Impending doom- feeling depressed

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Posted: 8 years ago
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I am an ardent fan of KRPKAB.
But, what to say , post marriage track is not
Very good. Sad to say this. From the look of it no positivity at all.
They chose to show reality. But in real life, surely there will be
Light moments in life.here one after the other only negative things.
No screen space for the couple.it is their story.
All we get to see is only iswari.
I loved this show till break up.
Now I am not sure.
When I say this I am also emotionally invested in this show.
It is sad that they are projecting more negativity.
I know it is entering the main plot.
But looks like fighting is the only way sona knows.
Yelling & fighting is not the solution for all the problems.

Honestly, those who are married, tell me something- would any husband
Like to hear anything bad about their mother?
That too to Dev !! He will be last person to listen to all this.
And sona is going to tell she is having some psychiatric problem.
That too soon after marriage??
Where this is heading towards??
Another separation ?

Sorry for the rant
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Posted: 8 years ago
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The negativity has certainly increased so I skip those parts and don't believe the spoilers just wait how the story unfolds or first read written update and decide whether to watch the episode or not 😊
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I thought the triangle would be handled differently when we get to it. but it is the same saas bahu crap shown on other channels.
As for Sona... I don't see her fighting or shouting at all. sona is honest straightforward and an educated girl who fell in love with a nice man. she comes for a very open, caring, loving family where kids can say whatever to their parents.. and not be scared of them.

what do you mean... if you husband would like to hear bad about MIL? i am married.. and he better... but not as a complain.. I don't think Sona ever did that. but a man with a brain who claims to love and respect his life partner needs to balance two women in his life.. PERIOD! if Ishwari hurts sona or makes her life miserable when Sona is doing all she can to build a relationship with her.. isn't it Dev's duty to make things better for her? It's her house too and her life too!!! She didn't marry him to be abused by his God MOther. Of course, ishwari has a psychiatric problem... she is overly possessive to the point to hurting Sona.. not physically, but emotionally and mentally.


You tell me.. which mothers gets their son to sign a prenup.. dhokhe se😡 a prenup that says the wife will have no rights on him or his money.. forget the money. and not only that.. their child that will be born out of the marriage will have no rights either... that's a sign of MENTAL DISORDER!!!! how regressive is this storyline and how crazy Ishwari is to plan and plot like a psycho?

i respect your POV, but you asked for other views.. and this is mine. I strongly disagree with the line of thinking.. that a girl shouldn't tell her husband if there are issues with MIL.

Edited by vibg - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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up.. dhokhe se😡 a prenup that says the wife will have no rights on him or his money.. forget the money. and not only that.. their child that will be born out of the marriage will have no rights either... that's a sign of MENTAL DISORDER!!!! how regressive is this storyline and how crazy Ishwari is to plan and plot like a psycho?
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CVs have mental disorder. Not Iswari. That is why Pre Nup is used to demean Iswari's already maligned Charecter.
Pre nup can not be signed in that way.
It is done with the acceptance of both the bride and groom in the presence of their lawyers.
Pre nup is meant to protect children's rights not to deprive them of their right to property
Iswari or Dev's lawyer can not add such clauses that are against children's rights.
Above all India still has not implemented Pre nup it is still in negotiations stage.

Without doing proper research using such an important legal agreement to create trouble in paradise that is called mental disorder.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Snehavinaya

I am an ardent fan of KRPKAB.
But, what to say , post marriage track is not
Very good. Sad to say this. From the look of it no positivity at all.
They chose to show reality. But in real life, surely there will be
Light moments in life.here one after the other only negative things.
No screen space for the couple.it is their story.
All we get to see is only iswari.
I loved this show till break up.
Now I am not sure.
When I say this I am also emotionally invested in this show.
It is sad that they are projecting more negativity.
I know it is entering the main plot.
But looks like fighting is the only way sona knows.
Yelling & fighting is not the solution for all the problems.

Honestly, those who are married, tell me something- would any husband
Like to hear anything bad about their mother?
That too to Dev !! He will be last person to listen to all this.
And sona is going to tell she is having some psychiatric problem.
That too soon after marriage??
Where this is heading towards??
Another separation ?

