After watching this week's episodes till now I have come to a very obvious conclusion... what I mean is that whatever is happening on screen right now may not be 100% real but it's actually very close to reality. What they are trying to highlight, exactly, only time will tell! And I trust them to justify their job. There's also something else, like an undercurrent to the whole scenario, and its nothing else than dev lacking a spine. Whatever is happening what with ishwari taunting sonakshi at the birthday bash, the not heeding to her advices, ishwari trying her level best to keep sonakshi out of the equation, is all one way or another the trio's fault. All three of them are responsible for the current situation of course the ratio of inputs is a bit different.
the ratio of the errors I feel it's: 60% dev's fault, that things have run so out of hand ; then comes ishwari's insecurities they have a share of, say 30% and last and also the least there's our very own sonakshi with a scorecard of 10%.
Now let's start from the least, how is this sonakshi's fault one might ask?? She is one of the strongest characters on the show, with the right amount of brains and sense, then why is she so shy from discussing matters with dev, can't she tell him directly how things are working around. Why is she still so mum about ishwari taunting her way around??? Why is she so hell bent on losing her self-respect?? The moment she stops caring about her self-esteem the dixits will claw her down!!
Ishwari one might say she is plagued with the empty nest syndrome, but the fact is she is too afraid of the unknown. She was always in the comfort zone, where she was worshipped, where nothing went beyond her word, where the worlds collapsed on her uttering the single syllable no. till some point of time it is relatable, that yes a mother might feel this, but facts be searched and rendered this is not just love that is making her do it: its paranoia!! She is paranoid that as soon as sonakshi starts to gain a position in the household she will be side lined, even though if something like this may or may not happen, that's a different question all together, but on the looks of it this will never happen... Also she is so used to being the centre of the universe, that subconsciously she is afraid that tag has slipped right through her nose and landed on sonakshi's head... the reason why she wanted sonakshi to stay away from a sick dev was because she wanted dev to again crown her the most important part of his world, burying him under the immense layer of sleepless nights she had been facing since the time of birth!! Point be told her behaviour is that of a person who is trying really hard to maintain the faade in front of a particular someone but deep down inside knows that the faade is slipping!!
If truth be told dev is the major defaulter.. My father always says that when a man gets married it's his prime duty, to understand the need of his family and to balance his family.. now from the very beginning either dev is just too buried under the ishwari baggage, or too spineless to take a stand whatever is the reason the results are in front of us, he has time and again failed sonakshi... it is very much possible that he can, and he should politely ask his mother to refrain from competing with sonakshi in terms of affection.. it's like he is completely oblivious to the MIL and DIL engaged in a battle the wife Is destined to loose.. even though both women have different approach to handling situation regarding him... because of dev constantly, like a preprogrammed directive, following every beck and call of mommy dearest and making her feel on the top of the world, has forgotten all about the functioning's of the real world and how delicate the threads of matrimony are... it's a husbands duty to make his wife the acceptable material but here dev's has completely backed out of that spot.. it's like he feels everything will be done right in time!!
This cycle is being repeated in every episode ishwari refusing to bow down to the changes, sonakshi losing her self-respect and dev turning a blind eye towards the whole matter!!
The situations can only improve when dev tries to see through the cracks, if, he tries to fill the unnecessary gaps that are being created.. it is only possible if the mother son duo sit down together and he makes it really clear that sonakshi is and will stay a part of the house no matter what!!
A woman when she leaves her house and walks the thresholds of her husband's palace from that moment onwards she becomes his responsibility, sounds a little clich bit that's the whole crux of it ,it's his job to not only love and respect her, but also make sure the people of the house respect her and if not love her but at least accept her!! But dev is soo oblivious that he has even failed to see the pure dislike neha and mamiji harbour towards sonakshi!!! It's a shame!! And dev needs to MAN UP!!
On other note hats off to our makers and cvs for keeping the show so close to realtiy!!
Sorry for the rant, its was something building up inside of me from a really long time!! Feel free to add or subtract something from this post, and you all are free to discuss, criticize, comment and contradict the above said!!
Congratulations!! A big one actually!!! Our forum turned goldie!!! Our show completes 9 months and 200 episodes!!
SO HAPPY AND PROUD KRPKABIAN!!! LOVE THIS SHOW!!
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