Women are Fools!!!

Originally posted by: tia.o

Surprised to read this title from a self-proclaimed Feminist?

Don't be because a Feminist is never blind to any gender's faults.

Why did I say that women are fools?

Well, we are.

We are most of all Emotional Fools.

Because only an emotional fool would fall for same emotional mindgame over and over again despite being betrayed/lied/cheated by the same person before?

We are also Mental Fools.

We selectively delete the lies/betrayal/cheating of the people we love and keep hoping that what they did and got away unscathed won't be repeated again going against general human nature.

We are also generally a Fool.

Even dumbest of men think of their happiness, their comfort, their honour, their respect first.

We also think about their happiness, their comfort, their honour, their respect first. And no one else thinks about us.

Isn't it funny that we feel sorry and sympathy for men caught between his mother and wife when we feel absolutely nothing when the man asks a woman to choose him for the price of marriage and kids over her own family?

Why don't we feel sorry for that woman?

Everyone reaches for stars and moon and we settle for crumbs hoping they'd appreciate our undemanding nature and hand us our share of the pie unasked. That is fantasy, never reality.

We settle for pity, sympathy and kindness where we should only rest once we have our full respect, equal rights along with our dignity. We think if we become unassuming, undemanding, goody two shoes we will get love. But is that conditional love worth it? Will it sustain if we are having a bad day, when we have had enough, when our patience snaps?

We are the origin of life, yet our own life goes unclaimed, unlived because we are too busy living someone else's perception of our life. It's sad really that life, the most precious gift, once lost never comes back.

We are taught to be content with what we got and our brothers are taught to be ambituous and reach for the stars.

No wonder even after so many centuries of human civilization, women are still far away from their rights as an equal to men...

Originally posted by: baijubavra

Tia I absolutely don't believe in being duped by the same person again and again in the name of love. These two are taking her for granted and are downright jerks without any sign of a real remorse! I was very disappointed to see Dev feel happy about jhula's removal then his justification when his lie was caught at the closet fiasco but his efforts that Sona does not address Ishwari as aunty while he wants to address Asha as aunty is the ultimate evidence of their selfish and manipulative behavior . He never initiated to take Sona out after marriage and took solo decisions to cancel the HM and then the birthday dinner. Could he not tell Ishwari to postpone her poem recital for some time so he could get Sona himself? He stood her up and then did not even go himself to get her! Why should Sona live in their house as a second grade citizen who does not have any rights?

Originally posted by: sona_naksh

Awesum post tia ...beautifully written n is d bitter truth of society which claims to give men n women equal rights but fails to do so ..because in theor own house women dont get equal rights and d worst part is at tyms dey dont even realise

Originally posted by: gmgi

Wonderful post Tia👏

This reminded me of one funny quote that we used to use

"God made woman beautiful and foolish

beautiful,that man might love her and

foolish, that she might love him"