Sorry for the rant
Share your views


Just replying to the one in bold:

Whom did she fight with? With her husband, right? Didn't Dev fall in love with her fighting spirit in the first place? In the accident sequence, one of the dialogue I love the most is Dev telling Sona that he knows she is a fighter. From the moment they met they started fighting. But didn't their fights bring them closer? They understood each other this deeply through their fights. If we enjoyed those fights then what is making it unpalatable post marriage? Let them fight, yell do everything except keeping everything concealed and brushing the problems under the carpet which is the standard treatment for problems in Dixit family. Just like Dev doesn't have to screen his thoughts before speaking to Sona, she too should be able to be herself with him. Love doesn't judge but accept the way you are.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Here's the thing...
1. The show may be becoming negative/saas-bahu types and if that's the case we will know in a few days and some of us will stop watching the episodes
2. However, its quite possible that the serial remains true to its core - a love story where there is a mother with some issues

I am hoping its the 2nd.

Dev has never stood up for Sona his lover(except suddenly speaking up at muh dikhai). He only stood up for Dr Bose, his mother's nutritionist. Him and other characters have repeatedly said, "Sona is the only thing he as ever asked for himself" . He has always been the needy one in the relationship with a puppy face, a complex childhood-adolescence, been a provider to his family. There comes Sona, who needs nothing.. she is independent. She isn't complex.. she is predictable. She talks about love.. the kind of love that he hasn't been exposed to before. The one who validates his heart over head business decisions (20% loss at a factory etc etc). Neha and Dev think money is the solution to all problems. Their childhood experiences show that. Sona challenges that thinking and Dev falls in her love.

What did Sona like about Dev? He didn't tick any boxes as far as logic goes... Ritwick ticked those boxes. He was a Doctor, middle class, bengali, small family, no one expected her to cook etc etc.. they were equals. But the spark just wasn't there... Remember what she said to dada about how he quits his jobs.. that's the thing. She clicks with Dev. There is a spark. That SPARK is what will keep her going. I totally expect her to remain the giver in this relationship. The one who will bring clarity to his thoughts.

I actually went back and watched some old episodes and reminded myself that, that has always been their equation. I expect this saas bahu drama to continue while Sona does her thing(clear thinking, sensible talking and going weak in the knees when Dev comes close to kissing her) and Dev does his (puppy face, unclear thoughts and a hot husband)

Lets all stay hopeful
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: thedramaqueen

Here's the thing...

1. The show may be becoming negative/saas-bahu types and if that's the case we will know in a few days and some of us will stop watching the episodes
2. However, its quite possible that the serial remains true to its core - a love story where there is a mother with some issues

I am hoping its the 2nd.

Dev has never stood up for Sona his lover(except suddenly speaking up at muh dikhai). He only stood up for Dr Bose, his mother's nutritionist. Him and other characters have repeatedly said, "Sona is the only thing he as ever asked for himself" . He has always been the needy one in the relationship with a puppy face, a complex childhood-adolescence, been a provider to his family. There comes Sona, who needs nothing.. she is independent. She isn't complex.. she is predictable. She talks about love.. the kind of love that he hasn't been exposed to before. The one who validates his heart over head business decisions (20% loss at a factory etc etc). Neha and Dev think money is the solution to all problems. Their childhood experiences show that. Sona challenges that thinking and Dev falls in her love.

What did Sona like about Dev? He didn't tick any boxes as far as logic goes... Ritwick ticked those boxes. He was a Doctor, middle class, bengali, small family, no one expected her to cook etc etc.. they were equals. But the spark just wasn't there... Remember what she said to dada about how he quits his jobs.. that's the thing. She clicks with Dev. There is a spark. That SPARK is what will keep her going. I totally expect her to remain the giver in this relationship. The one who will bring clarity to his thoughts.

