Off with Her Head!!! EDITED - Page 7

Originally posted by: sia.krpkab

Great post, like always.

Throughout the episode, I kept nodding my head in disbelief. All I can say is, RIP KRPKAB.

So happy that there is good riddance for the weekend!

Originally posted by: tia.o

<font size="3" color="#333366">As I mentioned in my post (which was written before the episode was aired by the way), the swing could go to the garden. But it was not Ishwari's place to walk into their bedroom and move Sona's thing. Sona bought the swing for herself. She has her own money. Who is Ishwari to decide what they should or shouldn't have in their bedroom?</font>

<font size="3" color="#333366">Had Dev came up with the suggestion, I won't have any problem with the swing being in the garden.</font>

Originally posted by: Tinkerfairy

Just wanted to ask you ladies one question ,If sona is victim of emotional abuse .But If she is victim then who is main abuser Her husband ,who she chose with open eyes ,who Can't gave her much needed support or Her Mother In Law whom she pleasing with no ends .😕 How ladies who are in same situation could break it from this cycle.

Originally posted by: Tinkerfairy

Just wanted to ask you ladies one question ,If sona is victim of emotional abuse .But If she is victim then who is main abuser Her husband ,who she chose with open eyes ,who Can't gave her much needed support or Her Mother In Law whom she pleasing with no ends .😕 How ladies who are in same situation could break it from this cycle.

Originally posted by: dlavanya

Yup i am sucking it up as i am not happy..
Nice story

Originally posted by: tia.o

I wish I could tell you that they can be helped. But unfortunately if someone is blind because they themselves refuse to see, they can't be helped.

However, what can be done for those women are what we call here support groups. A group of women (and men) come together and through their various circumstances and experience try to show them what they themselves are denying or may be can't see because the abuser is someone they love.

I don't make all these posts and invest my time on fictional character. I don't give a damn about Dev, Sona and Ishwari. What I try to do is try to write so that another woman, a real person doesn't think this is love. I try to form a support group for women who may feel more comfortable online to get the support and friendship that they are not comfortable accepting or asking for it in person.

Originally posted by: dlavanya

Exactly ishwari could have waited for sona to come home and give the same gyan that she gave sona after moving it down and then moved it .. What wss she trying to prove by miving it out when sona was not there??

What is the gaurantee that one day sona wont find her suitcase and and all belongings outside the ishwari nivas ...

Originally posted by: gemini54

First of all I want to applaud the strong young women in this forum I have interacted with them thru the many posts and kudos to all of you whether married, separated, having young children, single and anything in between. Applause for the young men who see the story for what it is and commenting in a mature way.

As most of you know I am much older than most of you.

I have seen my fair share of this world and have volunteered in battered woman help lines. Emotional abuse is deeply scarring and to come out of it takes years and some don't even come out of it. The kind of abuse they are showing in this show is deeply disturbing.

This show in my opinion is sending out a lot of wrong signals of too many relationships. The makers may have a story to tell but have in my opinion failed in execution of it.

The toxic relationship that a mother and son share in the story may be reality but the moral they are conveying here is wrong. They have to either make the hero strong or the heroine strong in order to impart lessons and they have failed here big time. This is causing uneasiness in a lot of us, hopelessness in some and downright disgust in others.

I for one did write that this show will be a roller coaster ride and not for the faint hearted and I am not faint hearted but the roller coaster needs to be also fun though it may have its dips and this show does not and has essentially killed the essence of a lot of relationships be it between a mother and Son, a husband and wife and the identity of a woman.

I applaud Tia and others like her who brave this show enough to write about it and giving people like me a platform to vent and give out our thoughts

Just like Tia mentioned if someone refuses to help themselves or recognize that there is a problem nothing can be done to help them. Even God only helps those who help themselves and the first step is to wake up and see that there is a problem. The story maybe getting there but is taking too long to that is losing steam and leaving a bad taste

Tia sorry for this big gyaan