Impending doom- feeling depressed - Page 2

Originally posted by: Shilky88

Honestly, those who are married, tell me something- would any husband
Like to hear anything bad about their mother?

To this questions of yours:-

Would any husband like to hear his Mother's differential and ill treatment towards his wife?

Originally posted by: thedramaqueen

Here's the thing...

1. The show may be becoming negative/saas-bahu types and if that's the case we will know in a few days and some of us will stop watching the episodes

2. However, its quite possible that the serial remains true to its core - a love story where there is a mother with some issues

I am hoping its the 2nd.

Dev has never stood up for Sona his lover(except suddenly speaking up at muh dikhai). He only stood up for Dr Bose, his mother's nutritionist. Him and other characters have repeatedly said, "Sona is the only thing he as ever asked for himself" . He has always been the needy one in the relationship with a puppy face, a complex childhood-adolescence, been a provider to his family. There comes Sona, who needs nothing.. she is independent. She isn't complex.. she is predictable. She talks about love.. the kind of love that he hasn't been exposed to before. The one who validates his heart over head business decisions (20% loss at a factory etc etc). Neha and Dev think money is the solution to all problems. Their childhood experiences show that. Sona challenges that thinking and Dev falls in her love.

What did Sona like about Dev? He didn't tick any boxes as far as logic goes... Ritwick ticked those boxes. He was a Doctor, middle class, bengali, small family, no one expected her to cook etc etc.. they were equals. But the spark just wasn't there... Remember what she said to dada about how he quits his jobs.. that's the thing. She clicks with Dev. There is a spark. That SPARK is what will keep her going. I totally expect her to remain the giver in this relationship. The one who will bring clarity to his thoughts.

I actually went back and watched some old episodes and reminded myself that, that has always been their equation. I expect this saas bahu drama to continue while Sona does her thing(clear thinking, sensible talking and going weak in the knees when Dev comes close to kissing her) and Dev does his (puppy face, unclear thoughts and a hot husband)

Lets all stay hopeful

Originally posted by: sia.krpkab

Brilliant post! I especially liked the hot husband part 😉

On a serious note, I think there will be more to the characters of dev and sona. And tables will turn (and should turn) where dev is the provider and sona is the needy one.. It could be in terms of emotional support during infertility or stand by her during prenuptial or others that we will discover. Only then a relationship is complete.

Originally posted by: vibg

I thought the triangle would be handled differently when we get to it. but it is the same saas bahu crap shown on other channels.

As for Sona... I don't see her fighting or shouting at all. sona is honest straightforward and an educated girl who fell in love with a nice man. she comes for a very open, caring, loving family where kids can say whatever to their parents.. and not be scared of them.

what do you mean... if you husband would like to hear bad about MIL? i am married.. and he better... but not as a complain.. I don't think Sona ever did that. but a man with a brain who claims to love and respect his life partner needs to balance two women in his life.. PERIOD! if Ishwari hurts sona or makes her life miserable when Sona is doing all she can to build a relationship with her.. isn't it Dev's duty to make things better for her? It's her house too and her life too!!! She didn't marry him to be abused by his God MOther. Of course, ishwari has a psychiatric problem... she is overly possessive to the point to hurting Sona.. not physically, but emotionally and mentally.

You tell me.. which mothers gets their son to sign a prenup.. dhokhe se😡 a prenup that says the wife will have no rights on him or his money.. forget the money. and not only that.. their child that will be born out of the marriage will have no rights either... that's a sign of MENTAL DISORDER!!!! how regressive is this storyline and how crazy Ishwari is to plan and plot like a psycho?

i respect your POV, but you asked for other views.. and this is mine. I strongly disagree with the line of thinking.. that a girl shouldn't tell her husband if there are issues with MIL.

Originally posted by: ErisedWitch45

Although initially the show was promoted in that way but yeah. light moments b/w the couple would be good to see. After all they have just gotten hitched.

I feel Sona was just being bluntly honest about what was going on in her mind, She comes from a open and frank family and as someone has already mentioned, they can speak freely in front of their parents.

As a married woman, I'm sharing my views - My husband and I, since day 1, have dediced to have an honest r/l. If I feel his mother or anyone else in the family has done/said something hurtful or intentionally, I tell him openly - no matter who the person is. The same is applicable to me. If he feels bad/hurt by statements or actions done by someone from my family (although generally in India, this happens quite less) he can speak to me frankly about it.

It may lead to tension in that short span, but it's much better than bottling feelings inside. No girl or even boy should need to put up with anything that is affecting them adversely in any r/l. That's why I could relate and even liked Sonakshi's response. She put all the cards out in the open, she didn't act like she was "mahaan". This adds to the realism of the story.

I agree there is negativity with the Ishwari scenes but I feel the cvs will balance it out.