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Originally posted by: pkbdas61
what you have written is true for all mother - child relationships. This is not special for Ishwari or Dev. it is also true for ishwari - neha, riya, nikki as well as Asha - Sona, Saurabh.. This is the fundamental law of life. Likewise, the relationship between wife and husband is also fundamental and above the parent - child relationship. Now that Dev and Sona are married, they are ONE.. Dev needs to give his wife more priority than even his mother.
honestly, i am not able to understand Ishwari- Dev relationship at all now. It has gone beyond all my understanding where mom expects herself to be above even his wife.
Yes its true for all parents, thats why I wrote I wont term it as ehsaan.
But I wont say Wife Husband relationship is above parent child. Thats an issue I guess which leads to further issues. When you weigh one relationship more than the other, especially in these case where both the relationships are equally important and sensitive.
Each Relationship in our life has its own value and that cannot be compared to another. Many things that I can share with my Parents I can't with my partner. Likewise for other relationships.
Every relationship requires a different treatment but value shud remain the same.
Here Dev needs to prioritize things between both the ladies. Certain things Sona requires more priority and certain things/ days Ishu. Thats why we say Balance is required.
I can fully understand Dev Ishwari relationship for the reason that the writers have sketched their characters so well, have shown their background, their growth and consistency in their characters. Mayb thats the reason I never hated Ishu.
Mother is not expecting herself above wife, she is expecting herself to be the only one. Her level is above the first level for her.
Level one mayb Sona but Ishu doesnt fall under a level category.
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