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Posted: 8 years ago
I am bong. So I don't do Karwa Chauth. Besides, I will probably kill my husband if I have to fast all day because of him. So it defeats the purpose of keeping a vrat for his long life. LOL...

Originally posted by: pomegranate

anyways, karva chauth is around the corner meaning their will be more women sharing their opinion on this practice? twinkle khanna already posted her piece on toi. anyone fasting this year?

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Posted: 8 years ago
Tia🤗Awesome post as always.
We have some amazing people here with whom we can share our thoughts and views and its truly a delight to interact with so many like minded people.And we'll happily continue doing so.
And as OmNaMaSteoM said,its truly inspiring for those of us as well who are unmarried.

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Posted: 8 years ago
Fans have their opinions & are truthful. I care a damn about what others think. I don't care. I have very strong opinions that I stick to...
Some People are Jealous of Dev. That's why they are trashing him when he is doing a Great Job. Dev, God is with you. God Bless You Dev. Don't let negativity come towards you Dev. Good Luck Dev. 😊
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: pomegranate

anyways, karva chauth is around the corner meaning their will be more women sharing their opinion on this practice? twinkle khanna already posted her piece on toi. anyone fasting this year?

😆Unmarried and happily munching snacks.
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: saras_7

Fans have their opinions & are truthful. I care a damn about what others think. I don't care. I have very strong opinions that I stick to...

Some People are Jealous of Dev. That's why they are trashing him when he is doing a Great Job. Dev, God is with you. God Bless You Dev. Don't let negativity come towards you Dev. Good Luck Dev. 😊


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Posted: 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
Precisely... And that's why I said to ignore them. Why get down to their level? If rambling in my post makes them happy, let them. The more you ignore, the desperate they get. 😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
dear tia,i appreciate you for bashing dev. you have ur own set of reasons to feel that sona is being treated unfairly and dev is a moron. glad to hear that u take criticism positively., a few questions for u to ponder my dear
1. why does being docile always equate to having no self respect?
2.is it essential that we need to focus only on the way we r being treated in a relationship to judge the worthinesss of it?
3.does our idea of healthy relationship match tooth to tooth with our partner?

agree krpkab is fiction but the same does happen in real life too. who takes how much of a crap before calling it quits really depends upon the 2 individuals who share the relationship. its for them to evaluate the worthiness of being in relationship as against taking taunts and insults. as a 3rd party we are in no position to comment even if it were our own blood who is being mistreated. i see u have a very strong opinion abt husband matter and u cherish ur husband. but dear lady this does not mean that any guy who deviates from ur rule book of husband is not worthy to be called one. life is bigger , what essentially is a matter of self respect for u could be trivial for someone else.

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: tia.o

<font size="3" color="#660066">I am bong. So I don't do Karwa Chauth. Besides, I will probably kill my husband if I have to fast all day because of him. So it defeats the purpose of keeping a vrat for his long life. LOL...</font>




ha ha. i fast and did it yesterday. hindu holidays r crazy with date changes every years. half did yesterday half today. hubby keeps it with me for me.. so cant complain we call it our Indian valentines!
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: tia.o

<font size="3">Yep Sona is responsible for the mess she is in. But to be fair she did not see this Dev and this Ishwari when they were trying to convince her for marriage. So it was almost like dangling a carrot before leading her into a nightmare.</font>

<font size="3">But being older and wiser, we all warned her as well as Bijoy warned her. But like I mentioned in another response, Sona risked everything for this relationship. She is now trapped with no way out and no support...</font>



In my view she was more despo to get married (partly I blame Asha for this too) then remember the past she had with Ishwari or Dev where one openly taunted (her n her family) or clearly showed non-acceptance of her being a possible dixit bahu while the other never stood for her in front of his mother or any of the family member.
So If one doesn't learn from the past, one is bound to fall into a ditch. Exactly what has happened with Sona.

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