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Hari73

@Hari73

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Posted: 8 years ago

#21

Originally posted by: desigirl987
I really appreciate soumya posting here even after some disappointing eps, how we all wished it was a dream !!!Somehow I knew this is what going to happen , I knew Ishwari only needed a reassurance , and she would only tell Dev he could call Asha mom . But I would have been disappointed if Dev took that advice and continued to call Asha mom , because I wanted him to face the consequence of his "so called mistake" . But I'm happy with the precap , I am really curious , how Dev is going to justify calling Asha auntiji now . And I'm liking this confident Ishwari , she still havent realized the hold Sona has on Dev . And Sona is also not in the play right now as she is unaware of Ishwari's plot . All these are gonna change soon , and I am eagerly waiting for it !!! After watching the precap , I'm sure Cvs have some good plans !!!!

I really hope they address this issue. regarding sona's hold on Dev looks zero to me. Because, not even once he thought about sona while impressing his mother. I am feeling Dev also manipulative like his mother. when he wants he called ma, baba and all and also said he wants to become best SIL. All these dialogues just to get sona back??. now he is married and trapped her. I feel sorry for sona. I am thinking extreme may be. even I feel is he ever know meaning of love..

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stuti

@stuti123

Stunner

+ 4

Posted: 8 years ago

#22

Saumiee..i was so disheartened after yesterday's episode..the precap just broke my heart...Ishwari is the happiest person at the moment ..she was successful in breaking such a beautiful bond which dev shared with asha...Now she is fully confident that her son is in her grip ..confidence is good but not over confidence..i soo wish ishu gets a taste of her own own medicine...

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saumiee

@saumiee

Rocker

+ 5

Posted: 8 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld
Nice post ...beautifully written...but I doubt if he will go away from her...he just cant live with out his mom...there is something that bonds these two together a past that we dont know...niether does Sona...and his dialogues ...I think he will be ok to let Sona go if Ishwari wants...for him what matters is ONLY his mom ...not Sona...and its so clear today...
I have all sympathy for that girl and she is blindly in love with him...She should not do anything special for his birthday...she should talk ONLY when necessary and when asked should say "NOTHING"

Its high time Dev babu got introduced to the most famous word that women use when they are really angry and at the verge of break down...yes ..."NOTHING" !!

Thank you 😳

What you say seems v true and most appropriate right now! Had Ishwari cried once or twice and asked him to leave Sonakshi, he would do it any day. It is only his mom that matters the most for him.

I feel so so hurt, as if all this is happening with my sister or someone really close, A girl so devoted,so loving is not even a priority for someone around whom her life revolves. It is not that Dev doesn't love her, but what alone can love do if you dont have sensitivity and respect for the girl? It is useless and incomplete then.

But, since they are showing only an increase (exponential increase, infact) of love between the mother-son duo, I feel it may only pull them apart after this.

Like in physics, when electrons are bombarded on a nucleus, they are attracted until they reach the closest ti the nucleus and then they start repelling.

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pkbdas61

@pkbdas61

Dazzler

Posted: 8 years ago

#24

My daughter is currently living this nightmare that too in the US! She is married to an American marine and her husband is doted upon by his mother. The boy's mother used to do everything for him, from washing clothes to cooking to sorting things out... my daughter is fiercely independent...and she is small built... did not know how to drive a car too. Imagine what she must have gone through... she is smart and very quickly pushed herself and her husband to buy a home far away from his mom... she learnt to drive...she is the one who pays the bills, reads the fine print of documents (not easy in the US), manages the security system, cooks, washes, fixes things, works... and my SIL does nothing ( nice guy though) and his mother keeps visiting every now and then... this move has in some way limited the dependency of the son on the mother but has increased dependency on my daughter... men!!!! Sometimes it makes me wonder if men get married to have 24X7 live-in maids!

It is amazing but such things happen all over the world, not just India.

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gmgi

@gmgi

Rocker

Posted: 8 years ago

#25

Originally posted by: pkbdas61
My daughter is currently living this nightmare that too in the US! She is married to an American marine and her husband is doted upon by his mother. The boy's mother used to do everything for him, from washing clothes to cooking to sorting things out... my daughter is fiercely independent...and she is small built... did not know how to drive a car too. Imagine what she must have gone through... she is smart and very quickly pushed herself and her husband to buy a home far away from his mom... she learnt to drive...she is the one who pays the bills, reads the fine print of documents (not easy in the US), manages the security system, cooks, washes, fixes things, works... and my SIL does nothing ( nice guy though) and his mother keeps visiting every now and then... this move has in some way limited the dependency of the son on the mother but has increased dependency on my daughter... men!!!! Sometimes it makes me wonder if men get married to have 24X7 live-in maids!
It is amazing but such things happen all over the world, not just India.

Hats off to your daughter sir, for having the courage to take things in her own hand. Instead of sitting and lamenting she decided to act, to will her destiny. Thank you for sharing this true inspirational story.👏

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saumiee

@saumiee

Rocker

+ 5

Posted: 8 years ago

#26

Originally posted by: randommusings
Need hugs n some tissues too..first few minutes of the show today n I felt so bad for Asha n Sona..so Dev's feelings for Bose family was just a big sham...All that concern for Asha was just a show for society...u dnt deserve to be associated with Bose family. Today Dev n Ish scene was so suffocating n worse part was Dev was more wrong than Ish. He has no afterthought also...its really an insult to Sona n Asha's genuine love n concern

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Actually no afterthought after the entire conversation was a bigger shock than the conversation itself. Glad to see that Dev will have to practically apply his promises to Ishwari and that will be interesting to see how after disregarding asha, he is even able to make eye contact with Sonakshi.

