood my intentions and became my support in my tough times.
It took me 5yrs to clean up the mess & to witness the miracle i was waiting for in my life. Today, I dont have any regrets about any of my decisions in life including my marriage because i never saw the result of any decision as right or wrong, Its only about Memories and Lessons learnt.
I really dont want to comment on whether Dev took right decision or not, Only time will tell this. One thing i can say is he is not completely responsible for this entire mess, Ishwari & Sona are equally responsible. They both started it, he is taking it to further level. We can't see life as a set of stand alone events. Each and every event & reaction in life is interlinked with other events & others reactions. Thats why its complicated some times for a third person to understand from outside.😊
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