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ltelidevara

@ltelidevara

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Posted: 8 years ago

Iswari should know of Sona's condition. Ofcourse Dev did a blunder by hiding the information from Sona. But as a mother Iswari also has the right. It is not a couple issue. It deals with the legacy of Dikshit family. At this point of time the marriage would never be cancelled even if the truth is known to Iswari. But what is surprising? Previously also Dev deceived his mother by not telling about his affair. But in the present context he just behaved only thinking about Sonakshi's temporary happiness. You know our Sastras always said that Indians are different in these aspects.

For Indians Marriage definitely is ordained for the sake of continuation of race. But they never said only a son born through wife will be the flag bearer of the clan. They said if the person can not have a son by his wife he can adopt. The adopted son also will be the successor without doubt.

If a man has only a daughter then her son Dauhitr will be the successor.For instance in Mahabharat Chitrangada's father asks Arjun to offer his son Babhruvahan as his successor. He gives.

It is said " People should speak less for the sake of speaking truth

They should earn money for the sake of charity.

They should get married for the sake of children.

Prajayai Grihamedhinam that is specifically told.

So in such instances like we have in KRPK definitely family members will get involved to find a solution.Ofcourse the in laws reaction may sometimes be positive or sometimes negative.Leave alone in laws in some cases we see the man marry again to have children.

Finally it is not a matter to hide. Not from Sona not from Iswari.

I know most of the people who watch KRPK hate Iswari. Still Iswari as the mother has the right to know. It is a mother's due.

I wonder why no one from Bose family including Sonakshi did not bother to see the reports.

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Jyoti Thakur

@JyotiBThakur

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Posted: 8 years ago

No one from Bose family bothered to see the report because Dev assured nothing is there in the reports and it was only due to stress.

And before Ishwari... Sona has the right to know the truth. Because first and the foremost thing is, it is about her. And Dev is in a lot of pain at this point of time. He don't want to spoil their happiness. Both Sona and Ishwari's. He love both of the equally and the first thought that came in his mind was of both of them. Then again he want the wedding to take place peacefully. He can tell them about it afterwards too.

As you have said the wedding will not be canceled now anyways. So if he wants it to go smooth, there's no problem in it. Its not that he want to hide it from them. He himself said it cannot be kept hidden for a long time. But for now, he want the wedding ceremonies to go smooth.

This is Solely my POV.😊

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Silambu

@Silambu

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: JyotiBThakur
No one from Bose family bothered to see the report because Dev assured nothing is there in the reports and it was only due to stress.

And before Ishwari... Sona has the right to know the truth. Because first and the foremost thing is, it is about her. And Dev is in a lot of pain at this point of time. He don't want to spoil their happiness. Both Sona and Ishwari's. He love both of the equally and the first thought that came in his mind was of both of them. Then again he want the wedding to take place peacefully. He can tell them about it afterwards too.

As you have said the wedding will not be canceled now anyways. So if he wants it to go smooth, there's no problem in it. Its not that he want to hide it from them. He himself said it cannot be kept hidden for a long time. But for now, he want the wedding ceremonies to go smooth.

This is Solely my POV.😊

Agree with you on this completely !

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WeRockTheWorld

@WeRockTheWorld

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: JyotiBThakur
No one from Bose family bothered to see the report because Dev assured nothing is there in the reports and it was only due to stress.

And before Ishwari... Sona has the right to know the truth. Because first and the foremost thing is, it is about her. And Dev is in a lot of pain at this point of time. He don't want to spoil their happiness. Both Sona and Ishwari's. He love both of the equally and the first thought that came in his mind was of both of them. Then again he want the wedding to take place peacefully. He can tell them about it afterwards too.

As you have said the wedding will not be canceled now anyways. So if he wants it to go smooth, there's no problem in it. Its not that he want to hide it from them. He himself said it cannot be kept hidden for a long time. But for now, he want the wedding ceremonies to go smooth.

This is Solely my POV.😊

Agreed !! Sona should know first . This is related to her health issue and then her parents should also be told. They raised this girl with a lot of affection and in future something happens to her they will never be able to forgive themselves for this.

Ishwari is the last person that I would worry. In fact when she hears abt this she can and might go against marriage. She is one character I wouldnt trust . The whole vedic concept of adoption is good but majority wont like their son getting married to a girl who has fertility issues. My heart says Ishwari might not agree and even if she does then she might show her true colour post marriage.

Regarding Dev , I understand his POV. He wants to keep her happy and not steal the happiest moment of her life by breaking this news. I feel he will tell her but not sure when. I just hope she doesnt come to know abt her health issue thru some one...like Neha getting the file and creating a problem...I said this because our CV team is moving from reality zone to melodramatic tracks.

