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Posted: 8 years ago
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Instead of putting up a fake smile and just acting so indifferent and insensitive, it would have been better had dev told sona clearly that he does not like these changes in his room..Sona already guessed a bit but dev should have told her this than acting the way he did yesterday .Poor girl was so happy and wanted to spend some time with him but dev just ignored her and made an excuse of some presentation . So very upsetting to see all this . Now that the jhoola is gone sona will be all the more hurt ...The best solution in this current scenario is that sona should just remove all the decorations , let the room as it was previously and just give a cold shoulder to dev , a silent treatment , answer in yes and no and take not participate in his birthday preprations as well...

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Yaaa, don't wana see any more drama .silent treatment is best for now
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Posted: 8 years ago
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So the guy has to oblige every time his wife initiates for Sex .It was her rights when Sona took the decision of not having it for 15 days without talking to him and on their first night .That sounds more insensitive to me

That's the exact problem ..silent treatment.He is scared of openly expressing his displaeasure because somewhere he is scared that she will be disappointed and will start giving him silent treatment without understanding his POV .

Does she require him to say move the swing when she sees him trip everyday ?No one is asking her to remove the swing but asking her to be considerate and keep his liking in mind
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Sona is already silent in Dixit mansion in front of GKB's taunts, Ishwari and Dev's manipulations. We are all getting mad at her for being mute. How much more silence do we expect from her ? And if so far no one got bothered to see her always-upsetting face, what good would her silence do now ? Would her silence even be NOTICED ? Dev didn't bother to check with her after Neha's issue until she left for her maika. 🤔
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Dev needs to get out of his diaper days
Second he needs to grow his spine, directly talk with his wife whatever is in his mind, stop hiding behind pallu of maa everytime.

Third thing they need to stop 'Jab 8 saal ka tha' lullaby

Then talk with sona directly, even after talking she puts jula above comfort of her husband, then I would say she's elf centred and immature.

The way these Maa-beta dealing with her is not the way one should treat others daughter. On top of that racist behaviour of GKB, where she keep reminding him you are bangalan.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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yes communication is needed they can sit and talk what they want in their room. decorate room like a couple. not forcing their likes in another
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Posted: 8 years ago
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You know before making any major changes, best is to discuss with your partner what you intend to change as its both their room and their personal space.
That bloody cupboard is not even enough for a baby! How to fit two person's clothings in it! And whats wrong in getting a new cupboard and dont understand why Sona refused?

Organizing a closet is not an easy task...there are too many stuffs...to arrange in its appropriate compartments and the both hubby and wife need to do this together otherwise...the bedroom is gonna look like a tornado just struck. Hell it took me so long to organize mine...biz suits, work wear, casuals, night wear, personal stuffs, sports wear, accessories ...and the list goes on...
Coz if you dont do this, what happens...utter chaos! You end up getting frustrated not knowing where the things are kept...


Communication solves everything ...no point getting hurt.

Seriously I dont blame Dev for this...Sona should take things easy . Not just dump on him everything and expect him to deal with it in a day without any issues..

As for the swing...hmmm really out of place...and the decorations are an eye sore...but whoever who asked to remove it , should have told Sona about it.

Ish has no right to do that...but then...Devakshi bloody room door is always opened to the entire household...even when they are romancing the door is opened. I am really fed up every TOM DICK AND HARRY just waltz into the room as its some sort of a park for pit stop!



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