Dev Dixit - The plus and the minus.. still counting..

Just thought of collecting the +s and -s of Dev Dixit the lover and the husband here -

Pluses :


BF - He brought rain, fulfilled her wish 😛
BF - He gave her gifts 😕 😆
BF - He managed the wedding menu thing although disastrously..
Husband - He shouted at his mom thinking she was forcing her for vrat which meant 13 days of no ding-dong 😆
Husband - He told Sona that there is no need to for her to try to be best bahu etc much needed one 😳
Husband - Spoke for her during muh-dikhaayi 👏
Husband - Supporting her on their first night by not being mamma's boy that night..
Husband - Handled Sona's moodswings and drama last to last week oh-so-patiently 😳


Minus :


BF - He hurried things unnecessarily ignoring Sona's advise..
BF - He ignored Sona and Bijoy's words for non-acceptance of Ishwari and rather trusted her mom's fake words..
BF - Broke up ruthlessly..
BF - Stalked, manipulated..
BF - Lied and hid about his affair from Ishwari initially ignoring Sona's concerns which actually landed him into bigger problems like Sona predicted 😃
BF - Hid her medical reports..
Husband - No words on her insults by Dadi Bua on his wedding.. Mamaji had to save..
Husband - No words spent to save Sona from GKB
Husband - Shouted about Vicky's issues and shut her up and keeping her out of family matters..
Husband - Shouted about Neha's issues and again trying to keep her on the surface..
Husband - Cancelling Honeymoon without consulting with her even once, shuttering her dreams with uniformly taken decisions..
Husband - Made promise on such small issue called his own room decor and broke it, shattered the second dream of her in a row 👏
Husband - Calling Sona's mother Aunty and ducking the questions by Sona with Lies 👏 🤢
Husband - Lying to Sona about the chores 😛
Husband - Being irresponsible about his wife's safety at night and not even making an attempt to celebrate family celebration of his birthday bash with his wife 😃 👏
Husband - Being deaf on GKB's verbal diarrhea since forever.. 👏


In case CV wants to collect the mistakes at one go, I am at CV's service.. Or if Sona's lawyer appointed by Bijoy Bose for divorce is looking for the whole record, this is here 😆 .. Please add on guys if anything is missed 😃

Also, later on I would edit the post adding the severity of the plus and minus action items based on the repurcussions and then we will see where he stands as his words say 'Like a MAN loves a woman' 😆

Mujhe toh sab minus lagte Hain 😕 all his plus points are superficial ones 😕

It only takes one negative thing to kill a dream - Bad vibes.. And Ishwari Nivas is filled with those bad vibes from every nook and corner to kill every little dream of Sona.. She need not sit and explain everything or make sense out of everything... It's her life.. Let her walk away or change the vibes or fight her way out.. Let her do whatever makes her happy.. As long as she's confident in herself and not out of insecurities... If it is insecurity then she better walk out now..

@tinkerfairy I know what you mean 😆 The gravity of some of them are SO low that it surprised me while typing still I should have pointed out.. 😆 Look at the list of Minus.. Dev has gone downwards after marriage in the balancing act 🤣


@Tia - You again slayed with your words 👏 I also married a man but Dev loves Sona like a typical 1800's man loves a woman 👎🏼

Originally posted by: Push-pull

Wow what a list..👏

It only takes one negative thing to kill a dream - Bad vibes.. And Ishwari Nivas is filled with those bad vibes from every nook and corner to kill every little dream of Sona.. She need not sit and explain everything or make sense out of everything... It's her life.. Let her walk away or change the vibes or fight her way out.. Let her do whatever makes her happy.. As long as she's confident in herself and not out of insecurities... If it is insecurity then she better walk out now..

PP thank you. I think her fight has been reduced to the level of her position in Dev's life from her initial struggle of fitting herself into his family which shows her insecurity. It's nothing to do with the whole Dixits now, it's about how a man treats his wife in his own house.

Trust me, leaving such jerk is the dream step which many women couldnt dare take in the past and which many women take in today's world 👏

And the discussion on the 'KISS' Dont even get me started on it for I will 'PUKE'!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Originally posted by: gemini54

And the discussion on the 'KISS' Dont even get me started on it for I will 'PUKE'!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

This IN MY OPINION IS abuse which is bordering on'$**** A****, it is too creepy it makes me want to voice a lot of things that I will not here ..but I am sure all of you understand what I mean

Sabita tell me about it 😃 😆 . I dont understand the character of Sona anymore 🤢 It would be good to see that as Sona's dream and then in reality her struggle to create this scene because of the immense hurt. It would shed at least some light on her true and much expected practical reaction 😭

Now this is an awesome post! I think you'll have no problems keeping this thread alive because the minus list is going to increase everyday😳After all Dev loves Sona like a man(read baby) loves a woman (read old toy)