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A very good morning /noon to you all... 😃
I was just wondering... Is Ishwari spoiling her own daughter's life?
Yesterday I had been sitting and thinking about this issue and the first thing that came to my mind was, I feel like laughing at the Dixits...
I mean which family carries on ignoring to talk to their daughter who has come back to her mother's place permanently?
Don't they talk to her about her what the problem is?
Or do they carry on procrastinating the crux of the issue and let the girl deal with so many stupid thoughts that hover her?
Don't they talk to their son in law, his family whatever the matter is?
Nobody, absolutely no one cares to talk the issue out... Ishwari tends to be loving her daughters or I should precisely say, Neha these days. And for the love of her daughter she is spoiling her own son's life, that is a separate issue, but for the love of her daughter the idea never struck her to solve her problem with her husband than delving into the past issues of poverty and childhood...
I just kept myself in Neha's place and judged the situation, if it had happened to me, and I returned late night to my mother's place... And what I know the outcome of that visit would be was absolutely true as well hilarious too...
The moment I would have entered my home declaring I left my husband's place, and I am not going back; my mother would have asked me for dinner later, she would have asked me the problem first, and no matter what, there's no running away. I would have to talk that out.
And when she would have come across the fact that lower financial issues is what my problem is, I know what my mother would have said - "You were born and brought up in this very low financial status. You have lived almost two decades into it. And when you have lived so long into it, you very well know how to deal with it. Just because you don't want to live in it, doesn't mean you will run out of it. This is a life you chose, and remember to stand by your actions and be accountable for it. Life is not a game to run away from, it is a challenge to face head on. Try for steps that can make your life better, at the least it will remain the same if not improve but you will definitely spoil your life running away from it."
And the next thing would be my father /brother been asked to drop me back to my husband's place.
I have always felt Ishwari has made her elder two children very confused souls as far as relationships are concerned. The far fetched thought of maintaining relationships is almost not there until they hear warning bells...They are confused what comes up to the list of priority, and in their confusion and haste end up making greater mistakes. They until then want instant solutions to all problems...
Dev left Sona in a moment of weakness, shattering her totally. He himself broke down at a double rate when he realized the magnanimity of the situation... Those were his warning bells and he has been super cautious to mend the disturbed ASAP, he has been trying to do it ever since the patch up, atleast he tries to. This wouldn't have happened if his head was clear what he wants and who all he wants.
Neha supercedes her own brother's confusion. This girl has some solid priority issues. Money, Love and Respect always don't come hand in hand. One thing or the other comes later or never comes. It is YOU who decides the priority among the three, and decide to forego the other just in case they never come to you.
When Neha fell in love with Ranveer, she had to make a choice. She was time and again warned by Dev and Maamiji that Money is what matters the most to her. But again... For the confused soul she is, she couldn't prioritize her wants... She thought Love is what she wants, because she can make pickles out of love and sell them for money and that's how money will eventually come... Respect wasn't the issue. Her in laws treated her well, and absolutely no one looked down at her at the Dixits as well. So she chose love as the priority and got married in a haste...
A few months later, she realized, Love is not a commodity to be pickled out... It is an emotion that is not tangible enough to be felt unless you want to... And there the hunger of money started again... She left love and respect too, behind and came behind money... again confused...
She is thoroughly comparing her shattered few months old married life with the glittery newly started married life of her sister in law, Sonakshi. She sees the luxuries she is getting, she sees the love she gets from Dev, but she doesn't see the struggle behind those smiling lips of her sister in law, Sonakshi, to get the approval of her in laws, to get the respect she deserves from them, the freedom of being with her husband, that Neha got almost like the inevitable the moment she came into Ranveer's life... Confusion, yet again...
Her life is leading to a divorce (if spoilers are to be believed)... She will get money and luxuries she wants at her brother's place. But she will lack that love and respect she had got from Ranveer and his family, and again she is going to go for a toss up... Yet again confused...
This will keep on going until she prioritizes her wants. And stand by them, Because if she doesn't do that she will be left craving for every thing else. With nothing and nobody to shoulder her. That will be a miserable time for her...
Dear Ishwari ji, look beyond your insecurities. Your daughter is spoiling her life with her own bare hands. Look for far beyond, since you have already said this during the prenuptial agreement time to - "Bachho Ko Toh sirf aaj dikhta hai, par maa Ko Toh Aagey ka bhi sochna padta hai."
Toh sochiye na Aagey ka. Because Karma is a bitch, it comes back round. You keep someone else's daughter unhappy, and your own daughter will have unhappiness knocking at your doors. Appreciate what you are given so that people can appreciate what you give to others (Sona and Neha)
I think that was a long speech... Just wanted to write what I thought... Don't forget to share your opinions on this... 😃
A very good morning /noon to you all... 😃
I was just wondering... Is Ishwari spoiling her own daughter's life?
