Group Hug!!! EDITED WITH EPISODE!!! - Page 5

Originally posted by: Push-pull

Quoted from your post: Sona very honestly tells Ishwari the reason of her upset. So Ishwari says that all his life Dev only called her Mother (as if everyone else call multiple people mother growing up) and he may not want to give that position to someone else.

Sona wouldn't have forgotten how comfortably Dev called Asha as Maa even before the wedding.. Ishu deserves to know that😆

Ishu, you can't get away with your gyaan that you use for your own benefits.. They don't work everywhere, dear.. 😆

Sona, 👏👏🤗

Originally posted by: Rithu0203

Group hug, when i first saw the segment, i thought how it is possible and moreover it look no value to me coz in Dixit's home no one is sharing their problems or happiness among themselves or there is no non-partial love towards each other. And automatically compared with that of Bose family group hugs which was very genuine and really affectionate.

BUT, after reading ur post realized as you mentioned it is first step towards change in Dixit's mentality towards their family being together in all circumstances. So, a baby step towards good change in Dixit's house. Happy for Sona.

About today's episode i have two doubts,

1. I am not all convinced by Sona's ignorance towards ignoring her in the family surprise party. Not worried about her wait for hours in club and even not worried about Dev sending driver to pick her up, but atleast he could have waited for Sona to come before cutting the cake. Till now was able to relate to Sona's character, but here not(may be i am not yet married nor in love). I am curious to know, Is that really possible for one to easily forgive their partner in such situation without even expressing their hurt or concern that atleast next time they wont repeat this?? is this forgiveness(moreover forgetting) so easy when we are in true love or married??

2. About, Dev calling Asha maa as aunty. This is totally handled as comedy scene w.r.to Dev and Sona. Not getting what message CVs are trying to give. coz, Dev even after knowing the fact that its only Asha who helped Sona and indeed Dev from her outburst of party plan failure, he himself didn't even felt to call her maa, then there is no use from Sona's side to make him to call her maa and accept them as his family, it should come from his side by himself.

Though CVs made the scene comedy, really liked the conversation between Sona and Ishwari, which even reflects many members feeling in this forum too.

And, the last one so CVs didn't forget the mama's boy comment, it will be continued.. no idea what will be its reaction.

Originally posted by: rose4ever

Lovely post Tia.Here's a hug to you and all the strong ,amazing women here🤗I haven't seen or read about the segment with the hug but it seems to be a beautiful scene going by your post.

As for today's episode, I can't say I am, happy with how it was shown.The background music was not at all appropriate for this scene and it came across as a very light and humorous issue which it was not.Dev's reaction (sitting on bed and giving that Oh No expression as if it was a small irrelevant conflict or teasing matter going on) too took away the seriousness of the matter.Similarly Sona's words came across as if she was taking it lightly as well😕

I liked her response to Ishwari and her comment to Dev in precap though.Dev continues being a hopeless case.

Originally posted by: tia.o

EPISODE UPDATE:

Sona is in full form today. She stood firm in her ultimatum that Dev should call her mother Maa or she will call his mother, Aunty...

But Dev was scared shit because that would apparently hurt his Mother. Well, of course it would. Just like it would have hurt Asha. But he didn't think about her when he called her aunty. Those who thought that what you call someone doesn't have any significance, this was the proof that it does or Dev won't be so concerned.

He tells Sona that he will call Asha aunty but she can't call his mother that. Could he be anymore ass hat? This guy doesn't deserve any consideration whatsoever. He actually thinks that he gets to dictate the terms here after behaving like a jerk.

You know I get that Birthdays are special and hence, the person whose birthday it is should be treated well. But if anyone behaves like a complete jackass even on his birthday, they deserve a swift kick in the butt.

So Sona asks him to go for office and decides to call Ishwari aunty at the party.

Radha overhears and tells Ishwari that Sona was arguing with Dev. When Sona comes down, Ishwari asks to forgive his mistakes because it's his birthday (So Ishwari which is the day when your son doesn't deserve any forgiveness? Because rest of the 364 days, according to you, he deserves forgiveness for just burdening the Earth with his double standards)...

Sona very honestly tells Ishwari the reason of her upset. So Ishwari says that all his life Dev only called her Mother (as if everyone else call multiple people mother growing up) and he may not want to give that position to someone else.

Sona gets mad because she realized this was Ishwari's doing. No Sona, this was not Ishwari's doing. She was doing what she has always done. But this was solely your husband's doing for being a selfish a$$.

Anyways, Sona was in full form today. She told Ishwari that when she got married, her mother told her to embrace everyone in his family as her own, didn't Ishwari teach her son that? (BRAVO!!! I wrote exactly that in my post when Dev called Asha aunty. Today Sonakshi took the thoughts from my heart)

She came into Dixit house and adopted his family as her own, but Dev couldn't do that for her family and she left.

Ishwari remained stunned.

Sona, take a bow. You have placed a gigantic mirror in front of Ishwari. I don't think she likes what she sees in there.

Precap: Sona calls Dev Mamma's boy and Ishwari gets upset. But I am not sure why. Isn't that her aim in life to raise Dev as Mamma's boy and make him stay that way?

Originally posted by: rose4ever

Lovely post Tia.Here's a hug to you and all the strong ,amazing women here🤗I haven't seen or read about the segment with the hug but it seems to be a beautiful scene going by your post.

As for today's episode, I can't say I am, happy with how it was shown.The background music was not at all appropriate for this scene and it came across as a very light and humorous issue which it was not.Dev's reaction (sitting on bed and giving that Oh No expression as if it was a small irrelevant conflict or teasing matter going on) too took away the seriousness of the matter.Similarly Sona's words came across as if she was taking it lightly as well😕

I liked her response to Ishwari and her comment to Dev in precap though.Dev continues being a hopeless case.

Thank god somebody agrees with me. The question of your respect and that of your mother was handled with humor and teasing.When someone is very sick dr gives injection irrespective of the pain it's gonna cause whereas same dr would ideally give tablets. Some situation warrant tough treatment. For me CV should not have taken this route today. I just can't rub my mind over the way it was handled. Even GKB said if she calls Ishwari Aunty Sona will be shown the door. For being so nice and understanding all Asha gets for her respect is Dev expression,humor and teasing. Is not it belittling Asha.