The ICE-COLD Reality!!! - Page 5

Originally posted by: AnnzSageflower7

i hate to be in the position I have been dreading for weeks. To say to Sona, "Didn't we all tell you this would happen? " 😭

Funny how, her brain cells got a big jolt into working properly right after wedding ceremonies. Since then she's been sharpnin reading every wayward word. Too late ,Sona.

Now, you'll be the recipient and symbol of everything that's wrong. Everything will be your fault. I sympathise with you but you have sailed into choppy waters and you have to sail through it to survive. Going back is no longer an option.

I hate it that (like me) unpleasant memories will fill her mind every time she thinks of her wedding.

For me too, things quickly became shitty after the wedding. i felt abandoned and lost for months.

I dunno if i can bear to relive it through Sona again.

Originally posted by: tia.o

<font color="#660066" size="3">God forbid, CVs would veer away from same old saas-bahu formula. That's the only way they know to sell a story. You can keep hoping, but I kind of have lost my faith.</font>

Originally posted by: tia.o

<font color="#6633ff" size="3">Very sorry to hear about your experience. Every woman dreams about their wedding since they are little girls when they don't even know what that means. That one day which is her day. That's why I got so pissed off when other people were treating her wedding as their own to establish their preferences and choices. I was even more upset when the first look of her started with an insult and her day ended with taunts and more insults. What was worse is that Dev expects her to believe that she is loved there. In what alternate reality this guy is living on? Is this how a loved one should be treated? Dev needs to get his brain checked first.</font>

Originally posted by: tia.o

To answer your question, in my opinion, it's the fault of the devotee and the toy.

The devotee should not have demanded a living human being as a toy from his Goddess like a blessing.

The toy should not have been stupid enough to fall for the tricks of the Goddess when the devotee never proved that he has learned from his previous mistakes.

The Goddess never changed nor she will ever change. If the devotee is unable to see her truth and the toy is able to see yet fall for her tricks, then she is not at fault, they are.

Originally posted by: tia.o

I am from Kolkata. Muh dikhai doesn't happen in Bengali culture either.

But in North Indian culture it happens. The bride is covered with a large pally and the ladies get to peek under it and give gifts or nek or shagun...

Here's why I got pissed off at the precap. The purpose of the Muh Dikhai is to show off the bride. So everyone got to see the bride. Just because they did not get to lift the pallu so what? Dev didn't get to do that in his wedding night either.

Secondly, look at the round stairs. Can anyone walk with their face covered down those steps in silk saree which is slippery? Instead of Muh Dikhai it could have turned into neck tudvai.

But of course, that also has to be the indication of her ability to run a household.

I wish Sona answered, "Why don't you tell your Ishwari to hand over the reign and see if I can manage the household?"

Originally posted by: _dkmystery_

Brilliant balanced analysis, without being a blind fan of any character.

Originally posted by: sajinifaby

a real toy is not human..and so it cannot see...hence what u wrote will be nullified...

devotee should realise.. toy distracts his devotion...and he should not need the toy as long as he wants to be a devotee..

hence devotee alone is at fault...😃

Goddess has given the toy to not make her bhakt loose trust in her..😉