Yesterday I had been sitting and thinking about this issue and the first thing that came to my mind was, I feel like laughing at the Dixits...
I mean which family carries on ignoring to talk to their daughter who has come back to her mother's place permanently?
Don't they talk to her about her what the problem is?
Or do they carry on procrastinating the crux of the issue and let the girl deal with so many stupid thoughts that hover her?
Don't they talk to their son in law, his family whatever the matter is?
Nobody, absolutely no one cares to talk the issue out... Ishwari tends to be loving her daughters or I should precisely say, Neha these days. And for the love of her daughter she is spoiling her own son's life, that is a separate issue, but for the love of her daughter the idea never struck her to solve her problem with her husband than delving into the past issues of poverty and childhood...
I just kept myself in Neha's place and judged the situation, if it had happened to me, and I returned late night to my mother's place... And what I know the outcome of that visit would be was absolutely true as well hilarious too...
The moment I would have entered my home declaring I left my husband's place, and I am not going back; my mother would have asked me for dinner later, she would have asked me the problem first, and no matter what, there's no running away. I would have to talk that out.
And when she would have come across the fact that lower financial issues is what my problem is, I know what my mother would have said - "You were born and brought up in this very low financial status. You have lived almost two decades into it. And when you have lived so long into it, you very well know how to deal with it. Just because you don't want to live in it, doesn't mean you will run out of it. This is a life you chose, and remember to stand by your actions and be accountable for it. Life is not a game to run away from, it is a challenge to face head on. Try for steps that can make your life better, at the least it will remain the same if not improve but you will definitely spoil your life running away from it."
And the next thing would be my father /brother been asked to drop me back to my husband's place.
I have always felt Ishwari has made her elder two children very confused souls as far as relationships are concerned. The far fetched thought of maintaining relationships is almost not there until they hear warning bells...They are confused what comes up to the list of priority, and in their confusion and haste end up making greater mistakes. They until then want instant solutions to all problems...
Dev left Sona in a moment of weakness, shattering her totally. He himself broke down at a double rate when he realized the magnanimity of the situation... Those were his warning bells and he has been super cautious to mend the disturbed ASAP, he has been trying to do it ever since the patch up, atleast he tries to. This wouldn't have happened if his head was clear what he wants and who all he wants.
Neha supercedes her own brother's confusion. This girl has some solid priority issues. Money, Love and Respect always don't come hand in hand. One thing or the other comes later or never comes. It is YOU who decides the priority among the three, and decide to forego the other just in case they never come to you.
When Neha fell in love with Ranveer, she had to make a choice. She was time and again warned by Dev and Maamiji that Money is what matters the most to her. But again... For the confused soul she is, she couldn't prioritize her wants... She thought Love is what she wants, because she can make pickles out of love and sell them for money and that's how money will eventually come... Respect wasn't the issue. Her in laws treated her well, and absolutely no one looked down at her at the Dixits as well. So she chose love as the priority and got married in a haste...
A few months later, she realized, Love is not a commodity to be pickled out... It is an emotion that is not tangible enough to be felt unless you want to... And there the hunger of money started again... She left love and respect too, behind and came behind money... again confused...
She is thoroughly comparing her shattered few months old married life with the glittery newly started married life of her sister in law, Sonakshi. She sees the luxuries she is getting, she sees the love she gets from Dev, but she doesn't see the struggle behind those smiling lips of her sister in law, Sonakshi, to get the approval of her in laws, to get the respect she deserves from them, the freedom of being with her husband, that Neha got almost like the inevitable the moment she came into Ranveer's life... Confusion, yet again...
Her life is leading to a divorce (if spoilers are to be believed)... She will get money and luxuries she wants at her brother's place. But she will lack that love and respect she had got from Ranveer and his family, and again she is going to go for a toss up... Yet again confused...
This will keep on going until she prioritizes her wants. And stand by them, Because if she doesn't do that she will be left craving for every thing else. With nothing and nobody to shoulder her. That will be a miserable time for her...
Dear Ishwari ji, look beyond your insecurities. Your daughter is spoiling her life with her own bare hands. Look for far beyond, since you have already said this during the prenuptial agreement time to - "Bachho Ko Toh sirf aaj dikhta hai, par maa Ko Toh Aagey ka bhi sochna padta hai."
Toh sochiye na Aagey ka. Because Karma is a bitch, it comes back round. You keep someone else's daughter unhappy, and your own daughter will have unhappiness knocking at your doors. Appreciate what you are given so that people can appreciate what you give to others (Sona and Neha)
I think that was a long speech... Just wanted to write what I thought... Don't forget to share your opinions on this... 😃
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