As far as decision of wanting to have a kid or not ...that according to me its a call the couples have to take and parents/in laws have no right to force their decisions.

PS : Sona or her parents didnt check the report because they trusted Dev . They never thought he would hide. Also looks like this is the first time she is having this issue so they are also not aware of a serious health issue she has.

Edited by WeRockTheWorld - 8 years ago

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dundumol96

@dundumol96

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Posted: 8 years ago

I don't think so...
In older days they married only for the purpose of children... In Ramayana Dasarath had 3 wifes because his first wife didn't pregnant... Then second one and same with third one
What I am trying to say is they first try... Both physically and medically...
Marriage is more than give birth to children...

Firstly its sona's right to know not Iswari...

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fanktlk

@fanktlk

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Posted: 8 years ago

I really dont' see why Ishwari should know about it... There is no reason. Even if Dev was her only son... There is still no reason why Ishwari should know... They may choose to tell her after marriage whenever they are ready in a couple of years... but it's not Ishwari's right to know.

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sompita shet

@sompi123

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Posted: 8 years ago

Do you think Ishwari won't mind anything after knowing sona's truth?.. Is she that modern? What about dadi bua?... If Dev tells the truth to them there'll be a huge problem created in their marriage!... And first sona need to know about her condition not Ishwari...in my knowledge if someone get to know before marriage that their would be daughter in law has some gynec problem and she cannot conceive they'll not hesitate to even cancel the marriage... It's different thing if the in laws of the girl is like poonam's in laws in vivah movie... And sorry to disagree but Ishwari has no right to know about this right now.. Devakshi can tell her about that when they are ready to say... And what will be the effects on sona's health because of this problem is much more important than giving birth to a child

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Monalisa(Hundi..my mom gave this name :)..

@Monaleojan

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Posted: 8 years ago

He is afraid of yar lossing Sonakhsi once again..! And Sona and Iswari Smile is his world..most precious thing...

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ltelidevara

@ltelidevara

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Posted: 8 years ago

I think you missed the second line in my post where I said Sona should know. Then Iswari also has the right because it is about Dev's children. Why DadiBua is dragged into this? Did Iswari consult her when she accepted the alliance of Sona? No. She just came to bless Dev. That's all.

I don't think Dev would cancel the marriage at this point of time. Iswari also won't dare to do that. Dev's line Tumhe Sehna Padega Maa indicates this fact.

I always said in different posts that Dev should reveal the truth before marriage only and sought medical help.That I won't change.

As for Iswari knowing it through Dev she has the right to know. Whether she accepts or refuses still she has the right to know.

CVs just handled the whole issue without conviction. No Doctor will reveal it to just a Fiance. Never.

Bijoy taking the matter lightly without seeing the reports,Sona not bothering to ask her Doctor why she got such severe pain,Asha not worried about what could be the reason of such pain..all these are against reasoning.

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WeRockTheWorld

@WeRockTheWorld

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Posted: 8 years ago

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Originally posted by: ltelidevara
I think you missed the second line in my post where I said Sona should know. Then Iswari also has the right because it is about Dev's children. Why DadiBua is dragged into this? Did Iswari consult her when she accepted the alliance of Sona? No. She just came to bless Dev. That's all.
I don't think Dev would cancel the marriage at this point of time. Iswari also won't dare to do that. Dev's line Tumhe Sehna Padega Maa indicates this fact.
I always said in different posts that Dev should reveal the truth before marriage only and sought medical help.That I won't change.
As for Iswari knowing it through Dev she has the right to know. Whether she accepts or refuses still she has the right to know.

CVs just handled the whole issue without conviction. No Doctor will reveal it to just a Fiance. Never.
Bijoy taking the matter lightly without seeing the reports,Sona not bothering to ask her Doctor why she got such severe pain,Asha not worried about what could be the reason of such pain..all these are against reasoning.

Well our show has moved into a predictable type show. Logic, reality , reasoning and research doesnt matter any more. What matters is follow the trend and TRP.

Regarding the infertility track, they have flawed on the basics itself. High fever and acute pain because of an inhospitable uterus means acute infection...needs medication and she is a dr. looking at the tabs she will understand what it is for ?? Here disappears the logic...now coming to the statement from the Dr ...she suffering since her childhood...how come she survived all the while with no symptoms at all?? suddenly just before her marriage it crops up ?? I can still understand if they had shown this track after a miscarriage...let us not even try to reason this part and win !!

Ishwari will eventually know ...he didnt tell her because he feared she would stop him from marrying Sona and he didnt want any last minute glitches for his wedding. It is after a lot of pain and misery he has got back his love and he is very selfish when it comes to her affection. He wont let it go easily now...he will tell his mom and Sona...not sure when...

CVs will give us another melodrama for this one...

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