Is separation or break up a solution.....?

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Posted: 8 years ago
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I am a silent reader of this forum and regular viewer of #KRPKAB, but today I felt like putting my views.
This are my 2 cents

I feel all characters are doing what they do best. Nobody is wrong, but each person's action is affecting other which happens when you stay together.

Will separation help?
My view is Big No!!!

Why??
Why did Dev fall for Sona, because she showed him ways. She never pressurised him, so he felt home with her. Ishwari on the other hand always put him to guilt n got her way.

Dev is scared that he might loose Sona if he puts forward his views as he was never given that option.

Sona has to win Dev's trust and Ishwari's too.

She can change Dev, being with him not being away from him.

If ever Sona walks out it will be same scenario, Dev winning her back n Dev being same. Ishwari will be more insecure and hate Sona more. Dev will be sandwiched between Maa and Wife. The issues will never be solved.

Break - up or Separation will just put a big crack in relationship.
They can be happy when all 3 are happy. Dev will never be happy if Ishwari is not happy and vice versa. So is with Dev and Sona.
Happiness of all 3 leads are interlinked.

If CV's are really touching the reality, I would say there won't be any break-up.

Separation or Break up is never a solution. This is my POV

PS. I read someone saying Rithwik would be better choice, how?
Every person has his/her flaws, we need to find a mend and work on that. That is what life is about

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Posted: 8 years ago
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First of all thank you so much for putting forward you POV in such an amazing way dear.

I completely agree with you. Breakup or separation cannot be the solution. And i don't think CVs are portraying or taking the track towards separation. The track may move forward to Dev and Sona finding solutions and learning form their mistakes... Problem do happen between couples with other family members too. They need to be sorted. Separation is no solution.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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A positive outlook and big thanks to you for putting it forward
Please do not be a silent reader. You are a good influencer who can spread positive vibes to our family
Welcome you ... am sajini..

I too believe in the same..
Fighters don't give up
They become silent only to think what's next for the big move

Dev needs a big time change as his upbringing is weird
So Sona needs to be slow that's all. Pushing him to limits bottle him up.
He is already suffering that from Ishwari so atleast Sona should give him that space.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Separation is never a solution to any problems
I cannot see Dev or Sona just giving up for no reason
yes its also true when two people live together they will have issues
each comes from a different enviroment and when they come together its difficult but they have to iron out their issues between themselves
the swing not a major problem but if both talk they find a solution to the miscomfort going on at the moment
Dev and Sona should not be scared to voice their opinions to each other its only then they will learn more about each other
and they will learn
to hold a marriage together is hard and needs two devoted people which DevAKshi is
separations are for people who have no goal in life nothing matters to them

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Posted: 8 years ago
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beautiful post...i too feel that separation is merely running away from problems and not the solution to problems..devakshi need to stay together and solve all the issues ..loved reading ur post..
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Posted: 8 years ago
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well said separation in never solution for any marriage problem. relationship are so sensitive its need to be handle with Care..its why sona is against neha ranveer divorce. the way i understand sona character she is never going to walk out her marriage until something big happens and Dev did something like not standing up for sona in infertility issue
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Stay and fight like a warrior Sona..
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Separation or break up is not a solution..
But a husband like dev mama's boy who changes his decision according to his mother's wish whether it may be right or wrong doesn't matters.what will be feelings of the wife. Couple means both husband and wife.

Let dev do anything he can't cure ishwari's insecurity now.

So better instead of trying to please mother he should take decision which is right.
No need to take anyone side just do what is right.the only thing he needs to keep in mind is everybody emotions and situation.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: shruti.

Separation or break up is not a solution..
But a husband like dev mama's boy who changes his decision according to his mother's wish whether it may be right or wrong doesn't matters.what will be feelings of the wife. Couple means both husband and wife.

Let dev do anything he can't cure ishwari's insecurity now.

So better instead of trying to please mother he should take decision which is right.
No need to take anyone side just do what is right.the only thing he needs to keep in mind is everybody emotions and situation.


I completely agree with u dear...

Dev has to take his own decision he should not take side of neither his mom nor sona...
He should b only a listener of these two his super ladies...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Thank you for this lovely post. I agree with your POV. Separation is not a solution for any problem and i dont think cvs have planned any separation. Otherwise these issues will keep going round and round and will never be resolved. All the three leads happiness is intetlinkec and they have to work towards it and accept each other which can be done only by staying together. The story is about all three coming closer and not going apart. So i think they have to start realising each persons importance in other two's lives and start working together which is what i think the makers are getting to show.

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