what should sona do?? share ur views

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Luckie2

@Luckie2

Rocker

Posted: 8 years ago

At this situation what do u expect sona to do...
I feel she should just burst out to dev and make him understand what a big blunder he has done to their relationship no matter its his bday...she should express I feel and this is something that can never be forgiven..even if she sits him I won't be surprised..share ur thoughts

Edited by Luckie2 - 8 years ago

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baijubavra

@baijubavra

Voyager

Posted: 8 years ago

She should call him from a different phone and say that she just saw a college friend and will come home after she finishes her dinner with him😆. After this she should just go to Bose house, come home late next day saying that she was busy at work. Refuse the ding dong saying that she has a headache and the dull room decor is making her really depressed 😆. She won't be in the mood till the decor is up to her taste! Pay attention to her business and ignore the Maa beta for sometime. They will come after her! 😆

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BlueJayFire

@BlueJayFire

Rocker

+ 2

Posted: 8 years ago

I would simply walk away without speaking a word. Silence is more powerful than words.

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randommusings

@randommusings

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Posted: 8 years ago

I can understand if she wants to let go of her anger n frustration as its his bday but she shud hav a discussion with Dev on this - why send driver n not come on his own, why nt wait for her for d bday celebrations, Is she not important enuf for him? Does her feelings even count?. n ask Ish or Nicki Riya why no one bothered to inforn her or ask abt her whereabouts.

She has to make Dev realise (coz he is dumb) that this was not a situation whr he had to choose between mother n wife . ..there were so many ways he cud have kept them both happy but he chose to be dumb n mute n clueless n confused. He is not the same Dev Dixit who gets things done.

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shruti.

@shruti2007

Dazzler

Posted: 8 years ago

Bursting out at dev won't help sona.dev is quarelling type person.
Dev is affected by silent treatment deeply which ishwari knows very well and applies dis formula to make him realize his mistake.
So be silent treatment will be better it really hurts him

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Reena K Dhaka

@reenarani

Voyager

Posted: 8 years ago

Just do ...Sona should do celebration with family as same as I do in my POV...But Dev will not reward by Kiss...He should understand that he should tell to family about outing plan...but he will say that that's okay...we will not go as joint family...family get together is priority...but he should say that just wait for my wife...she is on her way to home already..then we will start the celebration all together.

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thedramaqueen

@thedramaqueen

Voyager

Posted: 8 years ago

Now that the damage is done

1. Call Dev & her mother from the hotel lobby and call a cab to go home

2. When home, wish him and since she wants to work on this marriage be polite and participate in the celebrations

3. go to her room and talk this out properly with Dev.

If she could rewind a couple of hours, she should also have told Riya about their secret date

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sinduja_venkat

@sinduja_venkat

Explorer

Posted: 8 years ago

Sona should walk out if she is feeling extremely hurt.

But I don't know how hurt she is. She did not seem to be extremely hurt enough to leave Dev.

It really depends on her limit for taking crap. The only time she has shown that Dev crossed this limit was after breakup, when Dev explicitly said he wanted for them to split.

So I am guessing, as per her character she will let this slide and move on.

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WeRockTheWorld

@WeRockTheWorld

Sparkler

+ 6

Posted: 8 years ago

With Dev only silent treatment will work. If she shouts , he will also shout back and it will turn messy. She should start ignoring him totally and not take much interest in his sisters or his mom ...she should start skipping family breakfast or for dinner on the name of work...start visiting her house and ignore his calls and messages...till he comes back asking what was the reason...then drop the beautiful word that most women love "NOTHING"

Let him learn to figure out how dangerous this word is when spoken by his wife...and then one day when he really pushes you to corner to know what went wrong ..give it left right and center ...

Edited by WeRockTheWorld - 8 years ago

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baijubavra

@baijubavra

Voyager

Posted: 8 years ago

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Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld
With Dev only silent treatment will work. If she shouts , he will also shout back and it will turn messy. She should start ignoring him totally and not take much interest in his sisters or his mom ...she should start skipping family breakfast or for dinner on the name of work...start visiting her house and ignore his calls and messages...till he comes back asking what was the reason...then drop the beautiful word that most women love "NOTHING"
Let him learn to figure out how dangerous this word is when spoken by his wife...and then one day when he really pushes you to corner to know what went wrong ..give it left right and center ...

Headache hai bolo aur ding-dong mat do! Can't even complain about this to mamma ! Ma dekh na Sona mujhe aajkal ding dong nahin deti! Just say that tum closet theek karo tha tak mei Zara neend puri kar leti hun. Please mere kapde bhee press kar dena aur lingerie ko hand wash kar dena ! 😆 Khoob hot hot lago lekin paas phatakne mat do! Do all this with a smile and happy happy mood !

Phir jayega Maa ke paas ! Maa Maa please Sona ka Victoria secret ka lingerie hai , Zara Dayan se handwash karna! Budhiya ko vahin chakkar ! 😆

Edited by baijubavra - 8 years ago