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Posted: 8 years ago

#11

simple si baat hai. both dev and sona are real idiots who can never talk openly with each other post marriage . the camaradie they had as 2 strangers who became frnds is lost the min they died the knot

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baijubavra

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Posted: 8 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: Pehchaan.Kaun
First of all if I remember correctly it was from the Horse's aka Dev's mouth that Sonakshi is free to do WHATEVER she wants to to their room. Any thoughts on that ? Did he just make the promise to end the fight ? This promise can lead to have 3 possibilities - Sona would take care of Dev's choice and will consider those while redecorating OR Sona will do everything as per her wish but eventually both of their taste would match so no problem OR Sona will do everything of her choice which will be disapproved by Dev. So here the third thing happened - Doesnt Dev being such a Tycoon having built the so called empire have this basic knowledge of Use Case Diagrams ? Didn't he think of the third possibility while making that promise ? Did anyone put him on the gunpoint to make that promise ? Sonakshi is yet to become SO manipulative to make Dev promise like this. And like everytime we see Dev broke his promise that's the main issue here.

Sona actually asked him before getting the jhula but he was busy on the phone. Also, she was moving it away when he did not show much enthusiasm and he stopped her. Remember he made the Hatthi and khargosh comment.

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sameera

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Posted: 8 years ago

#13

Oh really feelling pitty for dev not at all and dev himself said her she can change everything as per her wish.what is sonakshi's fault in all this oh okay her main fault is she is a girl who is living her husband house where everything should be her husbands,mother in law,sister in law choices if ur husbands doesn't like anything u can't keep this,if he is angry he can shout at her,if ur mother in law doesn't like ur husband calling ur ma as ma it was ok,if ur sis in law's husband is not happy with her husband or doesn't love her enough than u can't be happy or can't told or show how ur husband luv u because ur their bahu.if u have to live with them u have to bear their taunt shout u can't have any emotion or choices coz u r a girl.I really didn't understand the fact being a how many of the girl r blaming sonakshi.people always thinks about boys perespective but what about the girl after marriage who is leaving behind evertthing she likes,she loves she is coming to a new differerent world where no one is her loved nothing is according to her likes or dislikes but than also the girl try to like or do what her in law likes,she tries to make everyone her loved ones than why her in laws or husband can't prefer a things she likes or why they can't adjust with the things she likes.I know this is world's rules or girls fate after marrige but for once or twice if dev adjust or get heart according to sona's choice than there is no fault in this.Nd Sona sn't doing this without his permission when he promised her he have to bear with this but u don't worry u don't have to feel pity for dev long time coz according to precap ishu jhola ko room se bahar kar diya

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CoffeeCake

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Posted: 8 years ago

#14

They should rename Ishwari mension as dixit zoo.

GKB and unique Maa roaming in bedroom of a couple like it's a joggers park. They are couple, they might have some personal stuff. But wait. Even if Ishu maa stopped going to their room, Dev would personally go and show everything to his mom. Look maa, this is a nighty which sonakshi wears while having sex. spinless jerk.

Jhula or no Jhula, cupboard or no cupboard. It's their room, they should communicate, fight, or do whatever they want. They need to sort out their matter in their room. Neither ishu should interfear, nor any of them take this matter to ishu.

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ltelidevara

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Posted: 8 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: Nehz
Oh my god! I dont want to argue with you. I pity this line of thinking.

And I pity you. This thread is not for you who is poles apart in thought process.

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ltelidevara

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Posted: 8 years ago

#16

You have raised some valid points Lakshmi.

Everyone have different taste and there is nothing as right or wrong .Having a loud taste or liking a dull colors is not wrong but what's Sona is missing is ,now that they share a room she cannot be insensitive to his feelings .Its not like she doesn't know about his taste she does but she is ignoring it and Dev is unable to communicate with the fear that she will be upset again and might go back to her mom's home .

@ I agree with you. If the room is only for her she can do whatever she wants to do.Dev is scared that she may again go to her place. But with instinct we can understand if it is convenient for the other person or not. Still Sonakshi preferred to live her childhood dream.

Having said that I also want to add that Ishwari should not have interfered in this .She should not be deciding to remove the swing from their room.Its very insulting

@ If my mother in law finds out that her son is hurting himself due to the swing but unable to express himself she also will go to that extent.In the early days of my marriage when she found my husband taking away the dinner plate after meals she sternly told me " it may be a habit in your house that gents also will involve in such work. But not here. If you can not do my son's work I will do, I don't like any changes.So I did not find any fault in Iswari's action. When a matured woman fails to act sensible elders will cross the limits . They will never let their son suffer. I believe My MIL is not a psycho neither is Iswari.

If either of the spouse has fears of expressing their thoughts openly then it's not a healthy relationship

@ I agree.I am lucky enough in this regard.

There is something as breathing space which every individual requires .Controlling him and not allowing him to buy things he likes or forcing him to change according to her needs will push him away from her and that's what happened .She is trying to control him like his mom

@The problem with Sonakshi is she has this wrong notion that she is the best.The reason for this is Bijoy Bose who pampered her and placed her on a pedestal.Why should she stop Dev from buying another cupboard? Isn't it a good option? But no. She just wants to prove that she is the smartest operator and Dev is nothing before her.

I being a working women take help of my parents,in laws and maid for running the home and most of today's women do that .Is it wrong to delegate work and I don't think so .

@ Absolutely agree with you. I am also a working woman who won't find time even to breathe in the mornings. I depend on my MIL maid,and my parents and sister. Like Dev my husband never does any household work.He never arranged his clothes. Me and my MIL do his work as per our convenience.