I actually went back and watched some old episodes and reminded myself that, that has always been their equation. I expect this saas bahu drama to continue while Sona does her thing(clear thinking, sensible talking and going weak in the knees when Dev comes close to kissing her) and Dev does his (puppy face, unclear thoughts and a hot husband)

Lets all stay hopeful

wow never thought this way 😃
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: ltelidevara

up.. dhokhe se😡 a prenup that says the wife will have no rights on him or his money.. forget the money. and not only that.. their child that will be born out of the marriage will have no rights either... that's a sign of MENTAL DISORDER!!!! how regressive is this storyline and how crazy Ishwari is to plan and plot like a psycho?

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CVs have mental disorder. Not Iswari. That is why Pre Nup is used to demean Iswari's already maligned Charecter.
Pre nup can not be signed in that way.
It is done with the acceptance of both the bride and groom in the presence of their lawyers.
Pre nup is meant to protect children's rights not to deprive them of their right to property
Iswari or Dev's lawyer can not add such clauses that are against children's rights.
Above all India still has not implemented Pre nup it is still in negotiations stage.

Without doing proper research using such an important legal agreement to create trouble in paradise that is called mental disorder.


we are discussing characters, not the writers.. right? Ishwari is a fictional character created by writers. I understand what a preunp is how contracts work. when they are valid and not valid. in this case.. invalid! its upto the writers to write what they want, and how they want a character.. doesn't matter if prenup is valid or not.. the point is Ishwari is capable of committing fraud, lying, manipulating, whatever... to make herself look good, mahaan.

Ishwari is a bad character.. she is the villain in the story😆 ishwari is what they call.. meethi churi. jo smile karte karte, mitha bolte bolte, apnon ko bhi churi bhok degi😉

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Snehavinaya

They chose to show reality. But in real life, surely there will be
Light moments in life.here one after the other only negative things.
No screen space for the couple.it is their story.


Although initially the show was promoted in that way but yeah. light moments b/w the couple would be good to see. After all they have just gotten hitched.

Originally posted by: Snehavinaya

But looks like fighting is the only way sona knows.
Yelling & fighting is not the solution for all the problems.


I feel Sona was just being bluntly honest about what was going on in her mind, She comes from a open and frank family and as someone has already mentioned, they can speak freely in front of their parents.

Originally posted by: Snehavinaya

Honestly, those who are married, tell me something- would any husband
Like to hear anything bad about their mother?


As a married woman, I'm sharing my views - My husband and I, since day 1, have dediced to have an honest r/l. If I feel his mother or anyone else in the family has done/said something hurtful or intentionally, I tell him openly - no matter who the person is. The same is applicable to me. If he feels bad/hurt by statements or actions done by someone from my family (although generally in India, this happens quite less) he can speak to me frankly about it.

It may lead to tension in that short span, but it's much better than bottling feelings inside. No girl or even boy should need to put up with anything that is affecting them adversely in any r/l. That's why I could relate and even liked Sonakshi's response. She put all the cards out in the open, she didn't act like she was "mahaan". This adds to the realism of the story.

I agree there is negativity with the Ishwari scenes but I feel the cvs will balance it out.
Edited by ErisedWitch45 - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Prenuptial agreement is a very common thing among such high net worth individuals. Think about this, what if a woman actually does marry Dev for money and 2 yrs down the line wants 50% share in a business that belongs to dev, his sisters and his mother? whether the business was build by Dev alone or because of sacrifices done by the whole family, is a different matter altogether. The fact remains, that the Dixits need to protect themselves. Ishwari's ways were wrong, but getting a prenup in place is the right thing to do. Remember, she did whatever it took to protect her kids for 15 years. We still dont know what the 'daag' is that Khatri referred to. What was that one mistake that she had to make under her dire circumstances??

This is another colour of love. I totally expect Sona to blast out when she finds out. More masala for drama.

The prenup holds no meaning now that Sona hasn't signed it (unless it was again done stealthily and we will see that in flashback later on) and they have had a civil marriage and technically could have consummated as well. Dev's lawyers only did half a job to be honest. I dont know who else sits on the board of Ishwari communications, but they should fire the legal team.

What Dev's signatures will give Ishwari is, power to one day pick a battle with Sona. I doubt that they will bring prenup into the mix yet. It was shown to add some tension and will be used later if needed to help bring drama into the picture
Edited by thedramaqueen - 8 years ago

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