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sjain

@sjain

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Posted: 9 years ago

#11

Yes it was chatpata episode LOL

with some sour and some sweet moments <3

I will start from sour moments coz pehley hi unpleasent ko nikal do so that baad mein achha part reh jaye

Sour moments

Dev's anger - well his anger, it just blows out of proportion and then he causes troubles for himself & others sighh :( ..but then who speaks sensibly when angry..yeah even I dont when I am angry so I understand that..nd then I regret it too like Dev did :( LOL

Dev knows she wants best for his family and she will not have any selfish motive behind any thing..then why not for once just consider her thought..just give her chance..I want to remind Dev how he asked her for help when lehenga issue happened he knew she can help him..tahts why he asked ..I dont want him to follow her completely or blindly just calmly they can talk so that Sona can explain it..how he said I wont ask you for every small decision... you have to include her in matters so that your family includes her too and how important she is to you show your family by listening to her views :)...then he said u think about Ranveer and his family and i will take care of my sister..all this was done in anger mode but words were bitter and how much it must have hurt her :( thats sad ..yes Dev I want you doing some effort to pacify her and bring her back..you need to work hard dude..this is not cake walk every time ..LOL

Well what Dev said that Divorce is not something big these days ..yes its not it doesnt stop someone's life ..but Sona knows how living alone can be difficult and besides that she has seen the love Neha holds for Ranveer..Its not about Divorce its about the feelings they have..how precise and to to the point she was when lawyer came..this decision is irreversible so they need to think 7467468 times before proceeding with it..then Ranveer is still neha's husband..he isnt some stranger ..Dev said they are doing what Neha wants but its not some silly demand which are fulfilling it ..its life decision and they cant give in to it just like that..well all I want to see is that Dev Sona needs to talk elaborately where Dev doesnt get irked and Sona can put her POV across him properly

I just so so liked mamaji Sona scene ..he indirectly conveyed he has habbit of giving up..thats why he is not even trying this time :( here disappointing part is .mamaji knows that Ish and Dev can not see anything besides Nehas ATM and they might regret this decision later and still why not speaking up now because this decision is irreversible..and Sona understands isliye she is doing her best to save it..and mamaji truely realizes her efforts :(

Now coming to Neha Ishwari...Neha showed her concern for Ranveer'a family to Dev and asked him to get his job back . Nehas sounded so mature for few seconds it shocked me LOL..I wasnt expecting it ..Rightly you said Dev agreed to Neha just for Neha's happiness not that he was waiting for her to come an talk to him

Now coming to dinning table scene..AAHH aaj phir ek baar sabit ho gaya Neha has Ishwari's traits childish immature..she did what Ishwari does showing Sona how they control Dev sighh...oh freak my my Sona turned out to be clear winner mann.. the way she replied..hats off..specially when she said "main Dev ko badlna nahi chahti bas as husband wife hum baat karey sab share karein discuss kar sakein " "meri Dev se shadi hui hai iska matlab ye nahi hai ki dev meri sari baat maney" ...I swear that moment the 3 idiots sitting their peed it their pants 😛..how beautifully and calmly she shut up their mouths ..MUAHH Sonakshi DIXIT 👏

I know at this moment Dev is not understanding but the day he will I can bet ..these 3 will be the ones who will be experience living hel and I will be the one laughing my ass off :)

Now Ishwari..woah this lady is so SHATIR..oh she is one crazy lady..as soon as she felt SOnakshi can influence Neha ..how smartly she changed topic😳..right word u used "shooed" Sona away to her house on the pretense of bhai dooj and told her to stay their so that she can stay away from Neha and She can have some time with Dev too..taliyaan madam ke liye 👏

Sweet moments

Loved how Nikki asked for Sona aww <3 atleast koi hai except Dev who is missing her :)

Dev Dixit..ab bhugto HAHA..Need this distance to set your mind straight LOL..ab ayega maza..aur jhagdo..yeah seeing restless sulking Dev was wohoo party haha..yes the simultaneous scens going on were awesome :)..HAHA chalo achha hai yaad aaya.

Note was 😳👏 ..it was necessary..yes table convo between mamaji Dev aww his smile just so so adorable <3 hayee sachhi <3

PS : I can see Neha feeling alone when ever she sees Dev Sona being all lovey dovey or she feels the love between the couple but instead of taking any lessons from it she gets jelous and feels insecure LMAO

Edited by sjain - 9 years ago

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HaiMiz

@HaiMiz

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Posted: 9 years ago

#12

"Dev was convinced by Neha not because he valued her opinion more, but because it was for Neha he was doing it and if she was unhappy with it, there was no point of that step." - This is exactly what I thought, Saumie and now I know why I enjoy reading your posts and few other writers on this forum. When your thoughts reflect each other's, the joy of sharing happiness and sorrow is doubled, tripled and probably quadrupled too :)

I was indeed an amazing update. And I agree 100% with you.

Sona was hurt by Dev not because he gave in to Neha but coz he said he cannot consult her on his decisions for his family. That in effect excluded. Sona who has for the longest time been going on about "hamara" - be it their love, responsibility, family, home...for the first time said "apna ghar" "aapka ghar". That is the reason why I loved the note. It is time for Dev to understand that he cannot just take take and take from Sona but needs to give back. This was sheer brilliance by the CVs.

Did you really think Sona did not get the subtle hint by Ishwari to spend few days at Bose house? I think Sona finally understood that the Dixits (Ishwari, Neha and to a certain extent Dev too) didn't want her involved in the matter. She finally understood that she is not welcome to be a part of the conflict resolution. Infact I hope Sona understood that coz it is much needed.

The Bose family is literally #Familygoals right?

One last thing I want to add is about Dev. He was upset that Sona called herself an outsider. He didn't like it when she separated herself from him in the note. And for the very first time since marriage, I think he noticed how Ishwari referred to Sona going to "her" house. He was quick to point that Sona is a part of this family too. Although he didn't particularly notice Ishwari's tactful sidestepping of the point, this is a first time he took note of what his mother said. I don't think it is "the big moment" but Dev's outlook has surely turned a corner (I hope). I sincerely hope, the CV's will address Dev remaining blissfully unaware of Sona's position in his household.

Sona is his family between the four walls of their room but she is still an outsider outside their room (I wish the producers will give their room a makeover, now that they shoot so many many scenes there 😉)

The Precap...ooo la la...brilliant, especially when his face fell after Sona says aapka ghar :D

Edited by SandyAquarium - 9 years ago

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Jyoti410

@Jyoti410

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Posted: 9 years ago

#13

Loved ur post and all the other insights by different members...😊😊

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AnanyaGhosh

@AnanyaGhosh

Dazzler

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Posted: 9 years ago

#14

Beautiful post saumiee... Loved ur analysis..

Dev regretting sona k saath fight and went straight to bose house... Aur raha nahi gaya ladke se.. And neha.. So smart.. Sona ko less importance de kar khud ko mahan banaya aur sona ne bhi kamal ka jawab dia...

Aaj ka epi toh dhamakedar hi hoga...

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Sunny

@desigirl987

Voyager

Posted: 9 years ago

#15

Awww beautiful post dear ... Since "Awww" is the word of the moment , had to use it 😉😉😉 .

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Silambu

@Silambu

Dazzler

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Posted: 9 years ago

#16

Very good writing. You write with class and style without resorting to harsh words! That's what sets you and a few others apart from others and always a pleasure to read such heartwarming posts.

Am eagerly waiting how Dev will woo his wife back!

Edited by Silambu - 9 years ago