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saumiee

@saumiee

Rocker

+ 5

Posted: 8 years ago

#27

Originally posted by: pkbdas61
My daughter is currently living this nightmare that too in the US! She is married to an American marine and her husband is doted upon by his mother. The boy's mother used to do everything for him, from washing clothes to cooking to sorting things out... my daughter is fiercely independent...and she is small built... did not know how to drive a car too. Imagine what she must have gone through... she is smart and very quickly pushed herself and her husband to buy a home far away from his mom... she learnt to drive...she is the one who pays the bills, reads the fine print of documents (not easy in the US), manages the security system, cooks, washes, fixes things, works... and my SIL does nothing ( nice guy though) and his mother keeps visiting every now and then... this move has in some way limited the dependency of the son on the mother but has increased dependency on my daughter... men!!!! Sometimes it makes me wonder if men get married to have 24X7 live-in maids!
It is amazing but such things happen all over the world, not just India.

Truly, very very inspiring to see that there are girls out there who just don't give in to the system which has been going on for ages. Mothers often cry (talking only abt those who have this extremely dependent relationship with their son) that If a parent is pampering a child, there is no harm to it.

But, then like you said, the sad aspect to this part is that the dependency never ends, just shifts. There are men who co-exist with their wives,o r any female members of the family dividing all the responsibilities and then there is a majority of people who need either their mother, sister, wife or even daughter to carry out all the basic chores of life. And it makes me wonder if the society has been programmed in a way to typecast women for these tasks. Even yesterday, While Sonakshi was saying that Dev should not take Ishwari's help, gkb was elated. .but as soon as she said He will do tasks on his own, both Ishwari and GKB were shocked.

If men can't function with these tasks properly, it is a case of overburdening and if a woman falters here, she is inefficient.

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saumiee

@saumiee

Rocker

+ 5

Posted: 8 years ago

#28

Originally posted by: SandyAquarium
I could not stand the sight of Dev today. And I, like you did not enjoy the bed scene one bit. Found his smile hypocritical and fake. Uff!! What a day? What is the point in watching the show if Devakshi cannot be enjoyed and frankly for the time being they have been literally destroyed for me as a couple coz of Dev. What a weak man he turned out to be! The weakest!
Its just a matter of time. The swing is going out of the room and so is Sona. But that doesn't worry me.

My only real wish this time is that the cvs don't brush aside the problem (Dev calling Asha aunty) in the form of a silly comic scene and instead it is addressed in the manner and gravity it deserves. I wish Sona takes a stand in the matter. Coz this is no joking matter!

Ishwari is indeed on a high and will remain so, as long as Sona is on a back foot. The downslide for Sona has begun. Let us sit tight and hope she fights her battle well and she needs to do this on her own coz Dev will not be there to get her back. Another promise broken coz that was her request to Dev...the fairy tale wala story...to feed her so that she can fight her battles but Dev will not strengthen her instead will weaken her by letting her down every step of the way by sticking with Ishwari. He has begun to take Sona for granted coz he has forgotten what life was without Sona and he will be jolted out only when Sona leaves. Go Sona...run!

P.S - I never thought I would see a day when I would hate Dev more than Ish and this hatred for a guy I loved with all my heart...even during breakup track...is shocking. I wish I could go numb.

We can already foresee that innocent swing becoming a cause of another issue in the Dixit mansion. Feel bad for her that not even a single piece of furniture you cannot accept without cribbing, as if doing an 'ehsaan'

Hope so too, but there is no way they can brush this aside like other issues because that 2 minute conversation actually changed the way we viewers looked at Dev.

Oh! That is so true, even reading this saddens me. All Sonakshi wants is his support and him standing beside her while she fights her own battles but looks like it is going to be the other way round. Or not even that because Dev is not willing right now, to fight for Sonakshi. It is her battle and hope she wins it with grace.

Oh yes, I found myself disappointed with Dev even more than Ishwari. It wasn't expected at all.

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pkbdas61

@pkbdas61

Dazzler

Posted: 8 years ago

#29

Originally posted by: gmgi

Hats off to your daughter sir, for having the courage to take things in her own hand. Instead of sitting and lamenting she decided to act, to will her destiny. Thank you for sharing this true inspirational story.👏

Thanks Geena.. one more thing.. i forgot to add. My daughter actually surprised me. when she was in India, she used to lounge around and be demanding .. so when she got married to this boy, i was very skeptical.. but really amazing. i think the US changed her.. for the better.

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Sunny

@desigirl987

Voyager

Posted: 8 years ago

#30

Originally posted by: Pramila.harish

I really hope they address this issue. regarding sona's hold on Dev looks zero to me. Because, not even once he thought about sona while impressing his mother. I am feeling Dev also manipulative like his mother. when he wants he called ma, baba and all and also said he wants to become best SIL. All these dialogues just to get sona back??. now he is married and trapped her. I feel sorry for sona. I am thinking extreme may be. even I feel is he ever know meaning of love..

But thats why I said Sona is never in the play as of now !!! I'm sure its gonna change soon , and unlike Ishwari , she doesnt have to do use guilt card , her honesty would be enough !!!

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