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Your questions are completely valid. But here's what I think (keep in mind I might be completely wrong in my theories).It is not easy to forgive and forget at the drop of a hat. But I think Sona has figured out that if she openly confronts Dev, he just argues and shouts and uses his standard dialogue, "Tum nehin samjhogi"...So the best way to bring him in line is to give him a taste of his own medicine in a very polite manner.It's a more effective strategy because you can't fight with someone who is calm and polite. But you can't change their mind or force them to do what you want either. So it's maddening.I know. I am one of those passionate fight types who stands her ground and argues until the other one gives in (I don't storm away or condescending to my opponent though) and my husband is cool and calm in fight. He never raises his voice and never even approaches me in a threatening manner regardless how angry he is. The more angry he gets, the more polite he gets.You can't fight that.I think Sona is taking that approach. Has she forgiven Dev? Time will tell. His birthday might just be a Time Out day.But if she keeps talking in a polite manner and yet calls Ishwari Aunty, Dev can't stop her either. He is powerless.So I will wait and see how Monday turns out.I am just happy to see our tigress back. 😆
Originally posted by: gemini54
Stupendous Post as always Tia👏
My two cents on the show are quotes from the book ' The Art of War'"The supreme art of war is to subdue the enemy without fighting."Sun Tzu, The Art of WarSona looks like is just doing that she showed Easwari the mirror without fighting or arguing...do most people take this approach No me included but looks like Sona follows the silent Satyagraha approach and that is better then shouting matchesThus the expert in battle moves the enemy, and is not moved by him."Sun Tzu, The Art of WarSona showed Dev his own flaws just by her words she did not deter from what she wanted , and made it clear she was upset so his explanations did not move her..This was a classic moveI think Sona is now ready to engage in the actual War...let the War games begin"Move swift as the Wind and closely-formed as the Wood. Attack like the Fire and be still as the Mountain."Sun Tzu, The Art of WarSona the heroine has risen today
P.S This is just from written episodes hope I am correct😉
Originally posted by: gemini54
Stupendous Post as always Tia👏
My two cents on the show are quotes from the book ' The Art of War'"The supreme art of war is to subdue the enemy without fighting."Sun Tzu, The Art of WarSona looks like is just doing that she showed Easwari the mirror without fighting or arguing...do most people take this approach No me included but looks like Sona follows the silent Satyagraha approach and that is better then shouting matchesThus the expert in battle moves the enemy, and is not moved by him."Sun Tzu, The Art of WarSona showed Dev his own flaws just by her words she did not deter from what she wanted , and made it clear she was upset so his explanations did not move her..This was a classic moveI think Sona is now ready to engage in the actual War...let the War games begin"Move swift as the Wind and closely-formed as the Wood. Attack like the Fire and be still as the Mountain."Sun Tzu, The Art of WarSona the heroine has risen today
P.S This is just from written episodes hope I am correct😉
Originally posted by: thedramaqueen
That was all done with a purpose. Dev cant believe his luck after how kind Sonakshi was towards him. So he thinks this aunty issue isnt a big deal either. He thinks just as he got away with having his date wait for him for 1.5 hours followed by a no-show, he will also get away with sliding in asha aunty in the conversations... So he thinks she is just kidding.Things got pretty heated and Sonakshi's mild sarcI tasm got to him in the morning.wait till next week... I think we are finally getting somewhereSonakshi is taking control (in a good way) of their relationship because Dev cant lead without herYes,he did take it very lightly expecting Sona to forgive & forget this matter as well.He is an idiot,coward,dumb etc etc.I don't expect anything sensible from him these days.But what I had a problem with was not the sarcasm but the BG music & delivery of dialogue which made the sarcasm look like teasing only.I hope what you and Tia are saying about Sona being serious about it and just handling it in a politer manner is true and we get to see something good on Monday.I hope Sona is really back to her form and takes control instead of meekly accepting everything.I hope she realizes the underlying issues and tackles them.
Y am I arguing or trying to understand today's epi . Mom respect just worth few teasing. Come to think of it Dev never once regretted calling Aunty but doing all his antics to stop calling his mom Aunty. He is not spineless he just loves his mom and Sona he just loves her in talks and his confineses of his bedroom. It's not Ishwari fault Dev is disappointment. Sona she is just trying to make best of the situation she is in. Her self respect and that of her mother tossed from window,way to go Sona. I am scared to fall in love.