Don't be hurt. I personally think Neha has redeeming qualities. But she also has a sense of entitlement just like everyone else in Dixit family. At least her sense of entitlement is legitimate.
Dev certainly owes to Neha his wealth but like I said, he can't give her everything. So it's up to her to decide whether whatever monetary stuff Dev can get her is enough for her or not.
In my experience, monetary stuff can buy luxury, but it can't buy peace of mind... If it did, every rich person would be the happiest person on earth. But that's not the case.
I know about the news you are talking about.
I have heard about the verdict. I also wrote a reply to one of my friends who shared it on Facebook.
I wrote that the man who wants to divorce his wife because she doesn't want to live with his parents often forgets that every men wants to separate their wife from her parents the day they get married.
I also wrote, why should any parents want daughters or spend money on their education? If sons take care of their parents and daughters take care of their husband's parents, then our law and order is making sure female foeticide happen, women get deprived of their education because there's absolutely no benefit nor need for girl child beyond need for an incubator.
Moving on to Neha's problem. If Neha wants to live just with her husband, that's a fair request. After all, Ranveer isn't living with her family. But first of all, that's a request and not a demand and secondly, if the lack of money is bothering her while they are living together, they will have even less money if they live separately. Let's be real, maintaining two household is never cheaper than maintaining one household.
She can request to live separately but she can't demand Ranveer to stop helping his family and continue to expect Dev to help her out. That's double standard.
However coming to real life, it's about time we make parents of sons to realize having son doesn't mean caretaker for old age unless parents of daughters get the same convenience. How would we get gender equality when all benefits are associated with one gender?
The reason in the West to a certain extent, gender equality exists is because whether you have a boy or girl, they will move out at a certain age and both are equally accountable for your well-being whether they live under the same roof or not.
When we sold our house back in Alberta before moving to Ontario, the woman who bought the house already had an apartment in the building across from our house. When we asked her why she needs another place, she said that her mother and stepfather needs a place to stay. So she is buying the house so that they can live closer to her and when they are too old to live in a big house and she gets married, they will switch places with her. So she will live in the house and her parents will live in the apartment because it's easier to maintain a smaller place.
She doesn't live under the same roof as her mom, but is she any less caring for her?
Same with all similar situation. It's better to live apart but treat each other with respect than live together and hate each other's guts. However if someone has a extremely happy Barjatya films type family and wants to live in a joint family, that's fine as well.
Originally posted by: Pehchaan.Kaun
Tia good that you made the post on Neha today, because as an ex-Neha fan, I am really hurt today. She reminds me of Zaroon's sister - Sarah's character from Zindagi Gulzar hai. She really thinks marriage is a game. Extremely immature and rushed decision only to regret later. The problem to her solution is counselling as well. The difference between Ishwari's and her psychological problem is that Neha doesn't plan/plot and use others as a weapon to fulfil her invalid demands, rather she ends up hurting herself. I cannot term her as selfish, but indeed she is forever unhappy. And all of a sudden her closeness with Ishwari, who basically is the reason for all her dissatisfaction, is really something beyond me 😕. Why can't she vent out her frustration towards the right channel like she always did earlier. 🥱 Unnecessary creating problems between her and Sona only for TRP's sake. Can't take the krap for long I guess 🥱.
But what I am looking forward to is to see how Dixits react to this 😛. It would be worth watching to see Ishwari, fed up of failing to convince Neha, rather requests Ranveer to accommodate her request and Ranveer answers back with an example taken of Dev 😆. Will Ishwari thank her stars for getting a bahu like Sonakshi Bose now 😆
One more thing I would like to mention - till yesterday Ishwari was using Neha's marital problems to her own selfish needs. Today it almost felt like Karma when Sona met Ranveer in the market area and brought him home and the whole situation blew out of proportion 😆 Ishwari - Karma is indeed a bitch 😉 The one reason which you used to stop Devakshi from going to honeymoon which was quite stable and non-existent till yesterday, has today become a real giant situation for you to deal with 😆
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Out of topic -
Few days back there was a verdict from Indian Supreme Court - A man can seek for divorce from his wife if the wife tries to separate him from his aged parents. Howmuchever backward this verdict was, while arguing against it for ever, never thought that this type of situation can occur that the wife herself would seek for divorce if husband doesn't obey to her demands of separation 😕. Such co-incidence, but food for thought. 😕
Edited by tia.o - 8 years ago
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