If Dev cannot be forgiven for his mistake of calling asha Aunty then even Sona should not be spared for hiding Saurabh issue or Vicky issue .

@ yes. Why should only Dev be targeted ? Not done.

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ltelidevara

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Posted: 8 years ago

#17

I dont know about Sona... But i got immense pleasure seeing Dev getting hurt again and again by that Jhoola.

@ Sorry I differ. I felt as if it hurt my feet.

Doesnt matter if the jhoola is looking odd and doesnt look nice ... God has given Dev a mouth... so he should use it and convey that he doesnt like it and may be comeup with something that they both can like... but Dev uses his mouth only for one thing ... making false promises

@ Dev tolerates so much for Sonakshi's sake. He never complains. He said she can do anything with the room. But that doesn't mean it is a must for him to like the changes. Sonakshi should have been sensible enough to think about his inconvenience.As for his false promises I feel sometimes a person can not stick up to his word due to circumstances.No one is an exception. Not even Sona who promised her parents that she will go ahead with Ritwick but failed to do so.

So if her innovative designs are troubling him and driving him away from her... then i would say ... good job... because this time when Sona leaves Dev and dixit house ... atleast hopefully he will not be stalking her and try to ruin her future.

@ I don't think Sona will leave him at any cost. Just a couple of days back she stated before Iswari that she will be a good Bahu,wife,etc etc.

Dev getting hurt by the jhoola is exactly same way sona gets hurt everytime someone or the throws taunts at her... Dev is pretty ok with it and never complained... so i am sure Sona is thinking that Dev will also get adjusted... just like she is getting adjusted

@ In joint families taunting and criticising new Bahu is a common thing. Mostly women will get along and move forward. As time passes everything will become normal. Just because Dev did not say anything,he is not at fault. My husband never meddled if my MIL and me differed and argued on anything.My mother taunts my Bhabhi but that doesn't mean they both become rivals.

So No words for him🤢
I love Dev with all his lapses. If he did ten mistakes I can find fifteen on part of Sona.

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ltelidevara

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Posted: 8 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: Pehchaan.Kaun
First of all if I remember correctly it was from the Horse's aka Dev's mouth that Sonakshi is free to do WHATEVER she wants to to their room. Any thoughts on that ? Did he just make the promise to end the fight ? This promise can lead to have 3 possibilities - Sona would take care of Dev's choice and will consider those while redecorating OR Sona will do everything as per her wish but eventually both of their taste would match so no problem OR Sona will do everything of her choice which will be disapproved by Dev. So here the third thing happened - Doesnt Dev being such a Tycoon having built the so called empire have this basic knowledge of Use Case Diagrams ? Didn't he think of the third possibility while making that promise ? Did anyone put him on the gunpoint to make that promise ? Sonakshi is yet to become SO manipulative to make Dev promise like this. And like everytime we see Dev broke his promise that's the main issue here.

I don't think what Dev told Sonakshi should be taken that way. Promise,breaking all these should be used for much serious issues like Dev breaking his promise and going ahead with the break up and Sona running away with Dev leaving her parents bewildered and Ritwick shocked. She also broke her promise of commitment .

The room is shared by both. So before going ahead with her ideas she should just stop and think about Dev who always enjoyed free space in his room.Any wife will do. I did so and I know many will do.But Sona did it in her own way and caused inconvenience. It is difficult for Dev to adjust but still he is trying to. He is so concerned and caring.

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ltelidevara

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Posted: 8 years ago

#19

Actually men like their bedrooms as it gives off their personality so when a man marries its very seldom he on his own will consider he has a wife and she may not like the masculine feel of the room so he changes it accordingly all that is good

@True.Men have different tastes but Dev is trying his best to please Sona.

now with Dev and Sona she complained about his room he told her to change it according to her likes he did not put up any fuss as long as she was happy he was happy but then I felt bringing in that swing may look cool but certainly not in Dixit house if Sona really wanted a swing she could have got one that suited the room still Dev been shock but didn't say anything

@The Swing is misplaced. Not suited for Dev's room. Still Dev kept quiet.

Sona further went on to decorate it with her scafs , Ishwari thought otherwise while Sona meant it to be decorations then came the lights

I understand its her childhood dream but then she could have placed it on the terrace its out of the way and she could still enjoy it

& Yes that would have been a nice option.

for some reason now I feel Sona is imposing her demands on Dev wanting him to tidy his cupboard while she too cannot get anything tidy

yes Sona is right in her place wanting her husband to become dependant on himself instead of calling for his mother all the time but she is doing stuff that would irritate him something as important as the conversation about her mother she just agrees to Dev's words

@Sonakshi these days is self absorbed. She leaves important matters and runs after insignificant things.

there is Elena and Vicky's relation she should speak to Dev about that or ask him should they marriage now come to a halt as Neha is back home but instead she is worried about the cupboard as if its the most important aspect of her marriage .

@ Yes. Sonakshi should have told Dev about Vicky Elena matter.She left it there. Did not bother to call up Elena who is heartbroken.She said break up with Vicky that's all Elena has to follow. She is least bothered about Elena's feelings .What if Elena loved Vicky who has bad reputation. Love is blind. It causes pain when she has to,break up. How can Sona not follow it up? So insensitive,Mahan Sona.

a man changes in time it cannot be forced on him otherwise he'll start hating coming home to his wife

@ true. Absolute fact.

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ltelidevara

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Posted: 8 years ago

#20

Originally posted by: randomramblings
simple si baat hai. both dev and sona are real idiots who can never talk openly with each other post marriage . the camaradie they had as 2 strangers who became frnds is lost the min they died the knot

Yes miscommunication is the root cause of all problems.

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