Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld
Let me also add a few words here...I found it very funny ...but these things really happen especially when Son gets married...Being alone and enjoying room all by himself is one thing and then to have some one share your room is different...especially your wife...I dont know how many of you married ppl out there has experienced this...when you want to have a new furniture or even change the colour of your room...the reactions from husbands...initially ...do what ever you want , all we need is your happiness and when we choose...their reaction will be ...seriously this one ??dont you think its big/wide / not worth the price blah blah...
but I guess that is the fun...rt...some times the lady gives and some times the guy...I love this show...they are showing almost all those small things that actually cause emotional mess for newly married couples...and it is these tiny challenges make their bond stronger for bigger ones which they might have to face in future ...
Love this show...👏
I respect your opinions di.
I am neither bashing the show nor am I condemning the tracks they are bringing.
To be true, I love this show as well... And will anyway watch whatever is served.
I know what you are talking by sharing.
I am not married, but I can understand that sharing thing.
I have an elder sibling, but she lived in another city for the past 7 years, and I was totally habitual to be living like a single child. Room all to myself, wardrobes all to myself, bed all to myself, dresses all to myself, shoes all to myself. Everything that just belonged to me only.
But when my sister returned after those 7 years to stay back permanently here, we had loads of issues, inspite of us having spent some 15-20 years together.
She had problems with my arrangement of the room, I had problems with her making so many changes according to all her tastes. And we usually fought, and then consoled each other and then eventually adjusted around each other's choices.
If my mother would have popped in and started arranging things the way she did years back, maybe because that's how my sister likes or how I like; either of the two of us sisters would have protested. Because, thats an issue between we two people and let us two sort it ourselves, no matter how much any of the two of us went to mummy and complained about the discomfort.
I am pretty sure about this is because when my sister returned and all these problems, I asked my mother that I am ready to shift into a store room even, but I cannot share and do things around how my sister wants.
My mother scolded me and told to sort things out, and she wants no shifting happening. But my mom never came to our rescue when we were bragging about it. And that is how it should have been done. We were both 20+ girls ans are fully able to manage our lives.
And that is precisely my problem with ishwari. I am not comapring her with my mother, because it would be unjust to be putting both the ladies on the same parameter, but I am definitely putting myself in Sonakshi's place because she is as normal as a girl I am , and I feel issues about it.
PS: Just a pov. No offense at all.