Originally posted by: yyy
I don't agree with your thought process .She married him because she wanted to be with him not some kind of favour on him .If marrying is a favour then Dev returned that favour back by marrying her .Its not favour that she is staying with his family ,it's her choice not some kind of compulsion .I have already addressed the taunting part I in my previous post so I don't want to repeat it again .Her mother is taking care of her MIL and her father .So is it some kind of favour ?
All his good deeds should not be counted .Thats the reason I avoid saying anything about him ..Like I said in my previous post no matter what I say about him there would oh he did not do a favour ,it's his duty etc .
I would not have said this but since you brought this staying with his family as some favour then I would like to say if she is alive today is because of Dev .I know what would come next oh it's humanity ...
Sure I will be glad to read your list on what Sona's favours .
you got it wrong... .She married him because she wanted to be with him -- that is not a favor... just like Dev married sona because he wanted to be with her... But Sona left all her family and all her past and moved to Dev's house... that is a very big inconvinience .. she did it for Dev and to be with him and for their marriage...
If they had been living separately then i would say it is a balance... here sona left everything for Dev and dev's basic duty is to make sure she is comfortable in that house -- which he failed to do ... not only because his family couldnt adjust to sona's presence but because even when it is inconvinient to him , even he did not appreciate Sona's wishes or choices...
taking care of MIL is not a favor... it is a responsibility ... respecting the DIL of the house is not a favor .,,, it is a right... when a family fails to do the later then they dont deserve the prior... but here sona is respecting dev's family even though they just treat her like shit... --- So yes Sona is doing a favor
On the other hand... Asha gives respect and love to Dev and in return he should give respect to her... which he failed... so yes he is a failure... lets not kid ourselves here
so you think so low of Dev that, you have to rely on his incident where he saved sona's life as his favor... He would have done that for anyone. that is humanity and not love for his GF. he didnt even love her at that time... Here we are talking about the inconveniences that Dev and Sona had to bear to stay with the other.
as of now ... i see None from Dev... Sona is the one trying to adjust and navigate thru the issues and keeping the marriage together...
I ask you again give me one incident that Dev did something for Sona even though it was inconvenient for him or his family...