Work-Life balance!!!

Originally posted by: sona_naksh

Awesum post

I like calender idea 😆

Agree its all abt our choices dat decide our fate

Originally posted by: Push-pull

Dr. Bose, don't you have a job that keeps you handful?😉

Dr. Bose, don't you have a family (Bose) that needs your time and attention?😉

Dr. Bose, don't you have your own dreams for your future (personal or career) and work towards it?😉

Dr. Bose, don't you have concerns about how to balance your work and life?😉

Here it goes with Mr. Dixit and Dr. Bose...😃

Dev: What's this Sonakshi?😕

Sona: Our appointment calendar, Dev...😉

Dev:😕

Sona: Sorry Dev.. I'm from a simple family where we just do things impromptu and everyone joins in together with no ownership on each other..😆

Dev: Ok. So?😕

Sona: Now that we are married, looks like we need to share each other and each other's time to different people at different times.😉

Dev:😕

Sona: So, this is our appointment calendar..😎👏

Dev:😲

Sona: I've filled in my schedule for the whole of this year... Please fill in yours...😉

Dev: But...😕

Sona: This will be our yearly planner... Whether we celebrate New year together or not we need to set this calendar together every year..😉

Dev: But Sona, we are a couple.. We do many things together and all of them don't need advance planning.. Remember, you are mine..😳

Sona: Come on Dev.. Just because we live in the same house we can't take each other for granted.. We have our own life and our people outside each other too.. I started seeing it now..😉

Dev:

Sona: And coming to your "You are mine" dialogue.. Yes, like one stupid girl I am taking your words literally to give all of me to you but you are very smart that you never say "I am yours"...🤪

Dev: Come on Sonakshi. I can't say that.. you know it.. that you have to share me with all others...😉

Sona: Exactly.. Now you are talking.. Just fill in your schedule and let the calendar be published with everyone (Dixits' and Boses') as well.. Let's not spoil other's plans too..😆

Dev:

Sona: And this is for you. I just got my copy too.

Sona hands over a book titled "Work-Life balance: Skills you need"😆👏

Dev: I am trying to balance everything in life with everyone.. I am struggling to manage my time and schedule for them..😭

Sona: The key is not in prioritizing what's in your schedule.. But scheduling your priorities and setting boundaries..😉

Moral of the story: There is no such thing called balancing in life. It's choices in life that one make.. You make the choice and you face the consequences... Either you enjoy your choice or just deal with it... Don't make yourself feel pity for your own state...😆

Originally posted by: fangirl-rt

what will happen :

1. Ma never asked to do such things.

2. He will give a try.

3. He cannot, so he will go to Ma for helping to fill up the schedule.

4. Ma will fill it up with 24x7x365 days for Ma...

5. Ma, tu kitni achchi hain...

6. Back to Sonakshi, I tried filling up the schedule, but it sprained my hand and eyes and brain and I never did it before and blah blah blah... Here is my schedule duely filled by Ma...


Anti-climax...

gosh!! you are describing Dev to the T...Momma's boy!!

Originally posted by: mena_k

Ha ha, loved your potential idea of an yearly calendar. Actually come to think of it, its not a bad idea in general for all the couples to have one made for themselves. Quite a practical solution to many incoming conflicting occasions.

The day this calendar would be up, Ishwari will get most certainly a perfect heart attack, 😉 when she sees so many people ready to share her Laadla Dev. She will scratch n tear the calendar left right and center right there. Oh wait no she will make Dev go through one of her fb's and Dev would apologize and tear it himself promising never to even look at any calendar in his life. Maa khush, beta khush, to ho jaye "Halwa" party 😉😆🤪

Originally posted by: fangirl-rt

what will happen :

1. Ma never asked to do such things.

2. He will give a try.

3. He cannot, so he will go to Ma for helping to fill up the schedule.

4. Ma will fill it up with 24x7x365 days for Ma...

5. Ma, tu kitni achchi hain...

6. Back to Sonakshi, I tried filling up the schedule, but it sprained my hand and eyes and brain and I never did it before and blah blah blah... Here is my schedule duely filled by Ma...


Anti-climax...

Originally posted by: JazzyM

I don't know whether to laugh or to cry...

Your description fits almost all marriages at early stages (please don't ask me to define early stages...sometimes, it looks like early stages never disappears).

The bahu of the family always works around her schedule to fit the new family members but rarely does her efforts get recognized!!!

Beautifully said. 👏