Light Topic - Food for thought : What did Sona want from life ? - Page 2

Originally posted by: Pehchaan.Kaun

Well I was going through some of the posts from members who still find Dev's not willing to manage his own clothes is not a big deal due to time management etc.

Well that really rang a bell in my head about Sona. Sona as we know always believed in Fairy Tales and wanted someone romantic etc as life partner. Why exactly did she fall for Dev in that case ? Yes, before marriage his cheesy lines, fake promises etc sounded damn romantic indeed like 'a man loves a woman', 'I want you for myself' etc etc. 😛 But what about having a foresight ?

As the story goes, Dev is a BIGGIE in the business world, so how did Sona assume that Dev can fulfill her level of lifestyle/thoughts after marriage for the rest of their lives ?

Can we really imagine Anil Ambani or Ratan Tata arranging their wardrobes ? 🤔

Can we really imagine the big business tycoons spending ample amount of time with their wives for romance ?

Can we really imagine the priorities of Ambani or Narayanmurthy's to match with the dreams of a middle-class fairy-tale believer woman ? 😕

Can we imagine for a big businessman anything or anyone would come before their business/money at all ? Be it for family reason or not. Dev has family reason but ultimately Money talks in Dixit house.

The enterpreneurs who made it big like Murthy's or G.D.Birla or J.R.T really had that much time to roam around doing vellagiri leading the dreams of middle-class lives ? By Vellagiri I meant these chores which are very insignificant things to them not to us 😆

Well for me what matters most is to have a husband for life, not an earning machine who has no time for me. Like said in Zindagi Naa Milegi Dobara, a guy who has only 3 weeks of holiday in whole year is a slave 😛😆. As the character of Sonakshi was portrayed, she too seemed to have more or less similar type of fairy tales and ideas. Romanticism and falling for workaholics don't go hand in hand 😆 Also one more thing, the wives of such bigshots are always party-bees and big time socialites. Did Sona see herself fitting there as well?

Just a thought triggered from some posts that some people really need not have time to do their own chores and yes, it can happen with the above category people I think. What do you think ?

Please ignore this random useless topic this is just for open fun and discussion 😆 Good night for now and good day to all the people from the other half of the world 😃

Fellow members... Dev & Sonakshi are fictional characters...

Dev is a techno success... He seems to have just never had to leave home. His habits are pretty normal and endearing in many ways and of course unreasonable and almost mafia like in others. I don't know how Forbes top 500 man live. I know he is a high net worth individual who has been brought up with a strong sense of duty.

Sonakshi is your girl next door.

The catch is, at 28, Dev was well on his way to a heart attack at 45 thanks to his carb rich fatigued workout regime, 18-hour work days and no one who he could share his thoughts with. Had Natasha not happened, Sona would have been married to a Mr dependable doctor/banker who might have given her the fairy tale love story she yearned for. Luckily for devakshi fans, Natasha happened... because Sonakshi is so sensible she wasn't even going to confess her love to Dev because she knew it's so impractical in many ways.

What is interesting is, they are a very regular couple... They are making the same mistakes so many new couples make.

He has the time to fold his clothes. He does... He will do it (for Sonakshi like he said). The point is, he doesn't want to do it and Sonakshi went on to say "I am that type of a wife". She is trying to make a point here... I sound like a broken record... She is hurting her marriage by pushing him too much

When Ishwai sends ripples in Dev's calm-on-the-surface life, Sonakshi is there for him. If sonakshi isn't there, this man doesn't know what to do with the pain. Money, status and middle-classed-ness has nothing to do with this.

I am intrigued about tonight. Will he go and sleep in his mother's room? Will she read between the lines and try and mend a few things around while still making her point? Will Ishwari break her promise and tidy up his clothes? Will they make a step towards finding the right balance? Will Ishwari help Devakshi find that balance this time?

I have a song playing in my head for Sonakshi. "sau aasmano ko, aur do jahano ko"