Dev Dixit?? - Page 2

I diasagree actually.

She definitely loves him but love is subjective and has various forms. If I love somebody in a particular way and he loves me differently, doesnt mean they don't love me. They still love me with what they are and have.
Lets say ...Care is a form of love. But so is selfless love, so is sexual love. Likewise there is attachment. You know what happens when love takes form of attachment?
Ishwari's love for Dev is an attachment...usse "moh" hai Dev se..

In simple terms, love says I want you to be happy
Attachment says, I want you to make me happy.


Attachment is fear and dependency...Ishu is dependent on Dev and has fear of losing him. Her love for Dev says..I love you but My own love is empty so you give me love as you are full of it.




PS: this is in simple terms that I wote, in natural laymen terms...not well so unable to write much, maybe I can explain what I am exactly trying to say. Also, another aspect of love is how Psychology defines different forms of love which I want to discuss here..maybe wen I get well.

Pps: reminds me of a song and one of its lone which is my most fav...sunna gehrai k saath aur matlab samajhna..u wil understand Ishuz love a lil frm this.
Mujhse tera moh na chhute, dil ne banaye kitne bahane. Duja koi kya pehchane. Jo tann laage so tanna jaane...

Completely disagree with the post. Never think Iswari does not love Dev. Nor do I agree she sees him as an ATM. Iswari never misutilised Dev's money. Ofcourse the exception is her brother's family to whom she feel indebted. She lives a simple life. She never wears costly saries nor does she spend lavishly on her daughters. Every mother in law who is a dependent will have insecurity regarding money when her son is newly married. Especially when she has unmarried and unsettled daughters.

Originally posted by: dikshat

I diasagree actually.

She definitely loves him but love is subjective and has various forms. If I love somebody in a particular way and he loves me differently, doesnt mean they don't love me. They still love me with what they are and have.
Lets say ...Care is a form of love. But so is selfless love, so is sexual love. Likewise there is attachment. You know what happens when love takes form of attachment?
Ishwari's love for Dev is an attachment...usse "moh" hai Dev se..

In simple terms, love says I want you to be happy
Attachment says, I want you to make me happy.


Attachment is fear and dependency...Ishu is dependent on Dev and has fear of losing him. Her love for Dev says..I love you but My own love is empty so you give me love as you are full of it.




PS: this is in simple terms that I wote, in natural laymen terms...not well so unable to write much, maybe I can explain what I am exactly trying to say. Also, another aspect of love is how Psychology defines different forms of love which I want to discuss here..maybe wen I get well.

Pps: reminds me of a song and one of its lone which is my most fav...sunna gehrai k saath aur matlab samajhna..u wil understand Ishuz love a lil frm this.
Mujhse tera moh na chhute, dil ne banaye kitne bahane. Duja koi kya pehchane. Jo tann laage so tanna jaane...

I like the way u write n make it more justified ...Ishwari difantely love Dev the most but she doesn't want him to divert his attention to anyone be its Sona or other siblings ..

Originally posted by: Rhy2015

I like the way u write n make it more justified ...Ishwari difantely love Dev the most but she doesn't want him to divert his attention to anyone be its Sona or other siblings ..

Thank you dear ..
I jst knw that we all r guided by emotions and pure emotions..but logic dsnt fail emotions, it actually supports them

Like Ish's entire life revolves around Dev, she expects the same from Dev. Ish definitely loves Dev but she wants him to be fully devoted to her and everyone including his wife and sisters shud be secondary to Dev. Ish has struggled all her life to provide for Dev's wellbeing and expects Dev wud return the favour in full. Anyone who tries to break this equation, even Dev, wud get the wrath of Ish maata.

I am more than certain that Dev is not Ishwari's son. He is just an ATM and a watchman for her and her three daughters!

Originally posted by: VIMAL.M

Not related to topic.But I was surprised.How Dev thought of giving Vicky Sales Manager post.CV's should show Dev the businessman so naive.

Originally posted by: vibg

I get a feeling Dev is Khatri's son😕 and moneymaking machine for Ishwari and her desire to show the world and take her revenge.. for hardships she faced.

That seems unlikely as Khatri is another money minded person and If Dev was indeed his son, he would not leave all of Dev's money just like that. He would claim for it, all of it.

Originally posted by: VIMAL.M

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when it comes to his family, Dev has and is always be an idiot. He hasn't even used common sense, forget about business sense. I really wonder how someone like him could do so well in business.