Originally posted by: Bella100
I usually read this forum to see different POV of members here and realised 5 mins of scenes between dev n his mom has made him from husband goal to worst ever husband on the planet.
Not defending him as his actions are totally wrong but we know this is the common problem in our society where mamas boy takes much longer to come out of Ma Ka pally.
Sona is an educated girl n she knows she has two uneducated orthodox women to deal with. Also she knows Dev also in order to make things write for his family takes hasty decision only to realise after sometimes that he is completely wrong.
Dev addressing his MIL may hurt sona but that doesn't mean he disrespect his MIL so I feel sona should try to understand Dev's sudden change of action just to help him to come out of his guilt driven mistakes. We know in reality girls go through much more humiliating situation n that shouldn't be reason for
The separation. If Sona could make Abhodro Dixit into Mr Lovable Dixit I m sure this is work in progress and will help Dev to be a balanced human being. But that can't be done over night would take time and baat rahi involving Sona in all family matter v can already see two little sis are now relying more on Sona and Neha may be bit off at the moment but that's because of her own problem.
It's only Ishwari who is keeping her away just because of her inaecurity and that is the whole plot. If CV don't show any minus of Their main characters then nothing left to
Show and wen we call this show realistic nothing or no human being changes over night they only learn from their mistakes. Pls stop bashing dev so much as he is slowly learning from his mistakes he is work in progress for mrs Dixit n let it b that way
Noone is bashing anyone.let me ask a question people frquently say,this show is reality,ok understood.
But how many girls in reality are like sonakshi,who can take any level of insults without forget reating sometimes she is not even comprehending the intentions.
Sometimes she is so indifferent to the things happenings to her in her sasuraal,that it feels like she was taught that it is her sasuraals haq to scold her and her duty to tolerate it.
I am not asking makres to show sonakshi stoop to rrs level,but for one moment cant they show a sona,who actually feels bad for all these things.atleast ponder a bit,mull over why everyone here is like this.
Ish,neha and rr are so negative on the face most f the time,very rarely or never hav they seen accepting sona,but sonakshi seems oblivious to all this.
Forget dev makers have coined aubhodro for him for a reason.He is a obnoxious and complictaed man.
But sona,sona has always been a sensible and matured girl.
So what maturity does she show when she cant see her mother in laws obvious insecurities.
If it had been the first or second time its ok. Even Asha understood that ish is sensitive abt dev.But no Sona has to be in her own bubble.
Time and all maamiji insults her to disturbing levels.They hav to tone down that otherwise righteous ppl are going to be very disappointed.
All in order to show that she is extremely positive person.positive does not mean endorsing all bad things.
lt means trying to balance and enjoy the positives inspite of the negative.
Sona here never comprehends the entire situation.As dev rightly said she looks like engrossed to win a bahu pageant.
She has to atleast make a beginning to understand the level of emotional and manipulative control ish has over dev.
In reality a smart and educated woman like Sona,will hav had some idea of the undercurrents in the house by now.
Also she wont go back to the same ppl who are insulting her time and again without any sense of her self respect.
There will be points when she will ponder and worry abt the dynamics in her house.But sona clearly misses to convey all this.or rather the screenplay.