Light Topic - Food for thought : What did Sona want from life ?

Well I was going through some of the posts from members who still find Dev's not willing to manage his own clothes is not a big deal due to time management etc.

Well though Dev Dixit is a big tycoon ...his family still doesn't live like typical rich people. They just hv one servant n Ish does all d cooking n household work. Had some servant managed Dev's clothes n cupboard, Sona wudnt have bothered to tell Dev to do it. But as these works are being done by Ish, Sona wants to lessen Ish's work n hence decided that both Dev n herself will do their own work to help Ish. Sona shud explain to Dev that by doing his own work, he can reduce his mother's efforts n stress. He wud instantly start doing it n he wud even convince Ish.

In my view sona is a simple girl like us...not having painful past or change the whole world thoughts...a simple loving family good profession so like every girl wanta simple life partner and perfect like her parents..then fell in love with dev...even with him she simply expects small things...
For me the fight inconvience dev and sona facing in regarding room is not wrong...infact it will show them their comfort and discomfort...but here problem is third angle ishwari...if she is normal she will tell them adjust foe each other...whatever reaon they are fighting bcoz of ishwari it is going out of hands...the day they make boundary for threir rekation for some things these small fight also will look ugly...
For your question sona wants simple family like hers...but with dev for now it is impossible in future we dont know

LOL I will not hesitate to say they are acting like ishwari 🤪like mera raja beta se kitna kaam karwa rahi uski biwi, kitne evil Hain sonakshi .pehle hi kitna kaam karta Hain ab khud bhi kaam kare.😆😆 pati dev ka kaam ya toh uski maa kargei ya uski biwi . Just my POV

Dev always had time for Sona before marriage and after marriage.

Well I really don't know what Sonakshi wants in life going forward. It really does not matter what she wanted in life in the past.

I find Sonakshi quite stupid at times.

1. During the discussion with Dev in the middle of the night , instead of telling him how much she feels left out in that house and citing instances of being ignored, she jumped to the jhoola. Idiotic ! even my 8 year old daughter does not sway so easily.
2. In the car on the way back home from the Bose house, her childish behaviour to take Ishwari out for an ice-cream when in reality Ishwari had just royally insulted her parents.
3. She wanted Dev to start handling his stuff, shouldn't she sit down and list down the pros and cons rather than leaving a chit/note on the wardrobe door.
4. She wants Dev to learn, won't he have a teething problem to begin with. Could she not help him the initial few days before he gets used to the whole idea.
5. The swing has become her obsessions and all she cares about is adding new features to it each day. Shouldn't she be more bothered about strengthening her ties with her husband first and other things can come later.

Lovely post 😆
I was also on a thinking mode after reading comments supporting and opposing this action/demand of hers. If I remember correctly folding clothes and arranging the wardrobe was one of the chores that she did at her home. May be Saurabh does too. They all used to help Asha in the household chores when she was working.

For me the entire sequence from her going maika, asking Dev to consider her likes too in their room, requesting Ishu to let Dev do his own works independently are all connected. She have understood the heart of their problem and that is his dependency on Ishu. She is trying to make him come out of it. Regardiyher helping him in this- she is not trying to take Ishu's place. What difference will be there if she makes him dependent on her instead of his mother. This exactly shows she is not competing. She has to start somewhere. Personally I loved her move and support it too.
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Sona wanted a fairy tale and forgot that there is no Prince charming in real life. If she had gotten a normal guy with normal quirks and shortcomings I would have said wake up girl and smell the coffee.