Who is at fault,Dev or Sona!? - Page 3

Originally posted by: srilotus

Fantastic Post👏

completely agree with u

Originally posted by: saurdeep

I remember the time before breakup, when Sona was trying to learn cooking to make Ishwari happy and one day she was helping Asha in the kitchen,Bijoy's first reaction was "Why are you changing yourself for them?" Now,Sona never did cooking before and Asha was always their to cook. And even Dev also never forced her to learn and he once said that "I will help you in the kitchen" If I am not wrong and when Sona came to Dixit house after marriage, Ishwari also never forced her to learn cooking although her real intention was different but still Sona is learning but it is not shown in the show that she is cooking daily before going to office,have only seen her serving everyone on the dining table.

Dev never managed his wardrobe but he knows how to make a Sand-witch which Sona didn't know (remember when Dev-Sona were locked in the Bose house,Dev made a Sand-witch and asked Sona to help him) Now,Dev never folded even his handkerchief before forget about managing wardrobe,ironing clothes and his mother was always their to manage same. And if at all Sona wanted Dev to become a bit independent,from day one only she should have said to Dev that I will help you in managing wardrobe till you learn,she herself assumed that Dev has started managing everything properly.Like Sona never cooked before marriage,Dev also never managed his wardrobe before.So here,both are at fault! In spite of lying,Dev should have clearly said to Sona that I can not manage without help and Sona should have also not expected same from him .They both did not discuss properly about each other's like/dislikes which resulted in the fight as we saw in the last episode.

What I want to say is after marriage,partners do find each other's habits annoying and old habits die hard and like/dislikes doesn't change overnight so expecting same is something impossible.Here,both are not discussing but expecting a lot which actually happens between couples during initial days of Marriage and through proper communication only they can resolve their issues as they say "Communication is the key to a successful relationship".

This is just my POV,would love to hear views from all of you!!

P.S.- I am not defending any character,I love both Dev-Sona and I am happy the way CV's are showing how after Marriage couple faces the adjustment issues due to lack of proper communication! 😊

Originally posted by: dhank

nice post👏

@bold this is what I told in my earlier post..n bijoy was doing bashan bazi on training dev.. sona didnt tell him dev knows cooking...😲

@red exactly he must b thinking she ll feel bad..isliye nahi bola hoga..clear comm 4m sonakshi is also reqd

anyway even I like devakshi...n it really hurts to c dev being bashed left right centre..🤔

Originally posted by: srilotus

@purple exactly my points.

really no one wants to look at Sona's mistakes. Bashing Dev all the time.

Sona supporters are more than Dev's.

i feel like forum is now divided into two Sona Supporters vs Dev supporters .

Originally posted by: dhank

exactly when dev said main ye nahi kar nahi sakata deal with it...did he ask her to cook??or nething 4 that matter..

sonakshi was too much yestdy when she called dev lazy...really????😲when she herself said office main thak jate h..arey bhai toh ho gaya na thak jata h banda..I wonder how ish kept mum on this..😡

Originally posted by: srilotus

kaise lazy???jo banda morning till night ,off wrk mein busy rehta ho ,meetings,conferences,seminars aur raat ko bhi presentations laptop pe banata rehta ho ,,,woh lazy kaise ho sakta hai??

i wonder too😲

Originally posted by: dhank

nice post👏

@bold this is what I told in my earlier post..n bijoy was doing bashan bazi on training dev.. sona didnt tell him dev knows cooking...😲

@red exactly he must b thinking she ll feel bad..isliye nahi bola hoga..clear comm 4m sonakshi is also reqd

anyway even I like devakshi...n it really hurts to c dev being bashed left right centre..🤔