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Posted: 8 years ago
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Thank you for liking my posts. Self-respect for women? That's such a oxymoron... Don't you know in love, self-respect doesn't matter any more? For women that is... Men on the hand has to grab self-respect tighter than ever lest they termed as "jodu ka ghulam"... If a man won't show his manhood and ego stamped attitude to his wife, then who will he show? Who else will put up with it?

Originally posted by: Niva1

Hi Tia, I have always liked your writing. Commenting for the first time, sorry about that. Today was the wierdest episode, most non sensical. How can everyone in dixit house be so forgetful, Ish, Dev and Sona...how can sona behave as if nothing happened. I dont even want to talk about Dev's expectation. They are playing good BG and making it seem like all is again perfect. If I had ever felt most irritated with the show, it would be today. And their claim to reality is proving to be more false day by day. A MIL like Ishu doesnt suddenly start forgetting everything and giving you books with love, a husband cant be blind to his wifes plight like this at all, and if he is then can he be in love? And a woman like Sona is just too weak. So weak, one should not draw any inspiration from her at all. Self respect- tata bye bye

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Go ahead and rant. I make my posts to get rid of my frustrations and give other people an outlet... Otherwise I think I will stop watching the show altogether. It's not worth my stress...

Originally posted by: Niva1

And I am sorry Tia, but ranting in your topic, but I am really angry today on the Team of the show for treating us like children, as if we didn't know how mature human emotions play. Even kids do not forget their pain as easily as dev-sona have done.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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You took the right decision. The episode was so disjoined from Friday's episode, even the opening scene for that matter, that it seemed to me there were other episodes between first half and second half...

In the opening scene Sona mentions that some things are not told just felt (indicating her hurt at being treated like an outsider in her husband's house), next thing I know she is behaving like a teenager whose boyfriend didn't call as if the argument was about what is their favourite flavour of ice cream and not about her respect...

I wanted to reach inside the screen and give her a shake...

Originally posted by: rose4ever

Firstly, let me just say how glad I am to know that my decision to skip watching the episode was right.Reading the written updates and posts was annoying enough.Watching would have just spoiled my mood like the last few episodes.


The fight on Friday was not a silly or cute one.It was a very major and real issue which needs to be discussed and once again I can see major issues being brushed under the carpet than being addressed by the couple.I would much rather see them dealing with their problems than their shallow cutesy scenes.
Sona needing Elena to remind her that she has a job?😕As if anyone could forget such a thing.What are Cvs doing to Sona's character?
Sona taking permission shocked me so much! Sona is herself losing her individuality by doing things like this.Informing about it to Ishwari is fine but why was there any need for permission?Does Dev take permission before going to work?😕So strange.

I never wanted to see Vicky and Elena pair up.And that is what this track seems to be leading to.He is so disgusting and a creep.I don't want to watch the same old ,sisters being married in the same house,good girl reforming bad boy stuff.

Read that Ishwari got creepier and that her hug didn't come across as motherly🤢 and then again her disturbing behavior in precap.(When will Sona realise what's happening🥱)
Plus it makes no sense that Sona would light up candles and create a romantic atmosphere in the hall/entrance area.Who does that in joint families?It was shown only to create drama by Ishwari.No logic being applied by CVs.

As for your last lines,so true.That is the direction Sona's character is being taken to.Fitting her in the mold of an ideal Indian wife.Modernity?Progressive mentality? What's that?😳
I hope against hope that Sona does not taken it upon herself to become super human and ideal wife/bahu.


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Posted: 8 years ago
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She should not only go to work but stay put there working overtime. Might as well since at least she is a respected doctor there and not an outside...

Originally posted by: Shlroy

I think still in India and esp in middle class families women's self respect is least of their in-laws concern. I am not saying all are like this but still ate many.

Same is with dixits, so what sona is listening taunts it shouldn't hurt her becoz her self respect does not matter this they think.
Also interesting is how ishwari is so holy emphasis on puja path but this puja path is just a farce I feel, God can never forgive her for all the drama, plans she is creating for a young girl and bringing her despair. All of her action to happy God is futile.
Sona going back to work is surely a relief for her and us but still like u said she can't hide away there forever as she is bahu and time limits will be set for her to come back home.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Lol... Well then, women's reality sucks big time, doesn't it?



Originally posted by: pomegranate

what cv's are showing is a reality😎

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Let's put it this way, CVs have as much respect for audience's intelligence as Dixit family have for Sona...

Originally posted by: Tinkerfairy


Exactly they are not addressing core issue. one episode They would fight with each other with valid reasons ,very next day they termed it as an EGO fight then next day saying sorry with each other .then again Fight😆

making promise and again breaking it .Same cycle .

In this where is realization between characters. 😕


Aisa lagta hain CV's ka funda Chalo abhi fight karwa dete hain ,thoda drama quotient add ho jayega.

Seeing reaction of viewers ,Oh they are angry chalo romance ka lollypop de dete hain chup ho jayenge !

How sweet of you CV's😳

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Posted: 8 years ago
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And you know what boiled my temper today? Dev is waiting for Sona's call and when he didn't get a call, he says, "Your ego is taller than your height."

A woman's self-respect termed as her ego? This guy who claims to love his wife, convinces her that she is his family and when it comes to showing his family of the fact, he shows her that she is an outsider in his real family.

And when she gets upset, he is surprised that she didn't call to talk to the man who treated her like no body the day before and left for work without a single word of apology.

It made me so angry that I stopped watching after that and just read the written update.

Originally posted by: Shilky88

Love and Romance at the cost of respect and dignity.

A Big NO NO😡

Being a woman I can say that one need to earn my trust, mutual -respect and understanding before going any step further. Cvs cannot play with this lolly pop card anymore.
Doing so we are not passing a good message to the loyal viewers.

Sorry. Its getting impossible for me to watch romantic scenes at the cost of humiliation of Sona by each one of Dixits including Dev.

I dint expect this from Dev to just let it go like this. He can boil an ocean to fulfill any silly demand from his mother but is ignoring the suppressed feelings of his wife.

Next is what- When Vicky will ruin his business. He will come back to Sona crying "Hamesha ki tarah aap hi sahi thi Miss Bose'.

I wont buy that😡

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Posted: 8 years ago
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many people thought that ego dialogue was cute...so I guess cv's hit bulls eye?
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Isn't that a shame!!! I was ready to hit CV's eye or Dev's eye after the dialogue, but then I have a standard higher than Dev's list of "difficulties"...

I guess I am just too intelligent, for a woman!!! Who in my opinion sell themselves too short.

Originally posted by: pomegranate

many people thought that ego dialogue was cute...so I guess cv's hit bulls eye?

Edited by tia.o - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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sad how this show promised to be different but still is churning out the same old stuff, in a more tacky manner. I've seen tortured bahu's on television but even they have a voice. Here sona just quitely serves everyone tea.
damn, I don't think I will ever get a decent show on indian television. every single one is a copy of the other one. only good one I watched was dahleez, it had the usual hindi serial but better than anything I've watched on indian television.

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