Just too much Sonakshi

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ltelidevara

@ltelidevara

Sparkler

+ 8

Posted: 8 years ago

I feel you are just too much Sonakshi. You will overlook real issues and tackle insignificant things I don't know why. What sort of pleasure you got seeing Dev again and again hurt his feet I wonder.

The jhoola looked so odd in that room but still Dev did not say anything. You went and asked everyone including your MIL whether he liked it or not. You swear you love him so much. Then why can't you observe his inconvenience that is so clearly visible on his face?

And the dupattas? Lights? What a taste you have. You are forgetting a simple thing that you are sharing the room with your husband.But you have zero concern for his likes or dislikes.

I fear your innovative decoration is driving Dev away to his Laptop and night outs. Again in the morning the mandatory thing that is bound to happen is Dev again hurting his feet.

What fun did you get by leaving the room untidy and clumsy? Or you became that lazy that you can not maintain the common wardrobe .

Why should Dev learn to arrange his clothes? He need not. He works very hard and comes home. You want him to arrange his clothes? At one time Dev's room looked so nice,properly maintained but after you started using your brain for such things it really looked like Sarojini market. GKB is right.

You drove him to that extent when Dev had to keep his clothes in his mother's cupboard. I must say this will be another instance for Dev bashers to blame him and Iswari with unthinkable words.

You refused to let him buy another cupboard why? He could have maintained his clothes separately.

But no you should have the pleasure of sharing your silly triumph with your wierd father who feels proud that you are teaching Dev independence.

For your information Dev learnt to be independent and to stand by himself long ago. You need not teach him but what can I say,you always likes preaching.

Just too much Sonakshi. I pity Dev.

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Neha Chandna

@Nehz

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Posted: 8 years ago

Oh my god! I dont want to argue with you. I pity this line of thinking.

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lavanya

@dlavanya

Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 8 years ago

I dont know about Sona... But i got immense pleasure seeing Dev getting hurt again and again by that Jhoola.

Doesnt matter if the jhoola is looking odd and doesnt look nice ... God has given Dev a mouth... so he should use it and convey that he doesnt like it and may be comeup with something that they both can like... but Dev uses his mouth only for one thing ... making false promises.

So if her innovative designs are troubling him and driving him away from her... then i would say ... good job... because this time when Sona leaves Dev and dixit house ... atleast hopefully he will not be stalking her and try to ruin her future.

Dev getting hurt by the jhoola is exactly same way sona gets hurt everytime someone or the throws taunts at her... Dev is pretty ok with it and never complained... so i am sure Sona is thinking that Dev will also get adjusted... just like she is getting adjusted

So No words for him🤢

Edited by dlavanya - 8 years ago

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@404_NotFound

Sparkler

+ 7

Posted: 8 years ago

You have raised some valid points Lakshmi.

Everyone have different taste and there is nothing as right or wrong .Having a loud taste or liking a dull colors is not wrong but what's Sona is missing is ,now that they share a room she cannot be insensitive to his feelings .Its not like she doesn't know about his taste she does but she is ignoring it and Dev is unable to communicate with the fear that she will be upset again and might go back to her mom's home .

Having said that I also want to add that Ishwari should not have interfered in this .She should not be deciding to remove the swing from their room.Its very insulting

If either of the spouse has fears of expressing their thoughts openly then it's not a healthy relationship

There is something as breathing space which every individual requires .Controlling him and not allowing him to buy things he likes or forcing him to change according to her needs will push him away from her and that's what happened .She is trying to control him like his mom

I being a working women take help of my parents,in laws and maid for running the home and most of today's women do that .Is it wrong to delegate work and I don't think so .

If Dev cannot be forgiven for his mistake of calling asha Aunty then even Sona should not be spared for hiding Saurabh issue or Vicky issue .

Edited by yyyy - 8 years ago

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preethik

@preethik

Voyager

Posted: 8 years ago

Your thinking this way is beyond my understanding. A girl changes her whole life by coming into & adjusting in your home & she cannot express her personality in the confines of his bedroom. Also did dev not promise that she could do what she wanted. So he can repeatedly break his promises but all you focus on is her being unfeeling of his taste.
Btw design is personal just because one likes it doe not mean the other has to like it too. I'm referring to your comments on her design.

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kalyani nelluri

@kalyani246

Navigator

Posted: 8 years ago

o god seriously...uski maa aur mami uske samne sona ko taunt karthe hai ...aur ee so called patidev ko kuch feel nahi hotha...thab kissi ko koye problem nahi tha...aab sona ne jhule ko lights kya rakliye sab esa kehrahe hai jisse usne dev ko bed ke sath handcuff karli...

aap bhi na...yaha pe sirf dev ko taqlef nahi hai sona ko bhi hai...sonakshi ko bhi taqleef horahi hai ...aur sona face kar rahi hai uske samne ee kuch bhi nahi hai..

and sonakshi...hamesha taunts sunna apni inlaws se oo bhi isliye you love husband not worth it ...

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vibg

@vibg

Rocker

Posted: 8 years ago

disagree. sonakshi's interior decorating taste or her decoration compatibility with dev is hardly an issue here. bigger issue is maa beta duo's treatment of sonakshi. they dont deserve a beautiful, kind, open hearted person like sona in their lives. both are self absorbed and conning Sonkshi into believing that she ispart of dixit clan! she is nothing to either of them. she is just somebody dev needs for the night inhis bed 😡

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Pehchaan.Kaun

@Pehchaan.Kaun

Sparkler

Posted: 8 years ago

First of all if I remember correctly it was from the Horse's aka Dev's mouth that Sonakshi is free to do WHATEVER she wants to to their room. Any thoughts on that ? Did he just make the promise to end the fight ? This promise can lead to have 3 possibilities - Sona would take care of Dev's choice and will consider those while redecorating OR Sona will do everything as per her wish but eventually both of their taste would match so no problem OR Sona will do everything of her choice which will be disapproved by Dev. So here the third thing happened - Doesnt Dev being such a Tycoon having built the so called empire have this basic knowledge of Use Case Diagrams ? Didn't he think of the third possibility while making that promise ? Did anyone put him on the gunpoint to make that promise ? Sonakshi is yet to become SO manipulative to make Dev promise like this. And like everytime we see Dev broke his promise that's the main issue here.

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Shaun

@Jade0001

Inactive

+ 2

Posted: 8 years ago

Actually men like their bedrooms as it gives off their personality so when a man marries its very seldom he on his own will consider he has a wife and she may not like the masculine feel of the room so he changes it accordingly all that is good

now with Dev and Sona she complained about his room he told her to change it according to her likes he did not put up any fuss as long as she was happy he was happy but then I felt bringing in that swing may look cool but certainly not in Dixit house if Sona really wanted a swing she could have got one that suited the room still Dev been shock but didn't say anything

Sona further went on to decorate it with her scafs , Ishwari thought otherwise while Sona meant it to be decorations then came the lights

I understand its her childhood dream but then she could have placed it on the terrace its out of the way and she could still enjoy it .

for some reason now I feel Sona is imposing her demands on Dev wanting him to tidy his cupboard while she too cannot get anything tidy

yes Sona is right in her place wanting her husband to become dependant on himself instead of calling for his mother all the time but she is doing stuff that would irritate him something as important as the conversation about her mother she just agrees to Dev's words

there is Elena and Vicky's relation she should speak to Dev about that or ask him should they marriage now come to a halt as Neha is back home but instead she is worried about the cupboard as if its the most important aspect of her marriage .

a man changes in time it cannot be forced on him otherwise he'll start hating coming home to his wife